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Yeah...she's a no go...found out one of my friends asked her out TWICE (even after being at her house, texting pretty much daily, etc,) and she said no.
Well, I've got a Plan B (Date girl whose madly in love with me, but doesn't live in my town. Pretty decent/good looking) and a Plan C (Try luck with one of original girls' friends).
Or should I back out alltogether?
What should I do?
I'm a girl. I can help.
The Friend Zone is a good place to be in. It might not feel like it, but it is. This means that she trusts you, likes you as a friend, and thinks you're funny and the sort. All hope is not lost. You can edge your way out of the Zone. Personally, when someone is in my Friend Zone, they're in there forever, but I don't like relationships anyway. Two of my friends now like each other, they're first date will probably be to see The Hobbit next week. The guy was in my friend's Friend Zone for a while, but these were her exact words to me yesterday, "He was in the Friend Zone for ages, but somehow he's just managed to... edge his way out." It IS possible to get out of there.
BUT. Don't try too hard to get out of there, because we girls notice it. Don't be too overpowering, but don't leave her alone too much. Talk to her as much as you can, but only when she wants to. If she's not really looking at you, or seems distant, ask her what is wrong. If she says it's nothing, tell her that you know something is wrong. This means you care about her, and you'll gain some more likeage. Don't keep repeating, "What's wrong?", because that is really annoying. Go for the, "I've known you long enough to know when something is wrong." approach. It works. I know.
I should open a Friend Zone helpline here.