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Okay but I mean do I just walk up to her and be like "Can I have yo number?"
Edit: guys today I found out that my friend is her little sister. And she told me that the girl I like likes me.

See, that's good. You'll just have to try... The worst thing she can say, is no.
 
Azuremen
Just be like "hey this is crazy but here's my number, so call me maybe?"

Doubt it would work. First she would think "What the ****?" Then he would notice he didn't have her number or any way to contact her.
 
MarinaDiamandis
"Your face. I like it. Here's my number"

Then swag off into the sunset.

That's good! If I want to joke around with her. :lol: ill save that one. 💡 That could actually work. I could be like " Your face, I like it. Here's my number." Then be like "just kidding!". But then be like" So people call me Averie, but you can call me when I get home;). Unless texting works for you, then I can text you;).
 
"Your face. I like it. Here's my number"

Then swag off into the sunset.

It has worked for me in the past, more or less.

Doubt it would work. First she would think "What the ****?" Then he would notice he didn't have her number or any way to contact her.

Did you miss the part where I was quoting a pop song?

And giving your number to the girl isn't a bad thing - I've done it many times with success. Exchanging numbers is generally preferable though considering how often people won't answer their phone for a number they don't recognize. At least on a cellphone.
 
Azuremen
Did you miss the part where I was quoting a pop song?

Oh, you quoted a pop song? You don't say?

Did you miss the part where I used sarcasm? Come on. I may be a dumbass, but I'm not that much of a dumbass.
 
Oh, you quoted a pop song? You don't say?

Did you miss the part where I used sarcasm? Come on. I may be a dumbass, but I'm not that much of a dumbass.

404 Sarcasm Not Found.

She'd probably just laugh. Humor and silliness tend to be very good strategies.
 
Then be like "just kidding!".

NEVER apologise or backtrack for what you have said, especially if you are joking around, unless you genuinely feel that you are wrong for saying it. With an opener like "Your face. I like it" you really do not need to tell the girl that you are kidding around unless she is incredibly dense and therefore not someone that you should be going after.

It has worked for me in the past, more or less.

As you know it's not what you say, but how you say it. I got an asian girls number by quoting my typical order at the local chinese takeaway, and a second asian girls number by asking "You doctor yet? Talk to me when you doctor!" - the words are not important, the body language is... and british-born vietnamese girls don't like being mistaken for chinese girls.

And giving your number to the girl isn't a bad thing - I've done it many times with success. Exchanging numbers is generally preferable though considering how often people won't answer their phone for a number they don't recognize. At least on a cellphone.

Ideally i'll give the girl my number and tell her to ring me - if i'm busy when she rings then i'll ring her back when I am free. If the girl is flakey, she won't ring and I don't have to worry about it. If she gives me her number first, i'll ring it right in front of her, that way I know it's a real number and she has my number in her call history.

If you do give your number to a girl, tell her to ring you. If she doesn't ring, forget about her - if she has a genuine reason for not ringing you then she will ring or text you at a later date or explain in person when your paths next cross.
 
MarinaDiamandis
NEVER apologise or backtrack for what you have said, especially if you are joking around, unless you genuinely feel that you are wrong for saying it. With an opener like "Your face. I like it" you really do not need to tell the girl that you are kidding around unless she is incredibly dense and therefore not someone that you should be going after.

As you know it's not what you say, but how you say it. I got an asian girls number by quoting my typical order at the local chinese takeaway, and a second asian girls number by asking "You doctor yet? Talk to me when you doctor!" - the words are not important, the body language is... and british-born vietnamese girls don't like being mistaken for chinese girls.

Ideally i'll give the girl my number and tell her to ring me - if i'm busy when she rings then i'll ring her back when I am free. If the girl is flakey, she won't ring and I don't have to worry about it. If she gives me her number first, i'll ring it right in front of her, that way I know it's a real number and she has my number in her call history.

If you do give your number to a girl, tell her to ring you. If she doesn't ring, forget about her - if she has a genuine reason for not ringing you then she will ring or text you at a later date or explain in person when your paths next cross.

Hmm, thanks.
 
MarinaDiamandis
By force or...?

There are laws against that, you know.
No...
Dean J
I think she allowed him.
Yeah. I was looking for her so I could get her number but, when I looked up from my phone, she was right there I think waiting. She said "hi" and motioned for a hug. I said "hi" and gave her one. I was so excited that I forgot to ask her for her number. :dunce:
Schwartz
I'm überjelly, bro.

Ha!
Since I can wait longer after school in the quad now, do you think I should just wait for her to come in sight and just ask her for her number now that me and here are a little more "comfortable"? Or what?
 
locoman88
Yeah. I was looking for her so I could get her number but, when I looked up from my phone, she was right there I think waiting. She said "hi" and motioned for a hug. I said "hi" and gave her one. I was so excited that I forgot to ask her for her number. :dunce:
Ha!

This is going to go a lot further I think. I like things like this, the best part of any relationship is the chase. I miss the chase :-(
 
nealcropper
This is going to go a lot further I think. I like things like this, the best part of any relationship is the chase. I miss the chase :-(

Chase? You mean "chasing" her for her number?
Anyways, more thoughts people.
Would It be better if I got her number from a friend? I don't think so... Might seem weird.
 
You have some good luck, now lets see mine...

Me: Hey (girl 1) [she plays on the volleyball team], are there any girls on the volleyball team who don't have a date to homecoming? I wasn't going to ask her, she has a boyfriend :lol:

Girl 1: Ummm... lets see... (girl 1) has a date, (girl 2) has a date, (girl 3) has a date [she then gets interrupted by the guy who sits between us]

Guy Says to girl 1: Oh yeah, I saw on facebook when (guy's name) asked you to homecoming, that was so funny! Blah blah blah, blah blah blah. Conversation is derailed, my question never gets answered

Me: :facepalm:
______________________________________

So embarrassingly, I'll have to ask the same question tomorrow Monday.
 
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locoman88
Chase? You mean "chasing" her for her number?
Anyways, more thoughts people.
Would It be better if I got her number from a friend? I don't think so... Might seem weird.

No the chase is exactly what your doing now. You not "chasing" her per se. Only chasing the prospect of a relationship with her. It's the very first step in a relationship, finding out about each other, spending time together whenever you can. It's exiting! I used to love it!
 
Schwartz
You have some good luck, now lets see mine...

Me: Hey (girl 1) [she plays on the volleyball team], are there any girls on the volleyball team who don't have a date to homecoming? I wasn't going to ask her, she has a boyfriend :lol:

Girl 1: Ummm... lets see... (girl 1) has a date, (girl 2) has a date, (girl 3) has a date [she then gets interrupted by the guy who sits between us]

Guy Says to girl 1: Oh yeah, I saw on facebook when (guy's name) asked you to homecoming, that was so funny! Blah blah blah, blah blah blah. Conversation is derailed, my question never gets answered

Me: :facepalm:
______________________________________

So embarrassingly, I'll have to ask the same question tomorrow Monday.
Hah, well I guess my colored eyes really help me, trust me. Everyone compliments my eyes. Sometimes it's even annoying.
But my eyes aren't like most people with colored eyes. There not blue,green, or gray. A mixture of those all with a hint of orange right near the pupil. So yeah, it makes it much easier to pick up girls. Kind of glad it was this easy. I was scared to ask her for her number. I actually wanna go to school now! That's what I was hoping for. Finding someone I like so I could have a reason to go to school and be happy.
nealcropper
No the chase is exactly what your doing now. You not "chasing" her per se. Only chasing the prospect of a relationship with her. It's the very first step in a relationship, finding out about each other, spending time together whenever you can. It's exiting! I used to love it!

Oh used too? Oh...
Ahh, yeah I can't spend much time but when I can, it'll be fun. I might have to start staying after school now but you know.
 
Well, as you can guess - being 300 miles away from your loved one turns into poo. Especially when they start having doubts it will last. Depressing times.
 
aadil717
Well, as you can guess - being 300 miles away from your loved one turns into poo. Especially when they start having doubts it will last. Depressing times.

Gotta be hard pal. I can't imagine being that far away from my other half.
 
Dilemma: My friend used to like this girl (still has some feelings for her), he failed to ask her out himself last year so I did it for him, was a strong no so I said best for him to move on. Now I suspect she likes me (but we know how I am with signs) and I'm wondering, would it be acceptable for me to ask her out or should I speak with my friend about it first?
 
If it was me, (that'll most likely not happen, but the reason's off this topic), I would talk with the friend about it first. Then, if he accept's it, - I would ask the girl out.
 
If it was me, (that'll most likely not happen, but the reason's off this topic), I would talk with the friend about it first. Then, if he accept's it, - I would ask the girl out.

Cheers dude 👍
 
I think I'm going to ask a girl to homecoming tomorrow.

Gotten too nervous the past 2 times. Pretty hard stuff.
 
Cowboys965
I think I'm going to ask a girl to homecoming tomorrow.

Gotten too nervous the past 2 times. Pretty hard stuff.

Go for it Brett, what's the worst that can happen? Good luck buddy 👍
 
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