Going out with a girl

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I'll keep the faith...

Let me back track some......

Not last week but the week before we met for the first time. We where having a meeting in a friends house for the arrangments for what would be happening the next week we where all to go up to a holiday home (8 of us total, 2 girls 6 guys).

Fast forward to last Thursday night, both of us are sitting next to each other in a club. She leans over after a while a tells me that she likes me. I cant believe my luck as after another pint of H20 I was going to say the same thing to her! She said ever since she seen me she wanted to get to know me more etc.

Fast forward again to Saturday night and the entire group of us whent out to dinner. All of us complained after wards as the food was terrible. I havent been right for a few days, hell I still dont have my appitite back yet. So maybe that has something to do with it.

I sent a text back saying that it was a shame she couldn't make it out. I told her not to worry about it too much but if she changes her mind I'd still be up for it
 
Give her another chance. If she makes excuses next time, leave it as that. If she's genuinely interested she'll need to be making the next move.
 
Paulie
WTF is a girl?
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Funniest post I've read in weeks :lol: 👍

My response?
Stick it in her ear.



My proper response?
Listen to Imakuni. Its not that you treat them mean or be a jackass, you just know the game and don't be too clingy.

Now go and and take your girl out on a date LIKE A BAWS
 
A few tips would be..
• Don't imagine her naked
• Don't think about sex
• Don't stare at her chest or behind
• Make sure she uses mouthwash. :dunce:

On a serious note.. The best advice anyone can give you, is to relax. Be yourself. Maybe even tell a few jokes and make her laugh. Remember, it's your first date with her ; It's just going to be a casual outing.
 
@Moglet, I have dermititus, alcohol dries my skin really badly and makes it peel and ooze a digusting liquid that comes with a horrible odor. Thats why I go H20 ;)

Hard not to imagine her naked....:D but something I will have to train myself to do hahaha
 
If you're at least, socially, 50% better than her you have it made. If you feel it's like driving a new sports car and you think it's gonna get nicked if you park it somewhere, forget it.
 
BRADZZZ11
A few tips would be..
• Don't imagine her naked
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Aldo
Are you actually some 60 year old devout Christian from Edwardian times or something?
"Ohhh crikey I saw a flash of ankle there, I'd better wash my eyes out with bleach."
What the hell is wrong with you? :lol:
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Thank god you got to him before I did.:sly:
 
Dear lord some of your attitudes towards women are beyond disturbing. If you haven't slept with her by the third date, dump her? Seriously? I thank my lucky stars that I have two boys so I don't have to keep a lookout for the majority of you guys in this thread to come knocking on my door.

FK, Pako, et al - If these are the kind of guys that come along looking to date your daughters, I truly feel for you.
 
TB
Dear lord some of your attitudes towards women are beyond disturbing. If you haven't slept with her by the third date, dump her? Seriously? I thank my lucky stars that I have two boys so I don't have to keep a lookout for the majority of you guys in this thread to come knocking on my door.
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You might see "ooohhh yeahh" at your door...
I have my suspicions about him. Keep an eye out.
 
:P

Dont worry im taking it all with a pinch of salt. I can be very patient with things so Im going to play hard to get and if she's ready for it when I am then that will be the time to cross that bridge. 3 dates in is a little bit.... too soon in my eyes. I mean, sex is just like driving, all men think they are brilliant at it. And that took some time to come to grips with.

Besides, Im in this for the long haul. Found an awesome quote that I'll rhyme off to her a few dates in. "Even if we don't end up getting married some day, for the course of our relationship Im going to treat you as nice as I can. So the day when you do get married I can look your new husband in the eye, shake his hand and say that this is ________ and I took care of her."
 
TB
Dear lord some of your attitudes towards women are beyond disturbing. If you haven't slept with her by the third date, dump her? Seriously? I thank my lucky stars that I have two boys so I don't have to keep a lookout for the majority of you guys in this thread to come knocking on my door.

FK, Pako, et al - If these are the kind of guys that come along looking to date your daughters, I truly feel for you.
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Nice to know I'm not the only one with respect for women, Jesus Christ.
 
TB
Dear lord some of your attitudes towards women are beyond disturbing. If you haven't slept with her by the third date, dump her? Seriously? I thank my lucky stars that I have two boys so I don't have to keep a lookout for the majority of you guys in this thread to come knocking on my door.

FK, Pako, et al - If these are the kind of guys that come along looking to date your daughters, I truly feel for you.
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Hey I know how they feel, I have a sister 4 years my junior and my family and my neighbours kept it quiet she had a boyfriend for 6 months before I found out!

She's now "in love" and dating the head boy (top prefect) from when she was in school, he's a complete wet blanket but I've made clear the circumstances in which his health could be in grave danger.
TommyWizard
:P

Dont worry im taking it all with a pinch of salt. I can be very patient with things so Im going to play hard to get and if she's ready for it when I am then that will be the time to cross that bridge. 3 dates in is a little bit.... too soon in my eyes. I mean, sex is just like driving, all men think they are brilliant at it. And that took some time to come to grips with.
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That's cool. I started seeing a real nice girl, thinking it's no big issue if it takes a month before we have sex, 5th date came as quiet a surprise then!

Besides, Im in this for the long haul. Found an awesome quote that I'll rhyme off to her a few dates in. "Even if we don't end up getting married some day, for the course of our relationship Im going to treat you as nice as I can. So the day when you do get married I can look your new husband in the eye, shake his hand and say that this is ________ and I took care of her."
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Don't do that. Because 1) it's a quote and probably from a movie 2) "even if" and "marriage", creepy, 3) Just don't.
 
5) Ok then. lol

I thought it was cool. Potato / Pootaatoo.

So, the next question guys. We havent rescheduled when we will try and meet up. What did some of you guys actually DO on the first one?
 
TommyWizard
:P
I mean, sex is just like driving, all men think they are brilliant at it.
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As Jay Leno rightly said during his lap on Top Gear. :sly:

"Even if we don't end up getting married some day, for the course of our relationship Im going to treat you as nice as I can. So the day when you do get married I can look your new husband in the eye, shake his hand and say that this is ________ and I took care of her."
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You like using quotes don't you? :scared:
 
I like to think the more questionable attitudes/comments are of the light hearted/joking variety....I know my comment certainly was.
 
TommyWizard
5) Ok then. lol

I thought it was cool. Potato / Pootaatoo.

So, the next question guys. We havent rescheduled when we will try and meet up. What did some of you guys actually DO on the first one?
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Pub. And we were both on soft drinks, and didn't eat. But that's not a normal first date!

Cinema is generally a no go, blocks talking, too many things for you to pay for, can be a crap movie (Epic Movie, almost ruined a date for me).

If you know a pub with a decent open-mic night that can be a laugh, gives you plenty to talk about. Or just something like a nice but easy on the wallet restaurant or light lunch at a diner.
 
I did cinema with my girl. It was fine though because it gave us plenty of things to talk about afterwards.
 
Aldo
You might see "ooohhh yeahh" at your door...
I have my suspicions about him. Keep an eye out.
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Like others have commented, my advice is quite sound:tup:You know how they say 10% of the guys are ****ing 90% of the girls? Well you're not in that 10%.
 
Ask her to to tell you more about herself. But interject with a question relating to what she's saying every few minutes. That way, you can appear more attentive than you are.
 
oohhh yeah
Like others have commented, my advice is quite sound:tup:You know how they say 10% of the guys are ****ing 90% of the girls? Well you're not in that 10%.
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What kind of ass-backwards math is that? :lol:
 
Seriously guys, why turn this thread into judging other people? We're all different, leave it at that. Implying someone doesn't know how to treat a girl just because of a few posts on the internet is moronic.

Ahh, first dates. Ikea, Toys'R'Us, Homebase, the possibilities are endless.
The lady i'm with at the moment got treated to a trip to Ikea, where she seemed to be hinting to me that she wanted us to buy and furnish a house together!
Her - 'I REALLY like this sofa, the colour is so warming'
Me - 'Woah, woah, woah! Our first date and you're planning new furniture for my place already? Slow down there, you have to impress me first... and it's not going well so far...'

Go anywhere that you can have fun. Stores are fun for me because I can accuse the girl of trying to advance the relationship too quickly when she says she likes stuff on display (such as the example above).
I can also get on with my daily routine, get my shopping done, all while on a 'date'. Who says men can't multi-task!? Oh, that's right, WOMEN!
I used to take women on 'proper' dates - the cinema, dinner, ice skating, etc. One date I just decided to bring them into my everyday life and see if we could still have as much fun in usually mundane places.
Obviously you can make these places boring if you go in, grab the things you want and get out again, so it's up to you and her to take time to wander around and make it exciting! Think of her as the little girl who is bored while shopping with her parents. Involve her, get her to carry ridiculous amounts of stuff while you walk around empty handed, get her to pose with power tools and make inappropriate jokes!
Me - *Gives her a big SDS drill to hold* 'Hmm... you like big power tools?'
Her - 'I LOVE big power tools. Do you have a big power tool?' *giggle*
Me - 'I actually have several. Quite a lot of Makita, nice, lightweight circular saw with mitre attachment...' *technical babble about power tools*
Her - 'That's not what I meant...'
Me - 'I know what you meant and i'm fairly disgusted. How inappropriate. I thought you were a nice, well-behaved girl.'
Her - *WTF face*

If they can see that you live your everyday life having fun, they'll practically beg you to take them out for a real date!

EDIT: If you are painting a room, be sure to get a date sorted for it. Get her to wear old clothes and paint naughty words/pictures on the wall then show her before trying to paint as much of her as possible. Nose, hand prints in appropriate places, roller down the back, for me it ended up with a half-full tin of paint being emptied down my jeans. Quite a nice sensation actually.
 
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oohhh yeah
Like others have commented, my advice is quite sound:tup:You know how they say 10% of the guys are ****ing 90% of the girls? Well you're not in that 10%.
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Are those 10% rent boys? Have fun at the GUM clinic bro. 👍
 

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