Ultimate Chick Trouble Thread (II) (or III i'm not sure)

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I have a problem.

I'm dating Ms. X, but I really like Ms. Y, and she really likes me too. However, I don't want to hurt Ms. X's feelings.
Advice?
 
Have you considered telling the OCD that you'll only spend time with her if 14yo is allowed to join? Tell them you like a 3 way :p. Better yet, add some extra dudes into it and make it a 5 way. If all goes well, they'll just be disgusted by the suggestion and leave you alone. If that doesn't work, just tell them to "eff off" (in those very words). If *that* doesn't help, I think you might be able to get a restraining order from a police station 👍
 
ultrabeat
I have a problem.

I'm dating Ms. X, but I really like Ms. Y, and she really likes me too. However, I don't want to hurt Ms. X's feelings.
Advice?
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Dude that's easy, be a man about it, and tell her straight.

Say something like "babe, it's just not working out, I don't feel the same way about you like I used to, I think it would be better if we both go our own ways"

Then...wait a few days...I'd say at least a week, and then start dating Ms Y. That way you are still friends, and if things don't work out with Ms Y, you can always go back to Ms X ;)

PS If you start dating Ms Y straight away, Ms X will asume you were seeing her behind her back anyway, and she will make your life hell :lol:
 
How about when a woman you'll do anything for, still in love with, says she loves you, and then changes her mind and says she doesnt know what she wants, and finally go's off and screws other guys?

I know the answer, I just dont want to see it ATM
 
yes...ok....


Well, I'm back on speaker phone. I'm getting ready to go watch Napoleon Dynamite, and guess who calls...Dammit, Tracy.
 
Yep, and as recently as this morning (my time), and its my experience


and its driving me insane, at a very low point right now
 
Your loss of valuable time....... :lol:

Does she know that you know??? She has obviously taken you for granted. If the two of you had an extremely good thing going, then you can try and sort through it, otherwise you should get out now. It's not worth it. Sorry to hear it d00d :)
 
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Your loss of valuable time....... :lol:

Does she know that you know??? She has obviously taken you for granted. If the two of you had an extremely good thing going, then you can try and sort through it, otherwise you should get out now. It's not worth it. Sorry to hear it d00d :)
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Yeah she knows, taken for a ride would be a great way to put it, youve said the same thing a good mate of mine said the other night, and get out of it, he called it "A lucky escape"

Thanks for your time 👍

Just really depressed right now, been there before and got through it...
 
Well those really are the only two options you have in this situation. You'll pull through. Once you get back onto the horse, you'll be fine. Just remember this. When one door closes, another door opens.
 
That's fair enough. I'd recomend though, that you concentrate on other activities that you enjoy and be around people. That depression won't last as long and you may find out interesting things about other people. Just a suggestion. You'll get through it though. :)
 
:cheers:

Hey, thats why Ive made a return to the GTP, also got a mate coming over soon, we'll see hoe it go's

Might even play some GT as well
 
Well at least you're showing her that you care and are willing to listen. That's big kudos when it comes to your own girl, let alone a relative..
 
If she doesn't want to give anything back to you, then she isn't worth giving anything to. If you keep trying to give it to her it's only ruining yourself.

It's harder said then done beleive me but they only thing to do now is move on.
 
Yeah, true enough :)

I reckon I need someone to slap me upside the head.... And no, Im not asking for anyone to line up in front of me to do so ;) figure of speech:)
 
I got setup by a girl during my holiday while I was away, it was just supposed to be a holiday fling but she said she wanted no more and brought out about 5 different reasons why. Then she attempted to ruin a friendship between me and my mate who lives across the street.

It just completely ruined my holiday and the memories I have of our holiday spot but oh well, **** happens..
 
I think I got rid of the obsessed chick! I just kept babbling on and on about this hot new chick I met (imaginary of course) and she stopped hitting on me! woot! Now all I have to do is get the hint across that Aurora is annoying sometimes...She called again today whe i had a friend over (she knew that my friend Becca was comming over because shes leaving Sunday and that we were just going to hang out together) and asked repeatedly what we were doing and where- do people not know proper manners or are they just really nosy? Particularily her. sheeesh.
 
Taurine
I got setup by a girl during my holiday while I was away, it was just supposed to be a holiday fling but she said she wanted no more and brought out about 5 different reasons why. Then she attempted to ruin a friendship between me and my mate who lives across the street.

It just completely ruined my holiday and the memories I have of our holiday spot but oh well, **** happens..
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Aint that the truth, I was supposed to spend 3 weeks with her over the Christmas hols, that was cut short by 2 weeks

**** happens indeed
 
Taurine
Well at least you're showing her that you care and are willing to listen. That's big kudos when it comes to your own girl, let alone a relative..
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How is it BIG Kudos to just my niece? She's a year younger than me! AND I"ve been on this phone for more than 4 hours! And I've said less than 40 words. I don't want to hang up on my own niece who seems to be depressed, but 4 hours of the same thing...
 
is she really ur neice neice, like do you have to act like an uncle to her, or can't you just act like a cousin or something? She probably looks up to you like a 40yr old uncle for instance, and feels like she can relate more because you're basically the same age. hahaha ur screwed.
 

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