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Erase/block the bastard from your FB account...

So pathetic... those kind of guys make me very bad...:mad:





Aaaaand yes... she cancelled... :indiff:

After 2 weeks of things going well, I suspect another period of silence is about to start...



:guilty:



I think I'm done (for the 2000th time)...

You make me feel so useless...

edit: Some tears wanted to escape from my eyes... but I'm not going to allow it... Must stay strong... I wanted you then, and now I even want you more...
 
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:sick:

Girls are so annoying... :banghead:




Here's a direct copy/paste with forum allowed edits and names removed for privacy. I think I acted ok...







Here: Hey, why aren't we friends on Facebook anymore?

Me: I'm hurting
Me: Everytime you'd pop up I'd get upset. Just needed time away

Her: Oh, ok... Sorry.

Me: Its fine

Her: Don't think I left you for somebody else, cause I didn't.

Me: Well whatever the case I've been mad

Her: Mad?

Me: Uh yeah

Her: About?


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Let me stop that right there. Uh, what???? Bitch are you that dumb?

Continuing on....

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Me: What happened

Her: Me leaving?

Me: Yup

Her: Well, I didn't leave you for [New guys name]... I wasn't talking to anyone when I broke it off.

Me: That's what it looked like and honestly I'm pissed even though I know what happened
Me: I don't really want to discuss this cause I'm livid right now
Me: I feel used as 🤬 [F-bomb]

Her: Used? You weren't used.

Me: Well I feel used....I feel cheated and I feel like everything meant nothing
Me: I wanna be on good terms but I just feel like everything wasn't anything

Her: It wasn't that. Things changed that I could not control. It was not your fault. And I didn't expect to be dating let along talking to [Guys Name]. It all happened out of the blue and fast. I'm sorry.

Me: Sorry'snot good enough...I'm so hurt my blood pressure has been skyrocketing, and I've been shaking like a mother:censored: for a month. I don't even care anymore, whatever at this point. Go have your new man cause I'm done with it all. I was really ready for a life with you, despite everything I said on occasion I wasn't going anywhere and I couldn't see myself with anyone but you and then you up an leave and then get with him? Whatever anymore. You get so close to someone only to be let go like that and now I know what you felt like...I don't know what to do anymore

Her: Things changed that I couldn't control. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to hurt you or anyone. That wasn't my intentions.

Me: Well it did and what changed? What changed that was so bad you just had to leave me huh?

Her: My feelings changed, ok? Idk why, but it wasn't the same anymore. Now you know how I felt three years ago. I'm sorry that it ended like this, but it did.

Me: I see

Her: I don't want to be on bad terms, ok?

Her: No reason to be.

Me: I don't either. I'm just hurt that's all. It hurts to see you with someone else especially one of my friends.

Her: [Guys Name] is your friend?

Me: Was

Her: Why was

Me: Haven't seen him in a while

Her: Oh, ok.

Me: Yah

Her: Thought you meant "was" cause of him with me.

Me: So idk what I'm suppose to do

Her: Just relax.

Me: Partially and how am I supposed to relax when I've been left after nearly a year
Me: I'm mad but I'm not but if it was because of something I did or didn't do then ok

Her: I'm sorry.

Me: Yup

Her: Good terms?

Me: Yes. Good terms.
Me: Just I need time

Her: Ok. Time for what?


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Seriously?????????

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Me: Get over things

Her: Do what you need to do... Have a good night and cheer up.

Me: I'll try

Her: Alright.














Well that was it....I was shaking so bad during it all...
 
Sounds like the type of conversation I need to have with my lovely "headache"...

Yesterday she said she was pissed off by many things... and so am I... tried to convince her to see each other... didn't change her mind... She's not helping...

Girls are so annoying :banghead: ...
 
Yeah, I facepalmed a few times during it. I wanted to blow up SO BAD but I tried to keep my cool...
 
Aaaaand yes... she cancelled... :indiff:

After 2 weeks of things going well, I suspect another period of silence is about to start...

Sorry bro :/

Yeah, I facepalmed a few times during it. I wanted to blow up SO BAD but I tried to keep my cool...

Perfect, you got your point across without being agressive. That's how you do. 👍

Ahhh... my gf asked for a time alone... :guilty:
 
Sorry bro :/

Perfect, you got your point across without being agressive. That's how you do. 👍

I thought so myself, but I was so ready to explode...you can see where I was going to as well, with the longer messages. I could have kept going but I didn't. Maybe it just wasn't meant to be.
 
Well i broke up [text message] with my current GF. I did it very easy and very caring and sweet. She cried, she said i was very different from every other guy. but it was going to happen anyway. Well i think i ended that very well. Close to chapter will be awkward at Martial Arts doe. I told her ill still be a friend.

Start a fresh new one.

Now to meet this new girl which i met at NYSEF 3 years ago. Which i totally forgot about :lol: till she mentioned something about it which made me remember.
 
Well i broke up [text message] with my current GF. I did it very easy and very caring and sweet. She cried, she said i was very different from every other guy. but it was going to happen anyway. Well i think i ended that very well. Close to chapter will be awkward at Martial Arts doe.
I assume you don't watch How I Met Your Mother. I remember in one episode they said you should NEVER EVER break up with someone over the phone or texting (specifically voice mail) and it should always be in person.
 
I assume you don't watch How I Met Your Mother. I remember in one episode they said you should NEVER EVER break up with someone over the phone or texting (specifically voice mail) and it should always be in person.

I dont :p, and i know. I couldnt resist to do it. I wanted to hold it when i come back. But she's fine now i think. Atleast i wasn't a C**** and said im breaking up with you and left and never talked to her again..
 
I assume you don't watch How I Met Your Mother. I remember in one episode they said you should NEVER EVER break up with someone over the phone or texting (specifically voice mail) and it should always be in person.
That's how I got dumped.
 
I've learnt that it's nothing physical what's making her feel bad... but something in her mind...:irked:

She's going through some kind of depression thing... me thinks... :indiff:


Once again, I don't know what to do... :sick:






Anyway, I'm going to go to a nightclub next weekend... and my friend is determined to help me get a lady...

I need all the help I can get, and so does she... but it's her fight, cuz I'm very tired too...
 
We should go out and get some beers. (Even if it's geographically difficult) To take a break off of this girl-nonsense. :p @Slashfan @MoLiEG

My relationship just hit rock bottom. :indiff:

My gf suddenly stopped answering my messages on WhatsApp, I asked (also by WA) if she was angry. No response.. (This was like a week ago)
Yesterday I talked with her in person and asked her why she did that. She told me her WhatsApp stopped working. I believed that. Okay.

Today I was talking with a friend about what happened today and she tells me that she talked two days ago with her, via WhatsApp!!! :rolleyes:
So it isn't broken after all! Even worse, she wrote a "status" that it's obviously directed at me, and not in a good way. To say it nicely. :ouch:

I wanted to play that game too but I'm better than her. Aaaand I sound like we'd have already broken up. :ouch: DAMNIT.
 
And that's why I hate mobile phones... :grumpy: they make everything so impresonal... you can literally hide behind those things to avoid real confrontation, just like her (my dear headache), and her irrational fear of me, compromise, and serious sentimental relationships...

I don't know what you think, but you get drepressed if you want to... so I'm call BS and say she doesn't want to see me... despite she said she missed me on Tuesday... Lies, Lies everywhere... Lies that I hate... You can't build anything with lies...

I, again, for the 2nd time in 3 months, I don't believe in her... that being said, I'm out her insane game... she want's time again? I'm going to give it to her... While I try to get someone just to tell her I'm (not) ok without her... and show her she's losing one heck of a man!

I don't like beer or alcohol a lot, but hey... like brother @Yauma9 said, situations like these deserve a drink or two with some good pals like you guys... :cheers: @TheKitten @Slashfan @Yauma9

Ohh boy, you really need to have a good talk with her, something's not right... I really hope you can get through this...

And, for the 3rd time today...

Girls are so annoying!!! :banghead:...

And...

Salud amigos...

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I honestly think texting has helped my relationship. It's been long distance now for 5 months on the 15th and 10 months total. It's a great way to keep in touch; however, we do call a couple times a week because of the impersonal aspect of it.

As for the beer, I'd be more than happy to join you guys!
 
So I met this waitress....


...stunning in my eyes. Like, couldn't keep my eyes off her the entire time, and I think she was starting to notice. She came around a bit more frequently, when shed clean the tables shed bend over a bit more than normal hehehe. I was checking her out hardcore. Definitely dating material for me and I'm picky about women. I was actually sad when we left.

Stupid me didn't have the balls to say anything. My family was all with me :/

Fortunately the place is right up the road from my house but who knows when ill be back there.
 
I still see my ex around college, try my hardest to avoid any eye contact.
Anyway, I'm worried now I'll follow you guys and screw up pulling this lass I'm interested in... if so I drink Kopparberg. :sly:
 
So I met this waitress....


...stunning in my eyes. Like, couldn't keep my eyes off her the entire time, and I think she was starting to notice. She came around a bit more frequently, when shed clean the tables shed bend over a bit more than normal hehehe. I was checking her out hardcore. Definitely dating material for me and I'm picky about women. I was actually sad when we left.

Stupid me didn't have the balls to say anything. My family was all with me :/

Fortunately the place is right up the road from my house but who knows when ill be back there.

Dude, get back up there and talk to her. ASAP. She sounds like exactly what you need right now.
 
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