The General Relationship Thread

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TheKitten
Haven't given you guys news in awhile.


Anyway. I am now in a Relationship :). Shes wonderful. Has a positive attitude. And really wants to work hard in this relationship, she smiles all the time :). She 18 though. But were just about 3 years apart. Shouldn't be a big deal. Since honestly i could care less. Shes very different from all the other girls Ive talked to. She has a heart and very caring. Shes very beautiful in my eye. She even has a PS3! We played some GTA Online :p.

Well thats my update.

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Great news bro! :) Congratulations!!!
 
Schwartz
I'm 19 years old. Take my age, divide it by zero, and that's how much dating experience I have.
Math jokes probably don't help either...

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The same with me, but with 2 more years...
 
You know guys... I just realized something. I actually had a real chance for a relationship in my previous university (I changed my studies because I couldn't take any more methodology).

There was this girl that I would talk with every day. I can definitely say we liked each other. I just thought I got friendzoned, but now that I think of it I may have just been too late in starting to think about her more... 'seriously', so to say. She got into a relationship with an almost-friend of mine (I always make a difference between friends and colleauges or classmates, I'm careful about choosing people I share stuff with). I'm by no means saying I'm mad at him, no. He's an awesome guy, and he's still one of the few people I don't regret getting to know.

I realized it when she suddenly popped into my head for no reason at all. The situation I thought about, though... Let's just say that I recall this particular moment as the single nicest thing that anyone has ever said to me.

I remember that there was time at this university when I was extremely depressed because of my earlier life and my future life; I was dead-scared for some reason and I kept getting the feeling that something really bad was about to happen to me.

You know what she did?
DOES YOU KNOWS WAT SHEE DED?

When we were sitting next to each other during a break between two lectures, she just asked me (after observing me for a bit of time) what is going on with me. Hell, she could notice that I was down... And I don't think that someone who wouldn't care about me would ask me about that.

Maybe I'm overthinking this, but believe me... Never, EVER in my life was I asked about anything in a way more caring and half as kind as this. She even changed the position she was sitting in to face me more!

Just a short... throwback... Friday... yeah C:

But! As I'm saying, she's in a relationship with this guy now. And you know, I'm actually fine with the fact that it's him and not me, but there's still some small regret in me. I know he is able to give her a lot. I knew the dude pretty well and, again, he's a good guy. If it was someone else, I think I'd regret this FAR more than I do.
 
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Update from me;

Girl I've been talking to there has been no progression. Still talking everyday and I make her smile apparently.

Since then, I've been talking to two others and one seems interested and the other could be. It hasn't been very long that we've spoken but she likes my car and wants to go for a spin in it! I knew the Capri would pull women!

Anyway, just keeping my options open and I'm sure we'll see what happens soon enough.
 
Just got back from a nights clubbing, and my mate managed to grab a number from some girl. Yet I am left without even that :(. There was this one girl I recognised from the year below me (when we were at school) who kept looking at me, but I don't think I'm going to read too much into that.

Also, I told my mate about that girl I drunkenly messaged on Facebook (I mentioned it once or twice on this thread) and guess what? He's only gone out with her before in the past :eek:.

FML.
 
I need to get back to Walmart ASAP. Cute blonde working at Subway there that I can't get off my mind :D
 
Ryanswannell
There was this one girl I recognised from the year below me (when we were at school) who kept looking at me, but I don't think I'm going to read too much into that.

FML.
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That's usually the most basic of hints of "come talk to me". True, it doesn't mean she's desperately in love with you, but it's a very simple sign that there's some interest.
 
I'm still bored, I've gained no relationships in the past few months at this school in the spring semester. I think im going to California soon so I guess I can spring up with some locals I know there. Funny thing is that in California, I'm just generally able to talk to people more often in public and people like to spring conversations with me its really weird because I was the the one that was trying to to ignore the people that were talking to me. Last time I went this really nice looking girl talked my ear off on the bus until I got off. I was quite confused because I never get into lengthy conversations here.. Some other people just would walk with me in Mission district in SF and talk to me. So weird but cool. Can't wait to be there again soon.
 
Well, shes moving sometime this week. Well. that didnt go long... And she broke up with me..

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I wouldn't feel bad about it; she really should have said beforehand that she was moving, rather than sway you into a relationship just for her to pass the time. You're not at fault here. 👍
 
Worthless update: Despite I saw her on Saturday... things are still horrible...

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Don't know if I care, if something outside of us is terribly wrong (probably something about her family)... or if I still like her...

Ugh.

TheKitten
Well, shes moving sometime this week. Well. that didnt go long... And she broke up with me..

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Whoops... it seems nothings wrong... she was just fixing some minor issues regarding a weekend trip, that's why she was silent the last 2 days...

I'm not going to say things are cool, but I think things are "ok" for now...
 
Well I was supposed to meet up with the one that I was hoping to be "in a relationship" but I got sick on Friday lasted through one of the best weekends to get out. Now with that S stuff coming I don't think I will be doing anything this week...
 
Update;

The girl I've been speaking to for a long while has had her confidence knocked by me because I told her I was keeping my options open. She's been too scared to meet me and no matter how many times I've tried to comfort her on that she still wouldn't meet me. So I've kept my options open and she's seen my point of view on it.

As for the other girl I've been briefly talking to for a couple of weeks, we're meeting next Monday after work!

And to sweeten everything up, I've now been talking to someone else for a week and she seems majorly keen! She wants to see me by the sounds of it!

Bloody girls!!
 
I made a new friend!
She sits opposite me in my PTE (Philosophy, Theology and Ethics of Religion) class, so we've chattered some. But last week after having a new timetable from dropping a subject I had a free before so I was there early, and so was she. I leaned against the wall playing Pokemon Emerald (it seems the ultimate friend magnet) and she came and stood beside me, put her head on my shoulder and watched, talking about Pokemon with me.
Pretty awesome right? Damn right.
This week was more of the same, we were both 10 minutes early and were discussing the whole Google maps Pokemon thang. She caught 72, what a lass. I don't know where this is going but it's just nice to have a new friend with my interests. I can make her laugh and smile so I can't argue at all.
I forgot to mention, she's uber gorgeous.
 
I let her copy a worksheet during school today. So I guess you can say things are getting serious...

anyways, I'm watching season 9 of How I Met Your Mother and the feels, man. The feels. You guys should definitely watch it. The feels....
 
ProjectWHaT
I let her copy a worksheet during school today. So I guess you can say things are getting serious...

anyways, I'm watching season 9 of How I Met Your Mother and the feels, man. The feels. You guys should definitely watch it. The feels....
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Crap you got the feels!!!!! Run!!!!!!! :p :lol:
 
There's dat new gurl in my group.

I feel we are more than definitely become good friends :sly:

Seriously though,the academy I'm at seems to be a paradise for Ukrainians, so many of them over there! I'm by no means prejudiced towards anyone, though, hell no! Just pointing that out.

And let me just say that some Ukrainian girls are prettier than some Polish girls :D
 
Ahhh... this is going to be a long post, and the last one I'm going to do about her... I think I owe you an explanation because all of you have been very kind with me...

Let's go back in time 3 weeks... when everything went down the drain...:guilty:




After her insulting Viber messages... I exploded... :mad: I swore I wouldn't forgive her... Nobody had insulted me in such a horrible way... it was a low hit... a series of... she showed to me her worst face and spitted right in my manhood and my pride...

But I did forgive her... :banghead:

She did say sorry... and I believed her... after just 3 days... 3 DAYS... All the hate, all the fury... I decided to lock it down and give it another go. God... I forgave her soo easily...:ouch:

I was serious at first... all those s:censored: words were still floating in my head... I didn't want to say her the things I used to say, like "darling" or "I love you" or "Kisses"... but after a week... I thought, I really thought things were back to normal... talking was ok, texting was ok... everything was fine again... I trusted her again...

Then... last week... I had the chance to get close to her office on Tuesday but I couldn't see her... Ok, no problem... she said...:)

I asked her out late in the week... by Thursday... she said yes... and we went out for meal on Saturday...

I was still a little bit angry... but everything faded away when I saw her...

We talked, we laughed... we had fun, had a great meal... everything was fine... talked about our plans... the future... she is saving for a car, so am I, talked about the possibility of going out an entire weekend... everything was fine...

But there was... something wrong... :sick:

Suddenly, she started talking about her ex and how great he was :yuck:, talked about how much he loved a friend of her that lives in Guadalajara, how much fun she had the night she texted me, how much money she was making (she knows perfectly my pay is way, waaay lower)... I mean... she really thinks I'm that stupid??? I remember that night like it was yesterday, and she joked about it like it was nothing...

She didn't kiss me, or hug me, everytime I tried to take her hand or make physical contact she avoided me... And then despite she didn't have anything to do after we ate... she asked me to take her home... And that was it...

Usually, I don't know why... things cool down after we see each other. But this time things got cooler than ever...

No text, no calls, no e-mails... nothing... I thought she had family problems again... or maybe she go sick again... She became a tomb... and whenever I talked to her... I felt this... you know, this feeling you get when someone's not ok... despite the fact we are just texting... I felt it...

Asked her yesterday if she was angry with me... and she told me "we are simply too different for things to work fine... we want different things... blah blah blah"

I mean, come on! She once told me we had too many things in common to be a couple... and now this???? :irked:

And well, that's about it... she is giving up again... We've been so many times in this situation it has finally become boring... for me at least: Up, down, up, down, up down, I love you, I don't, I trust you, now I don't, you are so good, you are boring, you are pathetic, you are perfect, thank you for tolerating me and my strange moods, show me some more fire, you don't have passion, I love the way you dedicate to your work and the time you've spent with me, you are a wonderful man, my ex was like the "most fascinating man in the world"...

I'm bored to death with this...






Remember that time when I wanted to tell her "You win. I give up"???... I just did.

It's over...

You may think I also gave up easily, but look, I've tolerated a lot of crap from her... these last comments doesn't sound too serious... but it's the same thing all over again, dejavú if you like... and I'm going to be 25 this year, I can't wait anymore...

So, Goodbye A... I believe... :indiff:




I need to sleep... it's been a hard night...

Take care boys...
 
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