Update!
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So for those who didn't know, Chelsi and I broke up about a week ago. Generally speaking, I'm not upset about it, but there was a lot of stupid stuff that happened that I generally don't understand and really don't care to understand.
I was informed, basically, that she was "too needy" for me and that I was "too good for her," and consequently she decided to break up with me. Asking how I could fix this to prevent a total collapse of the relationship, I was informed it was too complicated for me to understand, issues out of other relationships and other family situations, and that I really wouldn't be able to help much with anything.
This, oddly enough, came out of a confrontation she had attempted to have with me at work earlier in the evening, criticizing me of not being able to compromise enough, and apparently always being a bit of an ass when it comes to agreeing even on minor details. To that I disagreed, but she left angry, and me already being at work, I already had too much crap to care about as it was. With plenty of time to think (the store was already trashed), I pretty much expected the breakup by the end of the evening, and it was true.
The reason why I'm not upset, basically, is that I don't have enough time to deal with this right now between school and work, so I really didn't feel like putting fourth the effort to fix anything. Although we agreed to be friends, she often seems to be quite upset with me, generally someone confrontational at work, but I never play into it. Being nice, to some extent seems to be upsetting her further... As if I'm supposed to be overly depressed or something that we broke up, fighting to get her back or something... But I just don't feel like it.
I've been under suspicion now for a few days that a good friend of mine may have been a catalyst for what had happened. Chelsi had made note before that she doesn't always get along with other girls well, and me having many really good friends that are girls (one that I'd almost consider a sister) may have been a big step in the wrong direction after they had met. That too is a long story, but what it came down to is that Chelsi seems to think that she likes me too much as a friend, and didn't like her attitude towards her during the dinner/meeting. Little does she know that shes coming to work with me during Winter Break, so I'm sure that will knock over the "S-Pot" I'm sure.
Needless to say, I'm almost 21 and shes only 18... Fresh out of High School (not a very good one), not in a particularly great college (the local county community school), and generally not having a great attitude towards life. While I did criticize her for some of her quirks (I told her that I didn't think she was very tolerant of people who are different, she gives up far too easily, is far too hard on herself, etc), I had hoped to help her become a better person in the long-run, but I suppose I was wrong. Like a friend of mine had warned, she was a bit too immature for me, and I just didn't see it.
So, still working together, I'm giving her space until she eases down just a bit. She hasn't been particularly friendly, despite me doing so, but whatever. I still think of her as a good friend, a great run of a relationship for the first few weeks, but ending on a semi-sour note. Nothing much I personally could do I suppose, but I just don't feel like fixing it now.
