After some hours of testing i think i begin slowly to understand the DD funtionality. First i had massiv reduce all ingame car ffb´s even i was not even close to clipping (It´s unusual for a belt driver

not to adapt to the clipping "line" ) After that i reduced damper here and there and voiles i am not right there where i want to be but it´s going right direction and i found the fun back.
Taken tommorow work off just to experment with all 6 sims i am driving

So right now if i musted recommend the wheel to you.... still unsure, but ireally think now it´s a matter of days and i hope i`ll love it