Well The SIMS Franchise is a simulator too then...
Sorry dont agree in the part where you call this a simulator just because it has many cars that handle ok. No windeffect, tiretemperature, tirepressure, fuel consumption, lights, sound, damage, G-effects, grip on different surface, collisions, viewangle + much more outside the cars. Rolling starts, no qualifying, no real pitstops, prices of cars not logical and so on and so on...
Half the stuff you mentioned is in the game and some of the other half just doesn't relate to the game being a simulation or not. What do you think the definition of a "simulation" is?
It's not the perfect recreation of something, which let's be honest, none of us would really want anyway, wouldn't be much fun if they simulated a crash so realistically that it really killed you.
GT5 does have tire temperature, tire pressure, fuel consumption, lights, sound, damage, g-force effects and different grip on different surfaces and adjust your viewing angle. Are you honestly going to tell me that GT5 has none of that? Rolling starts are not unrealistic either, though GT5 has both standing and rolling starts. No qualifying is an issue, but all that relates to is how the game simultes a real race weekend. No one is going to claim GT5 does that, it simulates how a car drives which applies to all the cars, and how it looks, which the premium cars do to a higher level than the standard cars. Doesn't stop it being a simulation though.
As for it having "many cars that handle ok", define what you mean? Because every car in the game uses the same physcis engine be it standard or premium. So if you are saying scrap the standards becasue they don't handle as well, then surely you scrap the premiums too becasue they handle the same.
I have never played the SIMS (honestly never) but I guess it is a simulator of sorts, though compared to what it is simulating a very basic one. Racing games are basic simulations of real life too, no racing game can be a true simulation because there's too much you can't replicate, but that doesn't mean they aren't simulators otherwise there wouldn't be a single simulator in existance because nothing, and I mean nothing that we do to simulate real life is ever as real as real life.