Ultimate Chick Trouble Thread (II) (or III i'm not sure)

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Actually the second thought I had after it wasn't the "Ultimate chick trouble" thread wat that Drift4EVA MUST have been the thread creator (to my dismay it was not)... Anyway, who use "ultimate" in the same sentence as chick trouble, hence what I thought first :odd:
 
To make matter worse, I had a funky ass dream last night. NO, it wasn't one of those dreams, so just shut up. It was like Poltergeist meets The Exorcist. It started as a dream I've had before where I'm in some house and weird **** is happening, and then ghosties go blah blah and ape**** and stuff and then we excorcise them and all's good and done after we've got the preist, but this one took a strange turn. After leaving the church because we couldn't find the preist we arrived in the parking lot where I saw someone walk by that I know from school. Ok, so what? Anyway, the group I was with who was looking for the preist were all wondering around the parking lot with me (stuff seems bigger in dreams sometimes, you know that) and then I see 3 cops running towards us, so I look behind me and there's a guy who was in a wheelchair on the ground bleeding, and there are two cars with damaged bumpers...so what, right? But as I'm standing there looking at the scene someone comes up behind me, and wraps their arms around me resting their head on my shoulders. It was like "guess who" excpet I knew it was Brittany (a friend of mine), and she was reading something over my shoulder. Weird ****? Yah I thought so too, because I thought I liked the other chick Vershay (the one that was nice but seemed like she could have a fiery side), but after this it's just weird, 'cause it was like we were bf/gf kind of thing...****ing dreams always screwing **** up. erg. and yes, I had to use the profanity. Anyway, do you think this means something, and if so, what?

[Edit] Vipfreak: stop hitting on me. I'm not a girl.[Edit]
 
(1) Sounds like this girl that came up behind you is causing mental anguish making things a mess, portrayed via wheelchair dude on ground, car accident....

(2) with exorcising demons etc... maybe in your minds eye, you think you can change crazy chick, like exorcising the craziness out of her...

(3) well, actually two is all I got.

Good Luck dude !
 
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(1) Sounds like this girl that came up behind you is causing mental anguish making things a mess, portrayed via wheelchair dude on ground, car accident....

(2) with exorcising demons etc... maybe in your minds eye, you think you can change crazy chick, like exorcising the craziness out of her...

(3) well, actually two is all I got.

Good Luck dude !
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holy crap #2 never even occured to me!
 
I've had the same sorts of problems in that I feel guilty if a girl likes me and I don't like them so I end up trying to avoid it instead of tell her the facts because I don't want to hurt her.
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Like Rebecca John?

[edit] And Alecs...who you datedfirst then dumped? :irked:


TIP: don't listen to Jack :sly:. But I'm as useless aswell....
 
Man, that's weird stuff, I'm starting to believe you do live in the shadow of the Valley Of Death...

Blake
 
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Ok, since people effed up the last one, and I am currently having a problem, I decided to make a new one.

My problem(s): There's this girl who left my friend for me. I don't like her that much, but she's like obsessed with me and it really creeps me out. I also don't want my friend to think I'm like betraying him right now or anything either. Shes always phoning, always asking me to go on cam, always asking to meet up some time etc. I can't just drop from the face of the earth and pretened not to be alive anymore, and shes got like 100000 different emails too, so....eeerrrrg. Anyway, should I tell her (oh, btw, shes quite pretty but she rags on and on about how just because she doesn't have a boyfriend shes all alone and shes not pretty and everyone hates her etc.) that I really don't want to speak to her ever again, and possibly have someone go suicidal on my ass, or just bite the bullet and go along with her for a while and let her down as gently as I can? ****ing women.

My other, not so problematic problem would be Aurora...still. Yes, shes still clinging around, she still seems to think I owe her a present for when she turned 18 back in October. Since she has the mentallity of like a 14 year old, it's kind of difficult to make subtle hints that I'm not really interested in her. Oh, and the present isn't the only reason shes here, just thought I'd clear that up. Anyway, she is also constantly phoning me and always wants to see a movie or go somewhere. She's just annoying.

My other even less problematic problem, is that I like this girl but she just got out of a relationship and I kind of weird sometimes. She seems like the kind of girl who would go burn your house down or poison your pets after you break up. So...yah. Any help for this tangled web I weave?

Jesus I have issues.​
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Get ugly. It worked for me, although I was never good-looking. :(

I am going to cry now. :nervous: :(
 
lol....uh...thanks but that doesn't really help. So far I've found the moderators and premium members (just coincidence) to be the most helpfull. I still haven't come to a conclusion yet. All I can do for now is run to look @ the caller ID every time the phone rings, and keep her blocked on MSN. I need ideas, my imagination was killed along with my rebelliousness and sporadicism by my teachers in grades 6-8.
 
Tell one of your friends to hook up with them instead.

I HAVEN'T HELPED!!! Well thanks a lot. I thought I was the only sensible poster in here, besdes yourself :grumpy: Only BSing man

I didn't know that that little remark was that funny :indiff:

You have to get through to these nutcases man, otherwise pretty soon that one will think that you guys are married, Then she'll think that she's pregnant and that's where that episode of CSI comes into play.
 
Talk to each one individually, and in person. You need to be as serious as possible with all of them because they obviously haven't figured it out yet.

Tell the first one in your original post that you think she's very pretty, but that you're just not interested in her right now. Make it clear that she is not hated by everyone, and have examples ready on how her life isn't bad.

Be very blunt with the 14-year-old mentality girl. Just tell her you aren't interested and that you don't want to go see a movie together. I think she deserves p'wnage from you so don't feel too bad if it has to get a little ugly.

And try talking with the girls you like. The best way to talk to a girl is to ask intelligent questions that don't require Yes/No answers. Try to be funny, and establish a good relationship with her before you get serious. If she is crazy, you won't have your house burned down, and if you find out she's cool, you've got yourself a new girlfriend.

Of course, this is all easier said than done, but it's the best I could come up with.
 
thanks guys. I don't think I can tell Aurora (the 18yr old slightly dumb one) that I don't wanna hang out with her, cuz we were friends and then we started doing s**t and then we stopped, but after that it was normal again, but recently shes just started to seem a lot more annoying and like laughs at everything I say and goes around telling all her friends "he's good" and she's just acting really ditsy, and shes knows better. I hope. Basically its like telling someone to just stop being annoying, but then she'd flip or be like "aaaah....what an asshole!" kind of thing. Girls generally don't like that. So I've decided that I'm going to work on that one slowly. As for the nutjob thats obsessed with me who lives in the other town, I think I'm just going to tell her in some way or another that I've got a gf. About me liking either Brittany or Vershay, that's still touchy ground. I know it seems like for every bit of help u give, I'm giving another reason not to use it, but it really is quite difficult because I know each of these people quite well (except for the nutjob Ashley). The main thing is ditching Ashley, and getting something started between me and Vershay/Brittany- except Britt has a bf and it would be weird I think, and I don't really know Vershay that well. She gives a lot of mixed signals, and no it doesn't follow a 28 day fluctuation. I think I like them each equally, but because of this funky ass dream I had I think I might be leaning towards Britt, except I always thought I liked Vershay. God women r a pain in the butt.
 
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God women r a pain in the butt.
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You're doing the wrong kind of women then....

So Brittany is the annoying one??? Vershay is the "Burn your house down if things go south" one??? Hmmm....... Ok......... You've gotta think. How long would it last if I were with Brittany/Vershay??? Then think. How long would things last if I were with the other??? Who would I be best happiest with??? Which one is the most trustworthy??? Which one has the nicest rack??? (Actually don't go by that last one) Things like that, you have to ask yourself. You already know the answer to this question. You just have to find it. We don't know these girls, that's where we can't help you. It's all on you. Either way you are going to have to sit these girls down and talk to them.
 
I seriously do not like the character of my sister in law (my husband's sister Olga) She just keeps butting in our lives...

* Olga is seriously full of herself, everytime she goes to the hair salon and likes the results of her new hairstyle she will immediately call my husband and have him set up his Photo Studio (which is a big hassle) so she can have a last minute photo shoot with him for half a day.

* She invited us to her birthday party, but told my husband Alex to bring his camera so he can photograph the event as if he was hired for her or something.

* Olga never attends family holidays. She called my husband and said she is going to spend it with her new boyfriend that she just met. She has a new boyfriend almost every week!

* She flew from New York to attend our wedding in Las Vegas but stayed with my husband and I during the honeymoon!

* Olga didn't go with us when we went to Russia (which is where my husband and his sister is from) but when we got to his mothers place: all pictures of...her. Plus she called him 5 times a day long distance! Can we vacation in peace! I know people who know better than to call once because couples want to ESCAPE FROM IT ALL!

* She visits, AND calls him 10 times a day! Sometimes even when we are sleeping, and he won't say: "Olga I am sleeping can I call you back?" He'll just talk to her!

* When I see them together they act soooo cute with each other, them both laughing it forces me thinking thoughts like: "Damn if they were a couple they'd be cute!" That pisses me off. There are times when I think my husband loves her more than me

* Now my parents invited me to fly back to visit my homeplace in California. When Olga herd of this over the phone she invited herself. I prepared the perfect "polite excuse" for her which was: "Oh, we would love for you to come but we are too broke to afford another plane ticket.." But she stripped that away by automatically saying before I could respond: "I'll pay for my own ticket!" I just lost all hope and said "Fine, yes Olga we would just love for you to come!"

She is very nice to me, but even my husband said she has changed and become more *****y, and now I really wanted this California trip to be just me, him, and my family. The three of us won't work I know it!

Since Russian is my husband's first language, I know that with her being there he will be more tempted to chat with her in his native language than to spend time with me. Two is company, but three is crowd. I guess I am jealous of her, but she has no respect at all! She can't buy a clue!

PLEASE HELP GIVE ME ADVICE!
 
Aurora is the annoying one. Brittany and Vershay are friends of mine, and friends of each other as well. Brittany knows of Aurora, but has never personally met her. Aurora used to be a friend, she still is, but a rather annoying one at that. Ashley is the obsessed nutbar.
 
Aphrodite - We've never talked before, but this is my advice. Tell her to fcuk off. In those words.

Wait..... You said that there were three girls, but there are 4 names there. Or is one of them sane and wouldn't burn your house down??? If so I don't see your dillema. I'd choose that one. I'm confused.
 
Sounds like that Subtle Hints School isn't such a bad idea at all. Aphrodite, if that is your name, what you need to do is have SECRET VACATION. Don't tell anyone except the parents, or only let them in on it at the last moment. Make all necessary arrangements but don't tell anyone unless you absolutely have to. Olga sounds like a sociopath or someone with a confidence disorder. Or she's what I like to call a Clingon. Not to be confused with Klingon. Clingon's generally don't take subtle hints, and are often to dislodge without hurting their feelings, but in the end you have to do it before you snap their neck like a little twig. Clingons are generally around you a lot, or always want to do something if you are doing something. They tend to Cling. Hence the Clingon. You have a similar problem that I do, and maybe we can start some sort of council group the unfortuante people that get stuck with inept friends or family members.
 
There are 3 names and 4 girls in my previous...previous post.
Brittany - Good friend, I might like her- not sure if I do
Vershay - Friend, thought I liked her- not sure anymore
Aurora - the annoying one
Ashley - the freak thats obsessed with me

Clear things up? Brittany and Vershay know each other and r quite good friends. I know both of them, and they both know me, and they're both in a few of my classes.
Aurora goes to a different school. She knows a friend of mine Nic-but i'm not dragging anyone else into this. shes the annoying older one.
Ashley lives out of town. Shes the freak. The main reason this thread was created. She knows my friend Ty, and breifly dated him before dumping him. she started becoming obsessed with me about 3 days after I met her, and the next day I heard she dumped him.

But anyway, my dream is what stirred things up. Y'see, my friends think that the demons and stuff and then Brittany like holding me in the pakring lot is in referrence to me leaving that psycho ***** Ashley in the dust (ala the haunted house) and trying to find a non-existent solution (ala the preist i couldn't find) and then having a
A) Savior
B) an excuse

to keep her away from me. I know this is all very complicated but try and bear with me, it's been bugging me for a week. :indiff: :sick: :guilty:
 
With that Klingon. Are you reffering to the ones on Star Trek???

Yep tell her to eff off. Does your hubby feel the same way??? She sounds like she needs a real tune up. How old is she???
 
Sheesh! Ok..... Ok........ I need coffee........ Ok.......... If it was Brittany who was holding you in your dream/nightmare. I'd either say that she is the one for you, or she is trying to hold you back from Vershay. It's trying to desiphre that which appears to be the problem now. Are you trying to get away when she holds you? Or are you very submissive and go with it and enjoy it? Does Vershay appear in your dream a.k.a. Nightmare at all???
 
Vershay never shows up in the dream at all. And the only other person I know in the dream besides Brittany is this guy Adam Martin, but that's irrelevant cuz I hardly know him and they hardly know him. As for the

DRIFT4EVA
Are you trying to get away when she holds you? Or are you very submissive and go with it and enjoy it? Does Vershay appear in your dream a.k.a. Nightmare at all???
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part, its not so much someone holding on to me, its like she came up behind me to hug me. I guess I'm submissive but I seem to be not quite tense, but ready for something to happen (ie explosion, gunfire, fight, some sort of change of pace). It's as though I'm prepared for something and she's there to hit on me or some wack ****. The way it was done tho, is like a hug only my back was facing her. She lets her head rest on my shoulder, and then reads into my ear what I was reading on the page. On that page theres 5 or 6 words, and i made out "doet", "like", " love", and something else but that stuff isn't clear. My friend think that "doet" is either "duet" or "do it". Messed up in my dream though. Theorhetically speaking, EVERYTHING in the dream is a sign, from the time of day to change in wall colours etc. but none of it seemed intimidating. It felt like I was just on a mission or something that's routine, but somewhat challenging. I had no fear thoughout it, felt no remorse, but felt a smidgeon lost. Brittany was either there to say "time to take a brake" or point me in another direction, or possibly start something else. Whatever it was it was totally non-threatening and we weren't like normal friends...it was like she was something better, like I was a husband doing errands and she was there to make sure I didnt **** anything up. thats only where she was leaning on me tho. And whatever that was it made me wake up with my back really warm. It felt like i was laying on a heat blanket. Definately the strangest dream I've ever had.

[Edit] "Errands" ; that's the best way I could describe it. Dreams are very strange, try not to take the interpretations too literally- everything has a hidden meaning. 👍 [Edit]
 
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Vershay never shows up in the dream at all. And the only other person I know in the dream besides Brittany is this guy Adam Martin, but that's irrelevant cuz I hardly know him and they hardly know him. As for the



part, its not so much someone holding on to me, its like she came up behind me to hug me. I guess I'm submissive but I seem to be not quite tense, but ready for something to happen (ie explosion, gunfire, fight, some sort of change of pace). It's as though I'm prepared for something and she's there to hit on me or some wack ****. The way it was done tho, is like a hug only my back was facing her. She lets her head rest on my shoulder, and then reads into my ear what I was reading on the page. On that page theres 5 or 6 words, and i made out "doet", "like", " love", and something else but that stuff isn't clear. My friend think that "doet" is either "duet" or "do it". Messed up in my dream though. Theorhetically speaking, EVERYTHING in the dream is a sign, from the time of day to change in wall colours etc. but none of it seemed intimidating. It felt like I was just on a mission or something that's routine, but somewhat challenging. I had no fear thoughout it, felt no remorse, but felt a smidgeon lost. Brittany was either there to say "time to take a brake" or point me in another direction, or possibly start something else. Whatever it was it was totally non-threatening and we weren't like normal friends...it was like she was something better, like I was a husband doing errands and she was there to make sure I didnt **** anything up. thats only where she was leaning on me tho. And whatever that was it made me wake up with my back really warm. It felt like i was laying on a heat blanket. Definately the strangest dream I've ever had.
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Have you ever dreamt about Vershay???

fcuking hell! I need more Coffee, but with some whiskey or something......... When you see either do you get wierd feelings and your heart starts to race??? This may seem irrelavent, but what is your real first name again???

I'll be back in half an hour to help you. My dinner is up.
 
No, everything is pretty much normal around them. I've told Brittany the entire dream except for the fact its her leaning on my shoulder, and it's no biggies. I've never had a dream with Vershay in it (once again, doesn't sound right) . I have had this dream before- but it ends drastically different. I first had it about a year ago I think, and everything went along fine- got to church, got priest, he kicked ghosties asses and I wake up. That's the main reason I brought the dream into this, because it takes a twist and started including people I know and love ( as friends of course) but it's forcing me to take a second look at them. I can't come clean to Britt tho, because I know how much she doesn't like when a guy tells her that he likes her, coupled with the fact she has a b/f. As for Vershay...yah I've always liked her a little, but now we're pretty much just friends. Like classroom friends tho, so I never really got to know her too well, I do know some stuff about her family that seems pretty private but I'm just not getting the feeling of being one of her close friends. She just moved her from BC about a year ago though, so that may be a factor. I've known her since she got here tho, so...I unno. If this is a double post then oh crap...w/e. My back and spine however do get very very warm whenever I recite the dream, and I recall in the dream that when she hugged me from behind my back got very warm- for real. I don't think I was in complete delta state, possibly drifting out of it without losing the mental lock. erf. this dream stuff never happens to me, I always have weird dreams but they never actually get me thinking. for the record my first name is Greg. Last name is T. Just T. No need for the rest. Jeff- you know better- just remember: I know where you live now.

[Edit] OMFG! I JUST REMEMBERED SOMETHING! A while back before the xmas break Brittany said she had a dream that we were married, living in a big house, and had 6 nice sports cars! I think we were in California somewhere. I don't know what relevance this is but I just thought I'd throw it in anyway. [Edit]
 
I hate working with dreams. They can mean so many different things.

Anyway..... Good move. You didn't tell her about the hugging part. I'd tell the same thing to Vershay. Do you spend more time with Brittany or equal time or what???

The reason I asked for your first name is, that I seem to have this unique and wierd ability to put names together and they'll somehow workout. Eg. Micheal and Michelle (Friends of my brothers). Greg and Vershay sounded like a couple that can go far. Greg and Brittany sadly is the same. So that won't work.

It really does sound like you have soft spots for both. I know you say that, but I really do believe you.

I know how you can figure this out. Do you have friends that you see eg people from school, who are also on GTP and know about your predicament??? Big ask I know, but believe me, my plan will most likely work. If not can you try to sign one up and get them to talk to me? You cannot have anything to do with it until the time comes. If you do, then who???
 

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