Unfortunate story about me:s*** just happens....(for a reason)

[Sakiale]

I'vE GOT Worse than ADhD!1!

The psychologists don't know what, but they say that it's worse. Lucky for me, I found a friend that's really great to talk to and his life and problems are very similar to mine, although apparently his adhd is not a serious. But, since my parents after finding out about my conditions have been very understanding, I'm actually happier than I've ever been. Ooooh look, shiny!!!

 

[Muzaffar]

Things could get only worse.....

Well just now (about a few hours ago) when i was at tuition,i tried to call my father and he didn't answer his phone.After trying to call him twice on his hand phone,i called my house phone and my mom picked up the phone.She then told me that my father has been robbed!I was extremely surprised than he got robbed at a time like this.

But good thing my father was unharmed and he did went to go and pick me up from tuition.So when my father arrives and when i got in the car,my father explained everything to me on how it happened.He was in Subang Parade (a local shopping complex) to buy some food for my family.He put his briefcase in his trunk and he did locked the car.After getting the food and as he was coming out from the lift,he heard some car alarm going off.So my father suspect it was just somebody else's car.

As he walked nearer to his car,he noticed it was his car alarm that went off.So he quickly rushed to his car and check his stuff whether it went missing or not.Good thing his valuables weren't stolen (like my fathers SmartTAG and his hand phone) but his trunk was open and found out that his briefcase went missing.My father suspect that the thieves has been eyeing on his briefcase for awhile and thought that my father had a laptop in his briefcase (which he doesn't!)

But there were some important documents in his briefcase,so it really was something.....(like his checkbook and some documents) He already reported to the authorities at the shopping complex.Now he has gone to the police station to do a report.Hope everything would turn out to be okay....

So does this show how unfortunate enough my family is?Well i'll try to keep an update on this if i get any info.This reminds me to make a new thread involving something like this (be sure to see it if you want) But for now this is all i know of.No identification of the robber or any witnesses that saw the situation...... (typical Malaysians.....sigh)

 

[Jimmy Enslashay]

That is unfortunate, however, I'm really finding it hard to see why you want everyone to think you're really unfortunate. I mean, sure, unfortunate things have happened to you, but they're not uncommon at all. I'm sure someone else with Aspergers has had a grandparent pass away, and many people have known someone who has been robbed before. I'm not trying to sound harsh at all, but you seem to just go into some kind of sulking mode every time something remotely negative happens to you.

In the nicest way possible, toughen up and be a man. Take it in your stride. Sulking about something will not only do absolutely nothing to help the situation, it will just make it worse.

It will also alienate most people. Sure, if you maybe had a leg amputated, your parents died, you got diagnosed with a serious illness and your best friend got hit by a bus, it would be alright to ask for a bit of sympathy and someone to talk to (obviously these are exaggerated situations, but you know what I mean). However, if you keep asking for sympathy for relatively minor things, people will start to avoid you because you're no fun to be around anymore, and you start to depress those around you by just being depressed all the time.

If you really are truly depressed in every sense of the word, then go and get some help. But sometimes in life, you need to toughen up and become a bit more thick-skinned. Life goes on. It's not the end of your life, so don't ruin it by alienating people with petty problems that won't matter in the scheme of things.

I'm sorry if this all came out harsh, but it's more a life lesson to be learnt.

 

[Kylehnat]

Very few people do not experience the loss of a grandparent. What you've experienced is completely normal, and the grief is manageable. Your grandparents would be much sadder if you had died before them.

Your father robbed of a briefcase? Doesn't sound too horrible to me. In five minutes, your credit cards can be cancelled, and the authorities notified that you've had personal information stolen. It happens all the time, and if you catch it right away, rarely does the thief gain anything from it. As long as I was okay, and my car was still there, I would be content enough. And very rarely are petty thefts targeted attacks. It is unlikely that this criminal followed your father around for months, plotting to get that briefcase.