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@MoLiEG She lied to me about stuff that never happened. Like saying her birth dad abused her and raped her. Which I believed, until I talked to her birth dad on FB and I learned the truth. She also tell stories to impress me. Which obviously didn't work because I knew they weren't true. When I asked her, she said she wasn't lieing. She admits last night she couldn't stop lieing because she thought I'll be mad at her. And then she goes on to my friends that I beat her up which I threw a snowball on accident. And tells them I only play video games. Which was in karate class which ended me get punished by a higher ranking belt for apparently beating her up when a snow ball went a tad harder then I thought and I even said sorry to her and she said she was fine.


Ugh... Feel heartbroken..



She texted me like a million times last night that she's sorry etc etc. And I'm the only thing that makes her happy..
 
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Rutter200_VR46
Feels amazing getting shot down.. constantly:indiff:
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Sorry to hear :(.

Ive meet another girl a week ago, which honestly i think is better then my current gf. 1 year younger however. She likes to alot. Very nice, very polite, Very pretty. However.. Ill be 16 in June and she'll be 15 in September is that ok? Shes been only talking about cuddling right now :p.
 
TheKitten
Sorry to hear :(.

Ive meet another girl a week ago, which honestly i think is better then my current gf. 1 year younger however. She likes to alot. Very nice, very polite, Very pretty. However.. Ill be 16 in June and she'll be 15 in September is that ok? Shes been only talking about cuddling right now :p.
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Na no need to be sorry! It is what it is at end of the day..

I don't really see a problem with that. Hate you guys that can just seem to get women at click of a finger:lol:
 
Rutter200_VR46
Na no need to be sorry! It is what it is at end of the day..

I don't really see a problem with that. Hate you guys that can just seem to get women at click of a finger:lol:
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Most guys expect that. Find a women click of there finger but that doesn't work that way.And guts are so harsh to women to.. :(
 
TheKitten
Sorry to hear :(.

Ive meet another girl a week ago, which honestly i think is better then my current gf. 1 year younger however. She likes to alot. Very nice, very polite, Very pretty. However.. Ill be 16 in June and she'll be 15 in September is that ok? Shes been only talking about cuddling right now :p.
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My GF was 2 years younger than I.


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Ex gf...I keep calling her my GF...wtf
 
Rutter200_VR46
I don't really see a problem with that. Hate you guys that can just seem to get women at click of a finger:lol:
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I relate to that... Awful! I've been without any type of relationship for two and half years! So yeah, pretty frustating.

I'm a bit too awkward for this kind of stuff. One of the only girls I talk to is a friend and no more than that and we haven't friendzoned one another.

Slash, calm down you no better than me, but I don't call her GF.

I'm a boy scout and I attended a Jamboree in the summer of 2011 (world camp of scouts) and somehow, with basicly every single country in the world to choose (Sweden, Norway, Ireland!) from I ended up falling for this girl of my group of my region. The thing went nicely between both for two weeks (the camp was two weeks that happened in the final week), but I don't know how we lost contact with each other and we haven't talked to each other ever since. My tempation is big, her temptation of talking to me is big (I know this because I have insiders) but neither of us has the guts to do it.

But the worst of all is when I remember the camp, I remember her involuntary, whatever I do my mind goes to her anyway... It's so bad. And I wasn't able to find someone (a girl) to help me, but, meh, I think I can't find someone.

BTW finding a GF is one of my New Year's resolution. So I hope it helps a bit! :p
 
AlvaroF
Precisely! I find it rather annoying.
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I typed a similar post a few months ago about girls who seem to just like guys who are arseholes, then they complain that all men are the same. Just makes me so angry that stupid women keep falling for 🤬, and then generalise men as a whole as being the same.

It just gets on my tits.:irked:
 
A good friend of mine told me that they (the girls) fall for the arseholes because they feel confident and they "care" about them and then everything is a lie and girls complain and then we suffer.
 
Ryanswannell
I typed a similar post a few months ago about girls who seem to just like guys who are arseholes, then they complain that all men are the same. Just makes me so angry that stupid women keep falling for 🤬, and then generalise men as a whole as being the same.

It just gets on my tits.:irked:
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Wait whaaaa? :lol:
 
In my opinion girls that complain about there being no nice guys about then blatantly ignoring the nicer guys for utter prats weren't worth going for in the first place.
 
Rutter200_VR46
You hear girls asking were all the genuine, nice men are... It's like.. I'm right here!:lol:
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I'll just mirror a few posts from back then.


phillkillv2
I was just about to say everything that he just posted. Girls like nice guys but they still want someone exciting in their lives so why not have both? I'm a smart-ass to most people and girls when I first meet them (I tread carefully when talking to girls not because I like to be an asshole :O) but I loosen up. Show them that you can be different and have a tougher side because I'm sure as hell I'd be tired of a monotonous woman.

Also, the girl I'm talking about called me an asshole a while back.
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I take a different approach. I'm very much an arsehole to all my friend but in a humorous way, teamed with that I normally act really annoyed and miserable for comedy affect and it works. If I approve of them enough I'll happily be... happy, with them. :')
 
MoLiEG
Finally, it happened. Today I had no choice but to talk to the girl that cancelled one date and didn't show up to the other one 2 weeks ago.

Cold, she didn't not even look into my eyes...

Exactly what I was expecting :lol:

Lol, Girls are so annoying! :D
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Weird, my gf does that... :sick: (not looking into my eyes)

On another note, I'm still going to see my "femme fatale" this saturday... things are cool at the moment :)👍 I'm already getting my fangs ready for THE DAY...

Never been more determined... NEVER... :cool:
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Good luck! Where are you going? :dopey:
 
Rutter200_VR46
You hear girls asking were all the genuine, nice men are... It's like.. I'm right here!:lol:
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And I'm here, too :lol:

Cano
Going stright for the hardcore stuff. Ternurita my rear :scared:
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She asked for it :lol: She complains about soooo many things about me that aren't truth. A few of her complains are legit, but when you look for the root cause, it's her fault. 👎 I'll be more aggresive than ever in my approach this time, I'll show her... and I'll prove her wrong :cool:

TheKitten
@MoLiEG She lied to me about stuff that never happened. Like saying her birth dad abused her and raped her. Which I believed, until I talked to her birth dad on FB and I learned the truth. She also tell stories to impress me. Which obviously didn't work because I knew they weren't true. When I asked her, she said she wasn't lieing. She admits last night she couldn't stop lieing because she thought I'll be mad at her. And then she goes on to my friends that I beat her up which I threw a snowball on accident. And tells them I only play video games. Which was in karate class which ended me get punished by a higher ranking belt for apparently beating her up when a snow ball went a tad harder then I thought and I even said sorry to her and she said she was fine.

Ugh... Feel heartbroken..

She texted me like a million times last night that she's sorry etc etc. And I'm the only thing that makes her happy..
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Ugh. Some lies are acceptable, IMO. But when those lies lead to situations like that, then it's not acceptable...

Yauma9
Weird, my gf does that... :sick: (not looking into my eyes)

Good luck! Where are you going? :dopey:
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No idea :lol: Let's see what happens... ;) Dinner, movies, a museum, a long walk, shops, wherever out feet take us...
 
phillkillv2
That's a hell of a-lot to take in Kitten, glad you found someone new.
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I need to end this current relationship and i dont want to end it hard on her. Because i know her life will be different. I drained to much of my energy on this girl. I need to start fresh someone who i can trust more, and i can love more and know she will be able to get somewhere in life.

:cheers:
 
TheKitten
I really like this new girl im talking to like alot :3. Were so similar. I think i found someone that is like perfect for me :D.

Kitten happy :D.
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Way to go!!! :cheers: Hope you can start something great with this new girl.

TheKitten
I need to end this current relationship and i dont want to end it hard on her. Because i know her life will be different. I drained to much of my energy on this girl. I need to start fresh someone who i can trust more, and i can love more and know she will be able to get somewhere in life.

:cheers:
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And I hope she can get a new start soon... 👍
 
Started going out with this girl named Jean on 10-30-13. After 2 months, we just broke up tonight. Doesn't bother me, though. She never really showed love during the relationship. I knew that it wouldn't last very long.
 
TheKitten
I need to end this current relationship and i dont want to end it hard on her. Because i know her life will be different. I drained to much of my energy on this girl. I need to start fresh someone who i can trust more, and i can love more and know she will be able to get somewhere in life.

:cheers:
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Building a relationship on lies doesn't help either side at all. I agree it's time for a switch especially if you've already found someone else that you have a connection with. I think it's best for both parties and great decision :cheers:
 
cnd01
Building a relationship on lies doesn't help either side at all. I agree it's time for a switch especially if you've already found someone else that you have a connection with. I think it's best for both parties and great decision :cheers:
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Now i just need to relax at my vacation in Florida for 2weeks then get to business :P.
 

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