Brett, listen closely. Just walk by her house, act casual, like your just taking a walk.. Dont feel like your stalking her, i mean it doesnt matter that you know her address, its not like she has to know that. Maybe if you have good luck she will be outside doin somethin. If you see her n she sees you, then maybe just say hi, being polite n just keep walking (but not quickly or nervously). If you live in a nice neighborhood then i dont think it will matter and she will just think your being nice. After she sees you she wont be so freaked out if you go over.
Basically, i think she will get freaked out either way, letter or post card, because she will want to know how the HELL you got her address. Either way, walking by her house would be best. And DONT just do it once! Because the one time you walk by she might not be outside.. So just walk by maybe once a week looking casual, and if she ever asks you why you walk by her house so much, just say you do a walk once a week to keep in shape or something.. Best thing to do is just to walk by n take your chances. Id rather not see a fellow GTP member get his ass beat cuz he knew a girls address when he wasnt supposed to.
The chat approach is good, so if you ever catch her in a chat, really just act like you never seen her profile before... She wont take on too well to you knowing who she is and basically hunting her down. So do NOT say her name! Not when your in the chat, until you ask her and she tells you, and DEFINITELY not if you catch her outside her house n you talk to her!
If you dont catch her in a chat in the next week or so, i really just suggest walking by her house. You see, she may not really be all that fond of the internet and she may not use it much, like once in a blue moon.
Well i hope i helped and good luck.
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