The General Relationship Thread

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SVT Cobra GT
Well mine is gone. Went up to see her last Friday and it was ended there. Had to take all my stuff home and say goodbye, was the worst thing I've ever done in my life. We are still friends but I doubt we'll see each other much.
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Hang in there man.
 
Well im Single again :P, I think it's good this way. Need time for myself :P, Anyway the girl i dated earlier, said she would date me again, Just she stressed out and needs time.
 
Time. The biggest lie of all time. Don't get me wrong but if the word time is involved almost every time means trouble.
 
It's just something that girls use when they're scared to say what they think and hope that after long enough you'll have forgotten. In my experience girls have just come up with bull crap excuses to avoid "Hurting our feelings" or some assorted nonsense. I mean a girl I know, said we should just be friends because she can't have a boyfriend as it'll be too stressful and such. Nowadays all she goes on about is how much she wants one.
What's everyone's problem with the truth, really!? You don't like me? Good, at least I know, don't hide it behind things.
 
AlvaroF
Time. The biggest lie of all time. Don't get me wrong but if the word time is involved almost every time means trouble.
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I mean i'm using "Time" as like being single. And there was no trouble in the previous relationship. The only reason we broke up was because she was very stressed about school and people at schoo.
 
Callumfromleeds
It's just something that girls use when they're scared to say what they think and hope that after long enough you'll have forgotten. In my experience girls have just come up with bull crap excuses to avoid "Hurting our feelings" or some assorted nonsense. I mean a girl I know, said we should just be friends because she can't have a boyfriend as it'll be too stressful and such. Nowadays all she goes on about is how much she wants one.
What's everyone's problem with the truth, really!? You don't like me? Good, at least I know, don't hide it behind things.
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Amen man, 🤬 Amen to that!

If the truth hurts, it hurts there is no reverse or no other way around that. I am a bit cold person and it happened more than once where I hurted someone but it was tr truth.

TheKitten
I mean i'm using "Time" as like being single. And there was no trouble in the previous relationship. The only reason we broke up was because she was very stressed about school and people at schoo.
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I understand that. I thought the same the last time love went wrong but sooner or later you'll have to get back on the fishing boat. Take your time though, I was sabbatic for 2 years and it was way too long, don't rush but don't be late.
 
Stress from people in general is a bunch of bull for ending it. A relationship should not interfere and if anything help out the situation because you can vent out to each other.
 
Slashfan
Stress from people in general is a bunch of bull for ending it. A relationship should not interfere and if anything help out the situation because you can vent out to each other.
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I think she jumped to fast into a relationship like a day after she broke up with her bf. I know her since she was like 6 i think, and have been quite close to her. She's prob not the same after her mom past away a year ago.
 
If its meant to be it will happen.
 
Slashfan
If its meant to be it will happen.
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I think it wasn't really the time to go out imo. I honestly think we never went out since we didnt hang out. But she just feels so right.
 
TheKitten
I think it wasn't really the time to go out imo. I honestly think we never went out since we didnt hang out. But she just feels so right.
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You've got a long term connection with her. You have a large bond. All you need is to wait things out. Make sure she isn't into anyone else and then convince her that you are right for each other.
 
terminator363
BS she's not coming back.
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So you're assuming? She said after she broke up with me that after everything sorted out she would want to go out again with me. I told her i wanted a Serious Relationship.
 
TheKitten
So you're assuming? She said after she broke up with me that after everything sorted out she would want to go out again with me. I told her i wanted a Serious Relationship.
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Look man, it's a false statement. From what I understand of women, they say those things to "let you down easier". Which is utter bull but it's how a lot think. Maybe you're one of the lucky few and it does happen but it's unlikely.
This is how it should be, an honest truth no matter how harsh.
 
TheKitten
So you're assuming? She said after she broke up with me that after everything sorted out she would want to go out again with me. I told her i wanted a Serious Relationship.
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I have had a girl pull this on me. Give it up and move on.
 
It was good but the animal cruelty at the end fake or not was a bit much for me. Ironically enough, I guessed he'd do that correctly why that sketch appeared lmao.
 
Well things seem to have looked up!

Yesterday I went to see a friend of mine who turned 21. After we both went home, she carried on texting me and it was then she said that she's liked me 'for quite a long time'

Bear in mind that I've been single for 1 week now and I just want to get used to being on my own and enjoy my youth and freedom.
But I do want that solid security of a relationship and this girl is really nice and she seems like a keeper.

What do I do? :banghead::boggled:
 
First, get drunk. Then think about her. If with you think of her drunk like you do sober it's worth a shot.

Do not forget that girls, although appearing, are not a prision, you might be compromised but you can still enjoy nights out with your mates and your "freedom" can be enjoyable to some point.
 
SVT Cobra GT
What do I do? :banghead::boggled:
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If you need some time to figure yourself out, why is this even a question?

If she genuinely likes you as she says she does, she's not going to put some kind of ultimatum onto you. Especially if she knows you've just come out of a relationship. Take as long as you need, because you should be your own priority.
 
I decided to stay quiet for a while, but I think I need to vent...

Saw my Gorgeous Nightmare on Monday, after a month waiting for her to be in the mood... Went for dinner, and overall we had a good time... :)👍

Did my homework, obviously. I dressed elegantly, brought some roses, told her how beautiful she was, touched her... Everything was perfect & she reacted as expected... :O

But, as for today, she has been silent... Not a single SMS, call, SMS, Viber Message... nothing... :indiff:

This behaviour is common, actually. She simply... disappears...

I wouldn't be worried, because like I said, it's normal... BUT... I have 2 reasons to fell uneasy right now:

1.- She said she felt sick on Tuesday, and that's about everything I've heard from her since Monday...
2.- We agreed to see each other on Monday... so...

I might be up to another thousand year wait to see her... but I might not have time for it... Not because I don't want to wait... you all know I'm crazy enough to keep waiting... :lol:

I might not be able to wait... because I might move from Mexico City...

...


Nobody knows this... only me, mom, dad & my sis... (and you guys)...
 
^ My ex-girlfriend told me she was "sick" next thing I now she broke up with me :indiff:.

Speaking of which I just had an awful dream the night before where I'm still dating her and we meet again on this balcony where we first made out. Weird 🤬, I woke up feeling terrible ugh. I want to get this stupid girl off my back - what the hell gives??
 
terminator363
^ My ex-girlfriend told me she was "sick" next thing I now she broke up with me :indiff:.
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You must be new here :sly:

Just joking bro :) She's not even my girlfriend... she's been my love interest for the past 3-4 years... but she still refuses to move forward and make things formal...

I just hope she's ok. I've completely ruled out a date on Monday, I prefer her to get well from whatever she has (if she has anything) and focus for February 14th...

Like I said, I don't have much time, we don't have much time...

Just sent her my usual "Goodnite" message on Viber...

terminator363
Speaking of which I just had an awful dream the night before where I'm still dating her and we meet again on this balcony where we first made out. Weird 🤬, I woke up feeling terrible ugh. I want to get this stupid girl off my back - what the hell gives??
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Deja vú???

I know that feeling, it's not nice... :guilty:
 
What happens when you have your 5 ex-girlfriends (even one whom you hadn't heard in a long time) all in the same party?

Chaos ensues. That's what happens. 🤬
 
Yauma9
What happens when you have your 5 ex-girlfriends (even one whom you hadn't heard in a long time) all in the same party?

Chaos ensues. That's what happens. 🤬
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