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I'll just confess that I've been in the same situation as SweetshopUnion and 80Y 2C2, and no, it isn't easy by any means. For me it was a matter of just doing it, no matter how hard it was because thinking "what if" would have been far worse. I thought the possible outcomes were a success and the grandmother of all epic failures. Actually I went in to fail, with that mentality disappointment is very unlikely. Well, I was wrong... I failed but in a good way. The first thing being that she had seen it from me for a long time (which I don't doubt at all) and the second being that if anything it made us closer as I didn't have to pretend feeling another way as I did and she didn't have to have any degree of doubt anymore.
I'm 100% certain that I did what was right and can be happy that I did it. In the end I gained a huge peace of mind but lost nothing. Sometimes things turn out better than expected. Just do it and worry afterwards because every moment you spend thinking isn't doing any good.
I'm 100% certain that I did what was right and can be happy that I did it. In the end I gained a huge peace of mind but lost nothing. Sometimes things turn out better than expected. Just do it and worry afterwards because every moment you spend thinking isn't doing any good.