Girls are so annoying...
Here's a direct copy/paste with forum allowed edits and names removed for privacy. I think I acted ok...
Here: Hey, why aren't we friends on Facebook anymore?
Me: I'm hurting
Me: Everytime you'd pop up I'd get upset. Just needed time away
Her: Oh, ok... Sorry.
Me: Its fine
Her: Don't think I left you for somebody else, cause I didn't.
Me: Well whatever the case I've been mad
Her: Mad?
Me: Uh yeah
Her: About?
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Let me stop that right there. Uh, what???? Bitch are you that dumb?
Continuing on....
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Me: What happened
Her: Me leaving?
Me: Yup
Her: Well, I didn't leave you for [New guys name]... I wasn't talking to anyone when I broke it off.
Me: That's what it looked like and honestly I'm pissed even though I know what happened
Me: I don't really want to discuss this cause I'm livid right now
Me: I feel used as 🤬 [F-bomb]
Her: Used? You weren't used.
Me: Well I feel used....I feel cheated and I feel like everything meant nothing
Me: I wanna be on good terms but I just feel like everything wasn't anything
Her: It wasn't that. Things changed that I could not control. It was not your fault. And I didn't expect to be dating let along talking to [Guys Name]. It all happened out of the blue and fast. I'm sorry.
Me: Sorry'snot good enough...I'm so hurt my blood pressure has been skyrocketing, and I've been shaking like a mother:censored: for a month. I don't even care anymore, whatever at this point. Go have your new man cause I'm done with it all. I was really ready for a life with you, despite everything I said on occasion I wasn't going anywhere and I couldn't see myself with anyone but you and then you up an leave and then get with him? Whatever anymore. You get so close to someone only to be let go like that and now I know what you felt like...I don't know what to do anymore
Her: Things changed that I couldn't control. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to hurt you or anyone. That wasn't my intentions.
Me: Well it did and what changed? What changed that was so bad you just had to leave me huh?
Her: My feelings changed, ok? Idk why, but it wasn't the same anymore. Now you know how I felt three years ago. I'm sorry that it ended like this, but it did.
Me: I see
Her: I don't want to be on bad terms, ok?
Her: No reason to be.
Me: I don't either. I'm just hurt that's all. It hurts to see you with someone else especially one of my friends.
Her: [Guys Name] is your friend?
Me: Was
Her: Why was
Me: Haven't seen him in a while
Her: Oh, ok.
Me: Yah
Her: Thought you meant "was" cause of him with me.
Me: So idk what I'm suppose to do
Her: Just relax.
Me: Partially and how am I supposed to relax when I've been left after nearly a year
Me: I'm mad but I'm not but if it was because of something I did or didn't do then ok
Her: I'm sorry.
Me: Yup
Her: Good terms?
Me: Yes. Good terms.
Me: Just I need time
Her: Ok. Time for what?
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Seriously?????????
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Me: Get over things
Her: Do what you need to do... Have a good night and cheer up.
Me: I'll try
Her: Alright.
Well that was it....I was shaking so bad during it all...