I know how you feel on that one. I was the same way a while back. you went the smart way by getting an S14. I made the brave mistake of trying to drift in the HKS Genki hyper silvia.... Needless to say, no luck. After an endless amount of time practicing, tuning, crashing, spinning out,and almost giving up... I GOT IT. on the subject of the S14 Try going and getting these parts:
original suspension ( i went to hks)
all drivetrain mods
N2 tires
race brakes and controller
stage 2 weight reduction
build motor to 266hp
Set suspension to:
springs: 14.0 14.0
heighth: 80 80
camber: 1.0 0.5
shocks: 8 8
stabilizers: 1 1
that should get you a good start. drifts great for me.