The General Relationship Thread

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I wouldn't worry too much about it, which is easier said than done I know. But you could literally drive yourself nuts thinking about it, so fire up some video games to distract yourself and enjoy your evening in!!
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Yep. I had a sad moment early today, mostly because this week I said goodbye completely to that other girl... and well, emotions got mixed... Fear or rejection, all that stuff... :(

I mean, this new girl is the 1st completely different girl I ask out for the 1st time in YEARS... LITERALLY...

I still like my odds... Like I told my sis today, I'm trying to start anew with my sentimental life after all these years chasing the impossible...

I must not back down... I must concentrate... I must be ME... :)

And most importantly... chill the 🤬 out, forget my past, forget aaaaall the fears and bad experiences of the last 3-4 years and prepare for a new day...
 
It still REALLY sucks when the ex emails me every now and then. She usually doesn't talk about her new boyfriend but doesn't hide it either. Sometimes I think it would be easier if we never talked again but we both decided that there was no way I could stay and no way she could move with me across the country, therefore we shouldn't abandon our friendship based on a mutual agreement. But my god does it hurt when we talk. I guess maybe one day it won't....
 
Is it me or is it annoying when your in a great coversation and.... Le gf falls asleep. She's done this a billion times :grumpy: Appparently girls think its cute..
 
TheKitten
Is it me or is it annoying when your in a great coversation and.... Le gf falls asleep. She's done this a billion times :grumpy: Appparently girls think its cute..
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Ohh yes... the "sorry, I fell asleep yesterday" line... horrible... that other girl did that 7 out out of 6 times... And always the same excuse. "Sorry, I had a bad day and I was super tired"... At first I understood it, but then it got annoying... :grumpy:
I also have bad days but I never said no to a conversation or dropped one in the middle of it just because I was tired...

With her, I could never be sick or have a bad day, BUT she could, and I had to shut my mouth every single time... :grumpy:.. No wonder I ended up dropping her... (took me a while, but I did it in the end :P)
 
Kinda got friendzoned.


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Sucks SO much. Especially when it's done through text. Time to move along.
 
TheKitten
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Gauge her interest.
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She answered with a question about minor employment then I told her I tried applying at a Anime store when I was 12, she was like You like Anime... then I told her, the content is different from Western Shows. She apparently liked the answer.

Notice how often she touches you.
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We come into few feet but she keeps her distance

Observe how she looks at you.
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 Often catching her smiling at me
Look directly at her.
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I often do. Still reminds me of Felicia Day..

Help her out.
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Tried buying her drinks but she is a bit picky, though I kept the offer. I got her water though.
Make sure you look and smell nice.
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Hard to do it while at work, especially on Black Friday

She may just be friendly and already has a boyfriend :lol:
I shouldn't I often do. I always look at her straight in the face.
 
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TheKitten
Is it me or is it annoying when your in a great coversation and.... Le gf falls asleep. She's done this a billion times :grumpy: Appparently girls think its cute..
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I may be the weird guy but I find it cute .. it could also be because we always chat until either one falls asleep (which usually happens at 12 A.M. or close) then continue to chat in the morning.
 
Well, I'd love to talk about relationships, but being one of the only openly gay guys in a conservative high school isn't exactly going to help.

I've never actually been in a relationship, which I guess is pathetic considering I'm 18...I have had some...odd experiences, to say the least. I feel lonely a lot at school; surrounded by girls clinging to jocks, or the occasional couple you can just tell is going to get married.

So yeah. Sorry for being a downer. :indiff:
 
I just listened to it :)

Sucks after 10 months. She banged into my head she was never leavin then BAM.

She always said it was until we both get our lives straightened out.

Bitch you either love me or you don't. Make up your mind. I'm not going to let you just come running back whenever you please only to have you do it all over again. Not happening.

Besides the fact that I've now lost the most supportive person in my life regarding the issues I've been going through. Yeah thanks for being there for me. Does wonders for me [/sarcasm]

Whatever. Maybe it wasn't meant to be. Bothered me all day though. Especially when you get that close. Oh well I guess it ended on a good note. Neither of us is really pissed at the other.
 
VanquishedFox
Well, I'd love to talk about relationships, but being one of the only openly gay guys in a conservative high school isn't exactly going to help.

I've never actually been in a relationship, which I guess is pathetic considering I'm 18...I have had some...odd experiences, to say the least. I feel lonely a lot at school; surrounded by girls clinging to jocks, or the occasional couple you can just tell is going to get married.

So yeah. Sorry for being a downer. :indiff:
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If you're going to a university things may get better. Generally people hide their true intentions in high school to avoid getting a-lot of 'Flack' for how they truly are. I've been told and somewhat experienced from my friends university that people roll in their own groups of like people. You say you're 18, so I'm assuming you're a senior. Buckle down and hold on for the rest of the year and try and make as many friends as you can, even if they are weird or may come off as an asshole because what I learned is that the true friends are the ones that come back and ask if you want to hang out during the breaks (thanksgiving ect.) Don't cordon yourself off from people also. I learned that one friends started dating this guy during high school, and I noticed that he at one point completely avoided me. I didn't really care about what he was doing.. I guess it's cool that we're still friends. Anyways. Try and make the best of it. 👍


Slashfan
I just listened to it :)

Sucks after 10 months. She banged into my head she was never leavin then BAM.

She always said it was until we both get our lives straightened out.

Bitch you either love me or you don't. Make up your mind. I'm not going to let you just come running back whenever you please only to have you do it all over again. Not happening.

Besides the fact that I've now lost the most supportive person in my life regarding the issues I've been going through. Yeah thanks for being there for me. Does wonders for me [/sarcasm]

Whatever. Maybe it wasn't meant to be. Bothered me all day though. Especially when you get that close. Oh well I guess it ended on a good note. Neither of us is really pissed at the other.
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Feels excruciating doesn't it? Same thing basically happened to me except she didn't really say she wanted to have a real relationship. We talked about everything and did everything together. We went to each other when we needed anything. The games man, the games.
 
Honestly, it really did sting. I wasn't expecting it either...I mean I respect her reasons though. She basically told me she wants time off until her and I get stable and everything worked out like jobs, cars etc. She knows my deepest secrets. Everything about me, nothings hidden.

I don't know if I can feel that way with anyone else.

I don't really know if I can go back to her.
 
VanquishedFox
I've never actually been in a relationship, which I guess is pathetic considering I'm 18...
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Never been in one too, and I'm 21.


Today, the only girl that I really liked so far, send me a text, saying that she was seeing a guy that I know. (Not really my friend, but my friends hang out with him a lot, so you get the point). I became speechless for a few minutes. Couldn't really think of anything, other that "Why?".

I still changed a few texts with her, and she asked something that I still can't find an answer. If I wanted her to back off of my life. (I hope you get what I'm saying, since English isn't my native language)

On one side, I do because only thinking of her with that guy makes me feel bad, almost sick, but on the other side, I still like her, even if it is only as a friend.

I asked her a few days to make up my mind, but I really don't know what to do.
 
phillkillv2
Well I never really asked for her name or anything. She always helped me out when I missed a class because the teacher doesn't really contact the students or post the readings online.
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I got her number :D Funny thing is that I just said girl in the red peacoat and she noticed it was me. I thought I had her name but I didn't want to be wrong so I made a joke about it. So, I'll have to find time to hang with her, it's going to be freezing for the next few days.
 
phillkillv2
I got her number :D Funny thing is that I just said girl in the red peacoat and she noticed it was me. I thought I had her name but I didn't want to be wrong so I made a joke about it. So, I'll have to find time to hang with her, it's going to be freezing for the next few days.
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Nice!
 
phillkillv2
I got her number :D Funny thing is that I just said girl in the red peacoat and she noticed it was me. I thought I had her name but I didn't want to be wrong so I made a joke about it. So, I'll have to find time to hang with her, it's going to be freezing for the next few days.
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Score!

I don't know if I want to jump into another relationship or wait right now.
 
I need more lady friends and friends in general. I kind of noticed that getting into a relationship is useless since im going to be moving in 2015 to a place far far away from St. Louis land. I just want some people I can come back from college to.
 

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