The General Relationship Thread

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@TheKitten

Dude, honestly.. you have to stop jumping from woman to woman and just find a person you truly like. Stop falling for all of that cutesy **** that's been going on and look into something more serious. As odd as it sounds I could see why it'd be nice to explore different relationships in high-school but for a person especially a high-schooler to be jumping through relationships like rings of fire seems really stressful. If I were you I'd just chill out and let things roll, if a girl likes you and you're interested let her know but don't over-commit.

And nothing is wrong with you. :p
 
McLaren
Why on earth would you tell a girl what others are gossiping about her? There was your mistake.
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I get that some girls don't necessarily have the best reputations, but you shouldn't confront a girl about her past. I agree here with McLaren
 
Unless she really likes you, you can kiss any chance you had goodbye.
 
phillkillv2
Lol, I definitely agree. Not only women but no-one wants to know what others think of them especially when it's negative.
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I actually don't even care what others think about me. Hell, I don't care if they think about me at all.

I mean... I'm perfectly fine with someone not liking me. I don't have to be friends with them, nor do I want to.

BUT! if they don't buzz off, if they're persistently talking bad stuff about you, it means you're important enough for them to care about you in one way or another.
 
That's coming from a guy. Girls these days are way too sensitive about their appearances and social status.

Yes, @TheKitten, you messed up. Now learn from your mistake mate.


BTW, what's the weirdest/funniest way you guys got into a relationship?

My weirdest way of getting into a relationship started off with a calm bike ride through the neighborhoods.

I was coming on to the main road and waited for the 'Walk' sign to turn on. When it did, I stood up on my bike and started pedaling.

This car comes in really quickly about to turn right. The driver doesn't yield and cuts me off. I yank hard on my front brakes and unfortunately collapse on to the ground as I landed on the bar between my legs.

The driver pulls over and runs to me. Im already on my back looking up at the sky, as if to say, why me?!

This beautiful Brunette pops into my view looking at this pathetic man, groaning in pain. She was trying to conceal her laughter by giving a "concerned smile" but it wasn't working.

She offered to drive me to the hospital. Flashback to ten seconds ago, her driving was awful. I rejected her offer and started cursing at her under my breath while at the same time admiring her beauty.

I sat up on the side walk, and she sat next to me. It was a quiet day, so we decided to talk and to get to know each other while the paramedics came. We had a lot of things in common.... before I knew it, I had a kiss and her number.

She was an excellent kisser and companion with an outstanding personality, unfortunately she was a horrid driver.
 
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Getting asked out by girls. Several times. Other than that, can't think of any weird ones.
 
Getting asked out by a girl is definitely weird. The tradition of the man, 'maning' up to ask a female out has always been there. To have the opposite gender ask you throws you off sometimes.
 
Edit: I should stop Ninja this. I'm done, back to my Kitty Life. :). And yes everything my fault in the relationship. Guess she doesn't believe that either. I'm an idiot. Ugh Kittens are dumb. Well.
 
Answering to @Team THRT Drift's question.

The funniest way I met someone was a few years back while on scout activity and a big group of people from everywhere in the world and there was this girl from the region where I live but I've never seen her around, somehow we were the last two left and she won (I lost to a girl and it wasn't on purpouse) and we got in a relationship. It was pretty much it.

@TheKitten, people make mistakes, but that one was a quite daft one. Sorry to say this, but at least you can learn from it. You ruined one, there's oppurtunity for you to get the next one right. Life goes on.
 
You're right on this. However she liked another guy which i didn't know about. And apparently during Winter Carnival they Made out. Soo.. I dont really know whats going on.

And just to make this clear. We never went out. Close. But not close enough. But... As i said many pages ago. The girl that really liked me back in January, her best friend liked me to. But now that girl dun like me. So now. Im pondering if i should make my move on her best friends. I mean i think its a better bet then the other girl that went miserably wrong. I talked to some of my other friends and they think it would be a good relationship. Guess ill see.
 
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Team THRT Drift
BTW, what's the weirdest/funniest way you guys got into a relationship?
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My ex. & I met through mutual friends, and knew who each other was for about a year. At a party, I thought she looked really good, and decided to talk to her more 1-on-1. I got maybe a minute in before she excused herself. To me, I had been shot down & accepted it. It wasn't until a couple months later after my operation that she contacted me & asked how I was doing. I replied I had just gotten out of the hospital that day & asked if she wanted to meet for drinks, to which she agreed. During our first date, I brought up the party & told her I didn't think she liked me since she left our conversation so early. She replied that wasn't the case at all, in fact, she was more surprised I initiated any conversation because in her mind, she thought I didn't like her since I never spoke to her beforehand.

Not weird, perhaps not funny, but strange how things play out when you actually talk to whoever it you're interested in.
TheKitten
You're right on this. However she liked another guy which i didn't know about. And apparently during Winter Carnival they Made out. Soo.. I dont really know whats going on.

And just to make this clear. We never went out. Close. But not close enough. But... As i said many pages ago. The girl that really liked me back in January, her best friend liked me to. But now that girl dun like me. So now. Im pondering if i should make my move on her best friends. I mean i think its a better bet then the other girl that went miserably wrong. I talked to some of my other friends and they think it would be a good relationship. Guess ill see.
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Wait, so you're going to ask out the best friend of the girl you revealed the gossip to? Am I reading this right?
 
no. no. McLaren you got this wrong. I'm talking about 2 other people... That goes back to January.
 
Stop trying. Take it from me, trying too hard doesn't get you anywhere. If you really want a girlfriend... stop wanting one, just meet girls and have no intention of trying to ask them out... it works better than going in there with the intention to pull them.
 
@Callum B That is true. I've been doing that for years, and I have more girl friends than guy friends. I have dated over half of my girl friends. It comes naturally.
 
I was never really trying in the first place. But anyway back to my Kitten Life. PS3 <3 I don't know where my desires are anymore. I feel like I'm in a box with nothing.
 
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No @TheKitten! Don't go back to your kitty litter box!

In all seriousness though.... there's gotta be something you want to do.
 
Took dad out for lunch at Wendy's. Went inside, started ordering food and out of the corner of my eye I notice a cute blonde headed girl serving food behind the counter that I couldn't keep my eyes off but made it blatantly obvious with my rapid "look and turn away" eye motions trying to peak a look in the wide open without getting caught. I was totally checkig her out but trying not to be obvious about it haha. I would have said something to her if he wasn't with me....it made it a bit awkward.

Not thinking anything of it, we sat down and started to eat and dad goes "Do you know that girl who serves our dinner?"

In my head I'm thinking "🤬 was I that obvious?" I must have been.

I answered no, no idea who she was, and asked him why he asked and he promptly stated:

"Oh well she looked like she was checking ya out and looking at you a lot"


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Thinking about it after I thought I caught her eye a time or two but wasn't really sure and thought I noticed her doing what I was doing (not trying to get caught) and she seems to be fumbling around at her job but maybe I'm imagining things.


Chalk up another missed opportunity. If he wasnt there I would have made a serious attempt at talking to her because I reallyyyyyy wanted to before we left. Mind you I am extremely picky about who I find attractive so it was a bit depressing.
 
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phillkillv2
I get that a-lot, and I'm usually doing something completely wrong or absolutely stupid.
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I was just standing there waiting for my food.

My dad only says that when he catches them doing it.
 
Well, she was quite silent this weekend... guess it was because she said job has been pretty though with her recently... or that's what she said...

Hopefully I'll see her on Saturday...
 
Well the girl I've been talking to seems to like me. We're getting along well, talking about practically anything and texting each other late into the night. We've talked about some NSFW things and also some intimate things too, she seems interested in those and always replies to my texts.

However, I've still not met her yet, she goes to the local university and she says she's always busy with her studies, she has deadlines all through next month so she has a lot of work to get done. Because of this I can't meet her and it's starting to frustrate me as I'm thinking we might not progress further than we are at now. Am I overthinking that or do I have a sensible reason to think that?
 
This past week, and last month, These couple girls have been hitting me quite hard. I mean hard for sex. Automatic Block. I'm so sick of this. I'm not a damn player. Nor do I want you. *Leave me alone k*
 
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Well the girl I've been talking to seems to like me. We're getting along well, talking about practically anything and texting each other late into the night. We've talked about some NSFW things and also some intimate things too, she seems interested in those and always replies to my texts.

However, I've still not met her yet, she goes to the local university and she says she's always busy with her studies, she has deadlines all through next month so she has a lot of work to get done. Because of this I can't meet her and it's starting to frustrate me as I'm thinking we might not progress further than we are at now. Am I overthinking that or do I have a sensible reason to think that?
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First question: What is her classes that she's really busy in? (not an insult to her intelligence at all) If she's taking underwater fire prevention classes and she's claiming to be busy then it may be stalling. If she's in some serious classes that do require lots of time and research then no worries for the time being. She's putting her studies as her first priority. That's a girl you want in that case.

Finally, I think you have a sensible reason to think it's stalling. If she's not taking anything hard or time consuming at college, yet she can't see you then that's a big red flag.
 
TheKitten
This past week, and last month, These couple girls have been hitting me quite hard. I mean hard for sex.
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