The General Relationship Thread

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I just got friend zoned over Skype. I think this is what rock bottom feels like... :lol:

In seriousness though, we spoke for nearly 5 hours and she just seems like she isn't ready for a relationship. She said that I was a very close friend and didn't rule out anything in the future... but I'm not holding out much hope.

Damn.
 
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She seems like shes been pretty happy lately which is great. The only thing that's a bit odd though, is that if she is ever in a poor mood, it's always at the end of the day for some reason. I have no idea why. Today she seemed pretty cheery, but at the end of the day she looked distant or irritated. When I was mopping up the foyer, she was leaving and of course passed through there. I gave my standard "Have a good night! :)" and she seemed to avoid eye contact, and i assume she did that thing many of us do when we think of two different words and accidentally say a combination of the two. She mumbled something that sounded like "Excuse me." I think she mixed "you too." and "excuse me." possibly, but I couldn't tell as she said it so quietly. :confused: I'm not sure what's going on anymore to be honest. Also, she said that she would work the front desk on Tuesdays, but she didn't today, so I'm not sure what the situation is there either.
 
phillkillv2
Bailed? Ehh, I guess you can say it like that. She had to cancel the trip due to how constricted the time frame is.

She's not lying. The teacher planned on us getting done with the trip at 1pm, but she has a class. We would have had to leave early and get her back to class.

Disappointed, but nothing I can do but deal with it.

She said sorry for being "fickle."

**** all that, though. I got a new job.

Getting back into the gym, too.
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Fickle? Not the word I'd use especially when attempting to start a relationship but alright.

And that's good man! Good news indeed!
 
Team THRT Drift
Fickle? Not the word I'd use especially when attempting to start a relationship but alright.

And that's good man! Good news indeed!
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Yeah, I'm gonna keep that on the back burner. She's still going to be around, so whatever. I'll text her sometime, but as I've said, she's not really my priority as of now. And she is being very fickle not knowing what she wants. Friends? Relationship? It's like I have to lay it out.

I have to focus on my school for the rest of the month. April is going to be busy, very busy.
 
Just got out of a four year relationship 2 months ago yesterday.

Was planning on proposing in June. We met yesterday to talk, we've been talking more today.
We still love each other very much. Clearly evident by yesterday, but unfortunately, I don't think there is any rekindling of any kind. Not right now at least, I told her that cheesy line of if true love is meant to be, it will be. I hope I'm right. My hoody still smells like her from hugging, oh, how I miss her.
 
Cole Brown
Just got out of a four year relationship 2 months ago yesterday.

Was planning on proposing in June. We met yesterday to talk, we've been talking more today.
We still love each other very much. Clearly evident by yesterday, but unfortunately, I don't think there is any rekindling of any kind. Not right now at least, I told her that cheesy line of if true love is meant to be, it will be. I hope I'm right. My hoody still smells like her from hugging, oh, how I miss her.
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That made me so sad. I hope everything works out for you.
 
She sent me a text asking for how I'm doing and how my day went Thursday, and me being the person I am, I responded.

She makes my brain hurt. My response was like two hours ago.
 
So i posted here before about a girl who suddenly kept her distance and stopped talking to me without any reason. Seems like she gets the taste of her own just recently and it looks like she's really pissed off.

Felt bad for feeling good about it.
 
GTboyz
Felt bad for feeling good about it
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Why? Treat people the way they deserve to be treated. Respect is earned. Stay out of the "pedestal mentality" where men praise women even if in fact their actions can be described as douchy.

Do you know how many girl friends, strictly friends, have done this to me? Do I care? Nope. Why? Because this is behaviour I encountered back in the 2nd grade.

"Today I'll be your friend, tomorrow not."

Shows the level of maturity these "women" have reached. It's pathetic, honestly.

Just worry about yourself, man. Ignore what others think and don't pay attention to how they act.
 
V0RT3X
I'm sure most of us here understand that pain.
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Important lesson to learn here: don't try to post on this thread when you're on your phone. Always ends badly. :lol:

What I was going to post was YUUUUGE, anyway. It started off with what happened since my last post and eventually just became me ranting about why she's boring, awful, worse than Hitler, etc. I even made a list of all the things that irritated me about her.

So, yeah. I'm not going to post that. And I fairly sure that I'm probably chasing after the wrong girl, anyway. Life goes on and she's not the only girl I'm going to meet. Thank God... :lol:
 
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Important lesson to learn here: don't try to post on this thread when you're on your phone. Always ends badly. :lol:

What I was going to post was YUUUUGE, anyway. It started off with what happened since my last post and eventually just became me ranting about why she's boring, awful, worse than Hitler, etc. I even made a list of all the things that irritated me about her.

So, yeah. I'm not going to post that. And I fairly sure that I'm probably chasing after the wrong girl, anyway. Life goes on and she's not the only girl I'm going to meet. Thank God... :lol:
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I was making a reference to how most of us have accidentally sent a dumb text to a girlfriend/crush, but that still holds true. :)
 
V0RT3X
I was making a reference to how most of us have accidentally sent a dumb text to a girlfriend/crush, but that still holds true. :)
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Oh yeah. That too. Did that yesterday, actually...

Not going to tell that story, though. I'll probably go on another rant if I do. :indiff:
 
V0RT3X
I was making a reference to how most of us have accidentally sent a dumb text to a girlfriend/crush, but that still holds true. :)
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Never done that. Yet.

I've said some stupid things, but I haven't sent drunken texts, although in many times, I've felt inclined to text some girls I know while under the influence of the sweet juice.
 
Hey, i only read about brokenhearted people, cheer up everyone, it's time to go ahead, the cloud of tragedy is not eternal.
I end with a relationship of two years and nine months, five months ago, now a good girl come to my life and i follow my life like nothing. "A nail drives out another nail"
 
Well, for a first time meeting face to face, she said it was a bit awkward.... But she felt glad and thankful to see me, as implied in how many times she said thank you for the day.

Little did she know, this is my first time for meeting a girl i knew from social media and also my first time hanging out together with a girl :lol::lol::lol:
 
W3HS
I've been away from my wife for nearly two months now. The frustration is killing me.

That is all.
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Just hang in there man. I had to be away from my fiance for 3 Months before we got married. It sucks, but it will make you closer in the long run.
 
PureAlpha1206
Just hang in there man. I had to be away from my fiance for 3 Months before we got married. It sucks, but it will make you closer in the long run.
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I think 4 months is the longest we've been apart so I've got used to dealing with the distance. The hardest part is the time difference making it difficult to communicate properly on a daily basis; when I finish work she's off to bed.
 
W3HS
I think 4 months is the longest we've been apart so I've got used to dealing with the distance. The hardest part is the time difference making it difficult to communicate properly on a daily basis; when I finish work she's off to bed.
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Ouch! yeah that it tough. During our "long distance" part of our relationship I lived in South Florida and her in Seattle Washington... Time difference of about 4 or 5 hours. I don't know what your time difference is with each other but it really is difficult I agree and communication is essential. I'm sorry man that you have to go through this
 

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