The General Relationship Thread

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Well okay, because of the language barrier, my previous post is a bit misunderstood. I meant that she really, really cares about me and really want something serious. Not to the point of "love" but yeah on the way to there i guess.

Actually after i posted that post, we talk and talk again. It seems like we're gonna go somewhere if this goes well.

@Johnnypenso i will definitely try making it official by asking her out for real. Got nothing to lose here and also what you said is right on.

There is chemistry, i was really, really awkward when i hang out with her the first time. But she just keeps on going and after that first meet, i feel comfortable going out with her and she does too.

I did feel worried by her advances at first because as overdramatic as it sounds, she's definitely the first girl to ever do these advances to me. It felt unreal for me too back then so i thought she was just really friendly. Turns out it's more than that.

Wish me luck guys. If this fails then oh well, story of my life.
 
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V0RT3X
Sounds like you need to talk to each other about what you're looking for in a relationship.

@W3HS for me it's the opposite. I have been asked out by a girl a few times before but I have never asked a girl out before, which somewhat explains my predicament

Maybe I need to ask her out on a day when she isn't looking as good as usual. :lol: The problem there is that sge almost always looks good! Haha. Today her hair was done up nicely and she was wearing just a standard green staff smock, but it was somewhat form fitting so I was able to see her overall figure. Much drooling and staring occured as a result. :lol:
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Honestly how much do you see her, or how often are you around her and interacting with her?
 
W3HS
That sounds like a good plan. Not only would it be the first time a girl asked me out, it'd also be probably the first time in history a woman had asked out a man on the internet.

Can I say "I'll think about it..." and play hard to get?
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By "I'll think about it..." Are you referring to the type of thinking guys do in this thread? :lol:
 
Cale
Honestly how much do you see her, or how often are you around her and interacting with her?
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She has been working up front a lot more lately so I see her quite a lot every weekday. We seem to be much more comfortable around each other latley so I get to interact with her a decent amount. Of course we both have work to do so I can't spent all of my time around her, but I talk to her pretty much every chance I get.
 
V0RT3X
She has been working up front a lot more lately so I see her quite a lot every weekday. We seem to be much more comfortable around each other latley so I get to interact with her a decent amount. Of course we both have work to do so I can't spent all of my time around her, but I talk to her pretty much every chance I get.
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What are you waiting for exactly?
 
V0RT3X
I'm not waiting for anything. I'm procrastinating about it I guess you could say.
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"Get out of your head". What he meant was, that at a certain point you are thinking too much and it's time for action. I see a lot of you guys could use that same advice because, IMO, you think too much
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:cheers:
 
V0RT3X
I'm not waiting for anything. I'm procrastinating about it I guess you could say.
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V0RT3X
She has been working up front a lot more lately so I see her quite a lot every weekday. We seem to be much more comfortable around each other latley so I get to interact with her a decent amount. Of course we both have work to do so I can't spent all of my time around her, but I talk to her pretty much every chance I get.
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Is it possible that the frequency in which you see her and interact with her is mitigating any sense of urgency or motivation to actually ask to see her outside of work. To me it seems like this is making you more complacent, but the more you wait the closer you are to just becoming a friendly work colleague to her. It could even be the same situation where she genuinely likes to see you, but since you interact multiple times a day already she may feel like there's no reason to see you outside of work. For example something funny or crazy happens, you two might just think to yourselves oh I'll see him/her tomorrow at works I'll just tell the story then! Bit of a lame example yes, but that's just one simple situation.
 
Hollow
By "I'll think about it..." Are you referring to the type of thinking guys do in this thread? :lol:
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I believe it is going to go as far as

"She kissed me and tried to hold hands with me, she even told me that she'd like to be in a relationship with me... What could it mean? Does she like me? I'm thinking I will think on planning on going on a date but I don't want to get rejected, what do I do guys?!!??!?!!?"
 
Cale
Is it possible that the frequency in which you see her and interact with her is mitigating any sense of urgency or motivation to actually ask to see her outside of work. To me it seems like this is making you more complacent, but the more you wait the closer you are to just becoming a friendly work colleague to her. It could even be the same situation where she genuinely likes to see you, but since you interact multiple times a day already she may feel like there's no reason to see you outside of work. For example something funny or crazy happens, you two might just think to yourselves oh I'll see him/her tomorrow at works I'll just tell the story then! Bit of a lame example yes, but that's just one simple situation.
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We have only been interacting more frequently at work since last week. I won't see her much now. However I do feel like that is starting to happen.
 
AJHG1000
I believe it is going to go as far as

"She kissed me and tried to hold hands with me, she even told me that she'd like to be in a relationship with me... What could it mean? Does she like me? I'm thinking I will think on planning on going on a date but I don't want to get rejected, what do I do guys?!!??!?!!?"
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#wrekt


you should know who you are but probably not, judging by the fact this post even has to exist.
 
GTboyz
So i'm finally in a relationship with the girl. It felt weird, this is my first one so i feel like... Weird i guess?
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Congratulations man! :cheers:

For me.. it's complicated, once I make up my mind and get my facts straight I'll make a post about it.
 
GTboyz
So i'm finally in a relationship with the girl. It felt weird, this is my first one so i feel like... Weird i guess?
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My little boy's growing up so fast. :nervous:

Update on my situation: She's gonna be management and her relationship status seems to be clearer (I think, not gonna play my hand just yet, coincidentally at a time where I'm gonna start looking elsewhere for work).
 
I've been with two girls in the past six years or so that both clicked. The problem is I'm a bloody idiot when it comes to relationships and they both hate my guts now...But let me break this down, because I'm willing to admit this.

So, girl 1. Met her through a animation program/website we will refer to as Hatena, since the service has long since been cut. The two of us were on and off for three years, and every single fight started with her violently disagreeing with something I unwittingly said. It got so bad that I just shattered mentally and emotionally by the end of the third year. The worst part about it is, she liked me a hell of a lot better in person.

Girl 2 was also through Hatena. She and I got along famously, since we were both gamers and dorks. We were very close. What happened here...Well, it really hurts me to admit this in such a public place because I try to be good, but...I started becoming abusive and didn't realize it. Yes. I ruined the wonderful relationship I had with her because of my own obliviousness and stupidity. But by the end of it, she became the abuser and I just decided to get out of there because she found one of those, uh..."fudge"boys and started trying to rub it in my face.

But, well...I'm basically an idiot with relationships.

Edit: ...Please help?
 
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I haven't been able to talk to her much lately. Last week and monday were my best chances and I squandered them sadly.
 

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