The Love Therapy Thread

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Peter
if I end up getting rejected, I just won't be able to say a single word to her ever again
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Doesn't sound like you've ever talked to her in the first place...

Grow a pair, ask her out, get rejected, stop pining, and move on.

or

Go to the interweb, ask a bunch of guys what to do, don't listen, continue pining.

or

Ask her out, she says yes, you get along famously, graduate high school, go your separate ways for college and you never see her again.

Too pessimistic? Yeah, didn't think so, either.
 
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What do you know TB.... Its not like you have lived that before.. oh wait..
 
Oh ha ha. But seriously Here's what you do.

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At recess in the playground or wherever, just approach her, and simply ask,

"(insert name here) Can I just ask you something privatly?"

If she follows just come out with it. E.G.:

"Hey, look, this might sound a little creepy, but....well....I really like you. There's just something about you that I havn't been able to work out yet, but I know I really...really...like you. I was wondering if...maybe...well, we could go somewhere together one day. Just anywhere that we could spend a little time together. So?"

Then wait for reply. You will know what to do from there on. ;) Trust me this works. I have told many a 13 year old to do this, and it works. If she rejects jsut say:

"Yeah, sure that's fine. But....the offer is always open. *smile* Thanks."

Then pick your sorry ass up off the ground and get on with yourself ;)

EDIT: Take things slowly. Girls don't like to be rushed.
 
Offering advice from a little closer in age to you than most of the people in this thread, but you're exactly where I was at 12/13, thinking you know, maybe not everything, but as much as someone years older than you, and that what people say about kids your age doesn't apply to you because you're "different".
Pretty soon you'll look back on this, and realize how wrong you were, how the world isn't as simple as you thought it was, and that there have been many people before you who dealt with the exact same things, exact same feelings and wants that you have now.

As for me, I really didn't have any girls I "liked" at your age, but even if I did, the things I found "attractive" in a girl then are completely different and even stupid to me now. Most any relationship you'd get into at 13 won't last and is either a byproduct of pressure from the girl's other friends or she has daddy issues and you'll break up in 2 weeks anyway, as I have seen firsthand more times than I can count.

And this probably doesn't make any sense now that I've typed it all, oh well, sounded better in my head :lol:

Edit: Seeing now your latest post, having to say "this might be creepy but..." makes it insanely creepy, tbh. Just get to be friends with her, and if it can go anywhere it will. When you're looking for a partner for life, they need to be your best friend, imho

From,
Chris.
 
Jay
Recess.... playground



Oh the memories, fantastic :lol:
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Exactly what i was thinking...

You guys remember getting the news your going out with someone through the friend chain?

Kaseys friend Danielle asks if Mike you want to go out with Kasey, Mike then relays that to you. Then when things arnt working out you tell your mate Mike to tell Danielle to tell Kasey that you no longer like her...

oh wait... im getting all caught up...
 
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It just doesn't stop! It keeps getting better and better!

I second the vote for archiving! :lol:
 
Small_Fryz
What do you know TB.... Its not like you have lived that before.. oh wait..
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If I'm completely honest, I dated no one at all until I was 20.

And then I married her 9 months later.
Jay
Recess.... playground



Oh the memories, fantastic :lol:
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I was thinking the same thing. :lol:

And to think that I was going to go to bed. I would have missed all of this!
 
Peter
I'm in the 10th grade. I haven't been on a playground in about 4 years.
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Well whenever you see her and have the chance to talk to her in private. TRUST ME!

EDIT: Apologies for double post. :guilty:
 
TB
If I'm completely honest, I dated no one at all until I was 20.

And then I married her 9 months later.

I was thinking the same thing. :lol:

And to think that I was going to go to bed. I would have missed all of this!
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I was about to go to bed aswell and then this thread popped up, :lol:

tlowr4
3rd vote for archiving (naturally)
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You wouldn't have to vote for archiving if you kept it on topic and without spamming with posts that could be avoided, then it'd just stay open as a topic to help tweens with their "relationship" problems and last forever :dopey:

From,
Chris.
 
WallRunner
You wouldn't have to vote for archiving if you kept it on topic and without spamming with posts that could be avoided, then it'd just stay open as a topic to help tweens with their "relationship" problems and last forever :dopey:

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Chris.
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Well, that's what I'd like. I asked a mod to change the name to The Love Therapy Thread. ;)
 
tlowr4
Well, that's what I'd like. I asked a mod to change the name to The Love Therapy Thread. ;)
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Just "edit" the first post and change the title yourself, or double-click in the topic list.

See? you certainly don't know everything and if I'm right about that I'm sure these other guys are right about everything else.

From,
Chris.
 
We have something like this (minus the teen angst) in the premium section. Mods close plz thnx.
 
tlowr4
Well whenever you see her and have the chance to talk to her in private. TRUST ME!

EDIT: Apologies for double post. :guilty:
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Ok, here is how I take it to be, through the teenage years.

12-13 = Ok, take it slow, she is my first and I want it to be good. Month later, oh man, she didn't look pretty today, bah, never loved her anyway.

14-15 = Oh man, those boobs :dunce:. She seems nice, lets go talk, 6 months later; balls, I cheated and lost it all.

16-18 (I am taking this from friends now) = I am :censored:ing over relationships, lets party and get tonnes of you know what. Next day; "Bro, I hooked in with 5 chicks on the weekend". (I am not making this up either, it happens).

19-21 = Less focus on women, more on the future and getting a good career.

25+ = Whatver the people in here have said, being a proper man and actually knowing what love means.

So, concluding this post, it is safe to say 90% of the time a teenage relationship will end in a hole.
The truth here mate is that you never loved her. You thought and still do think you did, what you were feeling was fake and has CLEARLY taken over your thoughts leaving you with only one state of mind. You shouldnt have made this thread seeming you cant take advice and listen to other people without arguing say you did not didnt something or other..
 
But that's in the Premium section. What about all those members that are not Premium that need help (like me)? :(

EDIT: Might I mention rule 2 of the AUP
AUP
You will not use “textspeak” (“r”, “u”, “plz”, etc.) in your messages. Decent grammar is expected at all times, including proper usage of capital letters.
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Omnis
We have something like this (minus the teen angst) in the premium section. Mods close plz thnx.
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I'm sorry Legendary if it came across that way. I was just down in the dumps, and needed a lift. I got that lift and then this thread turned into a good place for future problems in the love department for members.
 
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tlowr4
But that's in the Premium section. What about all those members that are not Premium that need help (like me)? :(

EDIT: Might I mention rule 2 of the AUP
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You need more than our help, go see a councillor or something. All this thread has done is brought everyone to tears!!

Might I mention that Omnis never broke a rule. It was used in a different context than to normal speech, kthxbai. (Oh, report me for that btw).
 
I never meant for things to sound like that. And I'm quite fine without a councillor thanks :). I do have one so if things get too bad, then I'll go see her. But do you mind forgetting my troubles, and focusing on the other members ones? :)
 
Legendary
You need more than our help, go see a councillor or something. All this thread has done is brought everyone to tears!!

Might I mention that Omnis never broke a rule. It was used in a different context than to normal speech, kthxbai. (Oh, report me for that btw).
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Reported! :lol:
 
When i was your age Girls was the last thing on my mind.

I was playing baseball,skateboarding and just doing stupid stuff with my friends all the time.

So my advice to you is this enjoy your early teen years and don't worry about love.It's just puppy love and goes nowhere.
 

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