Going out with a girl

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"Don't over analize the date though, the single best advise on here as was said earlier, be yourself."

I dated my wife for sven years before being hitched in '09 and were it not for her accepting 'myself' I'd be screwed.
 
Mic_Col
Oh and one things been missed, is to call her the next day and say how good it all went.
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OP do NOT do this. Think of it this way, you want to be the fisherman, not the fish. YOU control her, not the other way around. If the date went well and she likes you, NOT CALLING HER will get you further than calling her. Remember, all women are attention whores, and she will be sitting at home thinking "why didn't he call me yet." Instead of bending over backwards trying to pursue her, you can sit at home and play GT all day, sleep, and more GT, and come out with better results than being a beta white knight. As long as you successfully created attraction, then this will work. One step backwards will pull you two steps forward.
 
^ /facepalm

Seriously mate, just be yourself and enjoy laughing and talking to her, without any compromise or predefined goal, things always just happen naturally. If you feel like to call her on the following morning, do it.

The "I'm the hunter and she's the prey" attitude never, ever, attracts decent women, nor does envisioning entire life with a girl you just met.

You'll do just fine. Go for it, tiger. :lol:
 
oohhh yeah
OP do NOT do this. Think of it this way, you want to be the fisherman, not the fish. YOU control her, not the other way around. If the date went well and she likes you, NOT CALLING HER will get you further than calling her. Remember, all women are attention whores, and she will be sitting at home thinking "why didn't he call me yet." Instead of bending over backwards trying to pursue her, you can sit at home and play GT all day, sleep, and more GT, and come out with better results than being a beta white knight. As long as you successfully created attraction, then this will work. One step backwards will pull you two steps forward.
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Are you really that naive, neigh, that stupid?

If you've ever given any of your friends advice then good lord do I pity them.
 
Whatever you do don't mention past relationships, that's a big turn off for women!

Turn on the charm, be smooth and don't forget to take a condom.

Oh, and good talking points are things that everyone can relate to; food and drink, the weather, movies and music and those kind of things.
 
Terronium-12
Are you really that naive, neigh, that stupid?

If you've ever given any of your friends advice then good lord do I pity them.
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It's up to the OP to do whatever he wants. One thing is for sure, my technique has served me well over the years. Can you say the same for yourself?
 
Oh dear lord, do you really need to derail the thread like that? :rolleyes:

I think the OP is wise enough to distinguish the good and bad type of advice mind you.
 
Dan_
^ /facepalm

The "I'm the hunter and she's the prey" attitude never, ever, attracts decent women...
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Terronium-12
Are you really that naive, neigh, that stupid?

If you've ever given any of your friends advice then good lord do I pity them.
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Any experience of being 'the hunter' not working out between you two guys?

I use it pretty much every day (and certainly for every lady i've courted with the exception of 2 or 3) with great success (All very decent, caring women too, fancy that!). Just because you don't agree with something (or maybe don't understand it) it doesn't mean you have to spout rubbish about it, or call people stupid for it 👎.

About the whole 'do I call? don't I call?' thing, an easy way to sort this is to say 'call me' to her when you say goodbye. That way you don't need to worry about whether or not you should, and she knows she can call you without feeling nervous about how you'll react because you're expecting her to. If she doesn't call, carry on with your life.

If you do call her, then make it a short call that gets to the point. Don't babble much, maybe a little teasing - calling recently-met women should really only be used to set dates to meet them face-to-face.
You want her to miss you, so contact (phoning, texting, IMing, FBing, etc) outside of dates should be minimal and short but sweet.

I find doing the above makes conversation incredibly easy the next time you meet up. Women pick up loads of stories and ideas that they will be bursting to share with you, and hopefully the same for you too. Exception to this rule are funny picture messages. Take a picture of a turnip and tag it with 'Saw this and thought of you x.'

Something unrelated that I just remembered and love doing (it's fun!) is complimenting her with a twist. For example 'You're kind of cute... for a shortass' 'I love your hair... imagine how good it would look if it was washed!' and so on. Deliver it right and she'll think 'Aww, that's so swee-WHAT!?'

Everything above is my opinion and not fact. It's all tried and truely tested, but still opinion.

To the haters - Open your minds, you might just learn something!
 
Aldo
Are you actually some 60 year old devout Christian from Edwardian times or something?
"Ohhh crikey I saw a flash of ankle there, I'd better wash my eyes out with bleach."
What the hell is wrong with you? :lol:
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Lmao, if you are going to be "smooth" make sure your also condom is; or at least slippery.

Edit: Why the hell did I write this ^
 
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Imakuni
Any experience of being 'the hunter' not working out between you two guys?

I use it pretty much every day (and certainly for every lady i've courted with the exception of 2 or 3) with great success (All very decent, caring women too, fancy that!). Just because you don't agree with something (or maybe don't understand it) it doesn't mean you have to spout rubbish about it, or call people stupid for it 👎.

About the whole 'do I call? don't I call?' thing, an easy way to sort this is to say 'call me' to her when you say goodbye. That way you don't need to worry about whether or not you should, and she knows she can call you without feeling nervous about how you'll react because you're expecting her to. If she doesn't call, carry on with your life.

If you do call her, then make it a short call that gets to the point. Don't babble much, maybe a little teasing - calling recently-met women should really only be used to set dates to meet them face-to-face.
You want her to miss you, so contact (phoning, texting, IMing, FBing, etc) outside of dates should be minimal and short but sweet.

I find doing the above makes conversation incredibly easy the next time you meet up. Women pick up loads of stories and ideas that they will be bursting to share with you, and hopefully the same for you too. Exception to this rule are funny picture messages. Take a picture of a turnip and tag it with 'Saw this and thought of you x.'

Something unrelated that I just remembered and love doing (it's fun!) is complimenting her with a twist. For example 'You're kind of cute... for a shortass' 'I love your hair... imagine how good it would look if it was washed!' and so on. Deliver it right and she'll think 'Aww, that's so swee-WHAT!?'

Everything above is my opinion and not fact. It's all tried and truely tested, but still opinion.

To the haters - Open your minds, you might just learn something!
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OP everything you need to know is in this post. Somebody get this man a beer. Explained perfectly.
 
Agreed. If you want to be a virgin for the rest of your life, take crooooooows advice though.
 
Terronium-12
Are you really that naive, neigh, that stupid?

If you've ever given any of your friends advice then good lord do I pity them.
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That's actually pretty sound advice. I think of it like a poker game, you got to make sure you don't show your hand until the time is right. I'd like to hear your strategy because blubbering all over a girl and calling her too much is a surefire way to be friend zoned. Girls are sneaky, they play games, you've got to do it too.

you'd figure after 9 years here i'd be able to avoid double posts too
 
Nobody gives a girl candy unless it's halloween. What are you, 12?
 
I'm going echo those who say 'be yourself'. All other advice given, pertains to that person and the sort of girls and relationships they are into. Everyone is different, its easier to just do what feels best to you rather than to try and do what everyone else does.
 
As others have said, the most important advice so far is ignore Crooow and take the more sensible interpretation by others on that subject :lol:. I've been doing it for well over a year now and it's working great for me 👍.

Aldo
The wording just cracked me up. Like those hilariously bad sex-ed videos at school.
:lol:
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Didn't you know under-age sex leads to 100% chance of death!? True statistic.


Real advice, just take it easy and don't rush into anything you feel uncomfortable with whether that be sex or declaring eternal love and whatnot. If it doesn't feel right it probably isn't, also including sex where perhaps one of those aforemention by Aldo sex ed tapes could help here :lol:.
 
oohhh yeah
Alright listen carefully,

1) Don't spend more than $40

2) If you don't clap dem cheeks after the third date, move on (srs)

3) Remember to sit across from her not beside her at the table (I've sen guys sit beside her lol)

4) Remember, no white knighting. Most women who are with a white knight will cheat on him with a wild don't give a damn alpha.
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This guy's a bb.com misc're if ever I saw one.
 
Dragonistic
As others have said, the most important advice so far is ignore Crooow and take the more sensible interpretation by others on that subject :lol:. I've been doing it for well over a year now and it's working great for me 👍.



Didn't you know under-age sex leads to 100% chance of death!? True statistic.


Real advice, just take it easy and don't rush into anything you feel uncomfortable with whether that be sex or declaring eternal love and whatnot. If it doesn't feel right it probably isn't, also including sex where perhaps one of those aforemention by Aldo sex ed tapes could help here :lol:.
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I heard that as well Drag. Very saddening news.
Just remember:



Also, anyone remember those Canadian sex ed vids that had the song "My body's nobody's body but mine"?
That was the quality of education on offer to a load of pre-pubescent kids back in the late 90s/early 2000s.
Truly astounding scenes. :lol:
 
Omnis
Nobody gives a girl candy unless it's halloween. What are you, 12?
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My girlfriend bought me a bag of Jelly Babies to our first date. I knew I was on to a winner.

Also to the OP; was your last relationship at the age of 13 or did I read something wrong? This thread has had me crying with laughter at work :lol:
 
Moglet
My girlfriend bought me a bag of Jelly Babies to our first date. I knew I was on to a winner.

Also to the OP; was your last relationship at the age of 13 or did I read something wrong? This thread has had me crying with laughter at work :lol:
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Any mention of babies on the first date seems a recipe for disaster.
 
A guy with no experience with women getting advice from guys with no experience with women. This can only end badly!

It really is quite simple.

Relax. Enjoy yourself.

Don't try to impress her, just be yourself. Make sure it's a good resturant and pay for the meal. Make sure to strike up conversation and be interested in her.

Have fun, and at the end of the night, just go with the flow.
 
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She sent a text saying she doesnt think she'll come tonight as shes not feeling the best.

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Women and their evil intentions!!
 
'Clap dem cheeks'

'smash her back doors in'

Hilariously poor advice!

BUT, if you follow others advice on being yourself, in time, you will be doing the above 👍
 
TommyWizard
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She sent a text saying she doesnt think she'll come tonight as shes not feeling the best.

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Women and their evil intentions!!
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That's disappointing, but people do get sick so try not to read into it too much.
Re-schedule it, if she cancels again then yeah, move on mate
 
TommyWizard
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She sent a text saying she doesnt think she'll come tonight as shes not feeling the best.

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Women and their evil intentions!!
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She's been reading this thread hasn't she?
Sorry Tommy.
:D
 
Sounds like you've been stood up already by her, shes not worth it! :yuck:

Sorry to here Tommy.
 

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