Unfortunate story about me:s*** just happens....(for a reason)

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EDIT:To cut things short,just discuss your problems (or unfortunate events) here.The things i said below are just some of my unfortunate life :(

Well,this is a story about a boy (thats me) who could have the the most unluckiest life any boy would have.Its not uncommon for anyone to be unlucky,but this happens too often for me.Already 16,i have tons of unfortunate and unlucky stories which i am about to tell you.Firstly i was born on 10th of July 1991 (i was born on the same day when Boris Yeltsin begins his 5-year term as the first elected president of Russia.Hope that signifies anything....)

I was born with an illness which my parents doesn't want to tell me or do i even know what my illness is.I am suffering from asthma,autism (not sure about it,but signs of it are showing...),Aspeger's syndrome(not sure about that either),chronic depression (i am emo :( ) and mainly other physical and mental illness that i can't explain.

Why am i unlucky?Well too many unfortunate things happened already.I lost both of my relatives in just 2 years!(my grandfather and my uncle :sad:)I also happened to lose many of my personal belonging every year :( Just recently (or should i say today),i got both of my sport shoes stolen (it was expensive too,my pair of Nike clay court shoe and my Admiral turf shoe,and i was supposed to wear them later for a hockey league....)and later i accidentally left my hockey stick in the locker room.(i hope some of my friends accidentally took it).It is a bad day for me..Oh how i wish today never exist *sigh* its just a day to forget and hope never to be remember for the rest of my entire life!

Also, among the other things i lost was my bmx bicycle last year,how i got my cap stolen from a bully (that 🤬 Addzim.He's a stupid fat bloke who can't even sit up!)But the biggest lost was my fathers laptop and my cd player got stolen a few years back (somehow,my father left the keys downstairs like he always do.Then one night,somehow a thief got his hands on one of our poles (or fruit plucker) and manage to open one of our heavy windows :shocked: then he use the pole to get the keys and get inside the house.)Then when my father noticed,he quickly woke my family up.Good thing the thief did not kill us but then again,it has already happened.(I also remember playing Burnout 3 and pretend those opponents as those mother 🤬 thief and smash them up real good!Thank god my PS2 wasn't stolen at that time or else i won't be here typing this story.)

I also have other problems in my life that i just can't seem to forget.Like how that time in kindergarten (or pre-school for you americans) since i had autism,i'm just the odd one out there.When everyone was taking a nap,i was sitting by the window waiting for the time to go back home (my parent told me this) and how i didn't even finish pre-school because i had to go to primary school (because of my age).And another time like how i never really was good in Tae-Kwan-Do (quit it when i was yellow belt.My parents force me to go there)

My attribute are as weird as most of you would think.I really do have very little friends nor do i want to make friends.(i tend to be quiet and never speak out.Another autism related attribute) ever since i have friends,they do always pick on me,lied about everything and i just can't seem to do anything about it.I felt hopeless at that time :( So now i just have very few friends and even then i never trust them.Like my motto: Don't trust anybody,not even yourself and i still live by that motto.Because you just can't trust anybody,not even your close friends or even your parents.They just turn back at you when you least expected.

I also have problems with life,and i do always feel depressed like one of those Down's syndrome kids.When they are happy they still look sad.But thankfully thats not me,i look normal on the outside but i feel really hurt on the inside.Its like a feeling when someone stabs you in the heart,but you can't take out that knife out of your heart and the would and pain are still inside.I can't stand criticism in real life either,its either take it or leave it but never change.

Well,thats all i have to say for now (i feel pretty tired and also feel depressed but happy.(what?) its something like a bittersweet feeling.Some birthday i had.Just got my shoes stolen,lost my hockey stick but with my parents they went out and buy a new turf shoe and bring me out to dinner.Well at least i didn't complain (except i still have to go to school tomorrow *sigh* )

Well i got a few things to say before i leave,if you want to comment or criticize my story,just say anything (i can take it,but don't do this to me in person or i'll 🤬 kill you or maybe even be in a nervous breakdown.After all,i am emotional) and if you think your life is bad,prove it by telling your side of the story and share your worst moment in life.

*goes of by listening to Short stories with tragic endings by From Autumn to Ashes*
 
Well I'm not sure about the illnesses you have, but the list of things getting stolen isn't exactly tugging at my heart strings. I've know people have have had every possession they own stolen. Recently, I found out about an acquaintance who is going blind because of botched lasik surgery. Every day some little kid gets a limb amputated. Every day a parent watches their child die. Life is tough, everyone faces difficult situations.

As far as I can tell Aspeger's syndrome is a symptom of Autism. Perhaps in the most mild case of autism it doesn't exist, but it basically means you're anti-social.

The things you've listed aren't really things that you should be really depressed about - even the autism. I think (not that my opinion counts for much in this area) that your depression is probably entirely in your head. I know mine was when I was 16. I hate to tell you this but the things you're coping with are far more normal than you suspect.
 
mnm_bmx
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What your about to read here is extremely long and its not for crybabies.​
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If that's the case, I fail to see why you even bothered typing all of that.

All of your "psychological conditions" sound like a big cop-out to me. What matters is what you make of everything. So far, your only problem is you. Get over it and suck it up. You're still healthy and alive. Ages 13 to 16 are when we all get very emo. Just get through it.​
 
You may feel this way because of the way you are, but in all honesty, you are not that unlucky. Crap like that happens all the time. It just seems, and happens, to you all the time because you cannot help the way you are.

I know exactly what you mean, just minus the Autism you have (I also have Asthma). I had so called "friends" at school which really let me down at the end of the day. They did not keep at my side when I was starting to get physically bullied. They pretty much backed away, or made things worse for me. I had goods stolen from me, in one case something expensive, but I'd rather not go into the details. BUT, you must try and feel that you are not the only person in your situation, and that people are much more worse off than you are. You really shouldn't feel as bad as you do.

I am 85% over the experience I've had at school now, and College has helped quite a bit (more support and more mature people/friends). Of course, it must be doubly hard for you to overcome things because you have Autism, but don't let that get you down. You'll always come across things like this in life, but once school is finished with, things will start to get a little better. Most of the time you just have to live with it.
 
I dropped my keys down a drain once :(




- thankfully i had some spares :)
 
At your age I was down 3 grandparents from 4 (possibly 5 from 7) and 1 parent.
 
It's useful to remember that there's always someone in a worse position than you.
That's how i've got through tough times.
 
You have to make the best of every situation otherwise you will end up being depressed for the rest of your life. You also shouldn't let your disabilities get in the way of your ambitions.

There are people far worse off than you. Even from the information in your post we will never know exactly what your life is like, which makes it hard for people to place themselves in your shoes.

Do you have parents/close friends you can talk to? Have you had any therapy?

There are plenty of understanding members here on GTP and I'm sure I speak for everyone here when I say my "virtual door" is always open if you need a chat (within reason, I can't deal with relationship issues, someone else can help you with that).
 
mnm_bmx
I also have other problems in my life that i just can't seem to forget.
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Do yourself a favour and try harder... when it comes to relatively insignificant stuff anyway. It doesn't do any good to dwell too long on things you can no longer do anything about, especially stuff that really shouldn't make any difference to you now in any case. Being able to confront the past and put these things behind you is an important part of life. That said, there is equally no merit in pretending that certain (perhaps more significant) things didn't happen - like a bereavement etc. But there are ways of learning how to cope with important issues from the past rather than convincing yourself of the false notion that you are somehow cursed or that life is treating you more unfairly than it treats the rest of mankind. (A quick glance through a decent newspaper should convince you of that...)

Ever heard the expression 'you make your own luck?' It's arguably true - nobody is inherently unlucky. It sounds to me like you are more prone to recalling and making a bigger deal out of unfortunate events in your life rather than any fortunate ones that you may have had. Although not easily rectified, that is certainly something you can change about yourself over time.

For example, here's a few crap things that have happened in my life:-
  • Home burgled/vandalised 4 times
  • Hospitalised through illness/injury twice
  • Born genetically incapable of playing cricket (I'm Scottish)
  • Three very close relatives died in the past 5 years
  • Broken up with 4 girlfriends, currently single

Sounds like a proper sob-story if taken out of context. You just have to remember the good stuff as well - count your blessings, so to speak - take happiness from where you can find it - your 'real' friends, your family, the times you spend doing stuff you enjoy doing. The more time you spend dwelling on the bad stuff, the more likely you are to convince yourself that you truly are cursed. I'd be willing to bet that you're not.
 
My life doesn't suck.

I'm alive.

End of story.
 
Eh....cmon lah brader, your life does not suck okay...

I would say a case of your beloved car being made scrap metal in a few seconds by a passing train is far worse.:guilty:

plus..think of all those homeless straving children/people in the world...:crazy:
 
I agree with Duke's attitude there. You're alive and the chances are that your not starving and/or homelesss, all in all that makes you pretty lucky. Everyone has problems, I've had enough of my own, It would have been very easy for me to roll over, let them over burden me and just blame everything on that. I didn't and I don't. I've had loads of bad experiences in life, such as being chased down the street at 3am in the morning by my brother holding a knife screaming he's going to kill me. Did that affect me, yeah too right it did. Did I get over it, yeah. I didn't let that, or any other problems I've had become the source of blame for my life not being as easy as I'd perhaps like it to be.
 
Der Alta
As for me, I'm married.
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Man, I was reading this, thinkin', "Man, that actually does kind of suck."
Then I read your comment and thought, "Wtf?.... You ass. :lol:"


Kid, as for your siblings, that's nothing to consider yourself unlucky about. Try losing your parents in the same night, and the man who taught you everything afterwards just recently. There's folks out there who have it much worse than us.
 
Although having Asperger's Disease is rough, and I can't replace or help you get the family members you've lost, I can tell you this:

Don't trust anybody,not even yourself...
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Pathetic. You have to trust yourself, or you're going to have a miserable life, even if you never speak to another soul again.

And stop worrying about material items; everything will one day break, fall apart, fail to operate properly, disappear, get stolen, die, or change in some way. People are going to try to steal from you, cheat you, lie to you, make excuses, and disappear from your stage at one point. That's life.

Oh, and I'm married and still happy. Even with a kid.
 
Really? That's it? If you read the thread Der Alta posted you will see I have been through some stuff, as well as quite a few others on this board. Oddly enough, none of us think that we are the unluckiest anything in the world.

In case you didn't take the time to read it let me give a brief summary:
I went in for heart surgery one day. Three days later I woke up paralyzed on my left side. Funny thing is that at 14 I was able to realize the important part of that story is that I woke up.

Life either sucks or it rocks, it is all what you make of it. Personally, I like to think that every day is a good day.
 
I think your just feeling sorry for yourself. There are loooads of people in a worse position than yourself and you know it. Calling yourself depressed, 'the unluckiest boy in the world' and complaining your life sucks isnt going to help you.
Find a new hobby, keep yourself busy, go for a walk, listen to music(not emo garbage!), play a game etc... when your felling crap. As for all the stuff you've lost/got stolen you need wake up, be more alert and wise up like dont bring your expensive belongings into school if you cant look after them.

mnm_bmx
So now i just have very few friends and even then i never trust them.Like my motto: Don't trust anybody,not even yourself and i still live by that motto.Because you just can't trust anybody,not even your close friends or even your parents.They just turn back at you when you least expected.
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Hmm... you remind me of someone:



mnm_bmx
I was born with an illness which my parents doesn't want to tell me or do i even know what my illness is.I am suffering from asthma,autism (not sure about it,but signs of it are showing...),Aspeger's syndrome(not sure about that either),chronic depression (i am emo :( ) and mainly other physical and mental illness that i can't explain.
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Maybe you dont have an illness, maybe you think you have one. The physical illness you speak of cant be that bad if you can play hockey right?

Get out of that emo attitude, it wont help or comfort you.
 
"I complained of having no shoes
Until I met the man who had no feet."

Old quote, not sure of the source.
 
Der Alta
Suck it up.

As for me, I'm married.
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Yep - 0wn3d bigtime....

As for hard cases - Look up some of Rumple Foreskins longer posts - That kid had some hard times for sure !.....
 
AH perfect place for the age old phrase "**** happens"

I'm practically stone broke, the girl I would like to spend my life with is current an ocean away, my health is at a big low right now...but what would running a big pity wagon over a forum do? Nothing...so I suggest you don't bother...unless you live in real poverty somewhere mnm_bmx. In Duke's words "I'm alive", that makes my life good enough for me. Cowboy the feck up and get on with it eh?
 
mnm_bmx
Don't trust anybody,not even yourself and i still live by that motto.
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Get a new motto.

Did you seriously think this would elicit sympathy? People at GTP are pretty quick to give sympathy and compassion where it’s deserved, but what you’ve typed up is a big whiney angst-fest.

You’re not dying, and you even have a computer. Life is good.
 
BobK
"I complained of having no shoes
Until I met the man who had no feet."

Old quote, not sure of the source.
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I guess not having any feet he wouldn't need any shoes, so you could take his from him and then you'd have shoes.
 
I was born with a serious heart condition and ive had 6 open heart surgeries by the time i was 14.. Im not expecting any sympathy but im just pointing out your not the only one. heaps are people are far worse off then me so thats what i remember.

Dude you might think you have it hard but i can say soo many people have worse.
 

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