This is not FM, but it will apply to FM.
I told myself that I need to get back into multiplayer racing. I will make it a point to do at least one Race in Raceroom every Sunday, and I will race at least 3 multiplayer sessions in Forza Motorsport. I will be using FM to get over my jitters from playing against other people, and to break my fear of being wrecked, punted and the recipient all sorts of un-sportsmanship. In turn, I must push to be competitive and actually try to win races. No more of being the "also ran" in every race I participate in.
Over the weekend I ran my first R3E race in this commitment, and I had a couple of places where if I dialed up the aggression, I would have finished at least 2 places higher. But I also had a tremendous case of nerves that caused me to back out. I used to fight for positions, with little thought about it. I don't know why it's so frightening these days. I think facing this fear in the most unforgiving place I can think of, will help. Hence, the reason I'll be doing more multiplayer in FM23.