She said "yes"

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Congratulations, have a nice life you two, may you always be happy with one another.

Anyways, what is all this stuff about not wanting kids?

My Uncle and Aunt are married, and they don't want any kids either, and this is tempting fate, but as of now, they SHOULDN'T be having any I don't think...

Being 15yrs old, I know practically nothing bout relationships and crap, seeing as no-one has ever gone out with me. I haven't had a Girlfriend EVER, and I'm still here waiting for the right one, someone who I can share my life with and possibly grow old with.

And to be honest, I don't want any kids either, my Mum says I will change my mind when I discover what 'SEX' is.

She'd know, she has 7 of us horrible kids!



Still, congrats anyway, I hope you two spend the longest time with each other and are very happy being in love...
 
ash6660
Being 15yrs old, I know practically nothing bout relationships ...
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Honest people are hard to come by. And to be painfully honest, you will probably still not know anything about relationships until you've gone through a few of your own. My suggestion is date a lot, get serious with few, fall in love with one.

DO NOT GET MARRIED BEFORE YOU ARE READY.

People change over time and the most dramatic changes come during big events in their lives. Graduating high school is one, college is another. Getting their first 'big job' and experiencing 'real life' is another. Loss of parents and siblings is yet another. The best time to let yourself get serious and fall in love with someone is when both of you are past the majority of those points. I would not even think of proposing while I was still experiencing "college life".

I have been working for the same major advertising firm for six years now. My life is pretty stable. Until my family starts dieing off, I don't see any changes in my personality. My fiance is currently working on her master's degree. Five years ago she did a lot of "growing up" when her mother experienced a traumatic stroke. Even though she's spent a fraction of the time in the work environment that I have, she has done a lot of different growing up. I think we're both who we're going to be for the rest of our lives. For us it was time to make commitments or move on.

So now we'll be married in ... three months. Actually, about 92 days from this very moment we will have been married for four hours.
 
LoudMusic
Honest people are hard to come by. And to be painfully honest, you will probably still not know anything about relationships until you've gone through a few of your own. My suggestion is date a lot, get serious with few, fall in love with one.

DO NOT GET MARRIED BEFORE YOU ARE READY.

Advice of a genius!
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LoudMusic
My suggestion is date a lot, get serious with few, fall in love with one.
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Or do what I did. Get very lucky and marry the first woman I dated. Six and a half years, two dogs, two houses and one child later... I'll take it and do it all over.

Congrats on the Pre-Three Month Anniversary.:sly: What do you get for that? Steel? Fiberglass? PVC?
 
TB
Or do what I did. Get very lucky and marry the first woman I dated. Six and a half years, two dogs, two houses and one child later... I'll take it and do it all over.

Congrats on the Pre-Three Month Anniversary.:sly: What do you get for that? Steel? Fiberglass? PVC?
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Thanks (: And right now we're sticking with round sheets of plastic. Star Trek DVDs to be exact (:
 
And so it begins. Her computer desk and associated apperatus have been moved to my house, along with a small collection of clothing and bathroom supplies. It's a bit strange, having her stuff in my house, but it's not bad. Just strange. The mixing of personal possesions is a completely new experience. I think there's a line in a song about that.

I cranked up my music, as I often do, and she says to me, "what if I want to listen to my own music?" I bluntly replied, "Get some good headphones?" with a wink.
 
And you're still alive? You better hang on to this one. :lol:
 
You married the first girl you met?! Holy crap, that must be amazing. I don't think I'll be that lucky....
 
Met? No. Dated? Yes. More than a little lucky, I'll admit.
 
PS
You married the first girl you met?! Holy crap, that must be amazing. I don't think I'll be that lucky....
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Hrm, close, but no cigar. TB appears to be closer but I don't know what question he was answering (:

She is the first real relationship I've had. I've dated a few other girls but this just makes sense. Everything works.
 
LoudMusic
Hrm, close, but no cigar. TB appears to be closer but I don't know what question he was answering (:

She is the first real relationship I've had. I've dated a few other girls but this just makes sense. Everything works.
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Oh, yah, I was talking about TB. But you sort of did that too? Wow.
 
If PS wasn't talking to me, I retract my previous post. If he was, the post stays.

Never mind.
 

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