The General Relationship Thread

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Still Single, Still kinda don't care
Still wish I could get a cheerleader
 
I met a girl and my friend introduced that girl to me and I was shocked because she looks ridiculously beautiful; white, a nice voice and also friendly. When we talked then this song came with the lyrics saying(translate if you want)"Na'sa iyo lahat, minamahal kita". Then I said to her, I gotta go. So that's where I felt friendzoned.

So after that, I saw her in school(she also studies in my school) and when she saw me, she said "Hello." And that's where I felt friendzoned once again.

When I decided to ask her if I have a chance, she said" Wala eh, meron na ko." In a sad voice.

Her boyfriend is a not nearly handsome but handsome. Also he's not in the top ten department but good in basketball.

I cant believe girls choose the handsomes not the geniuses but for me im quite handsome w/ a bit of pimples also im a top ten material but not yet mentioned.
Also I play basketball but only for shooting 3s.

Too bad. She was beautiful until I was shocked that I used to be her classmate since nursery and the difference is:
3rd year and Grade 8

So I guess I was her classmate after all.
 
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Might be getting lucky with the one I was supposed to meet up before things fell apart, get to meet her after work tomorrow morning, hoping things go well enough...

Well, That failed...
Third Fail, Should just give up on her.
 
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update:
I found her Instagram account and we've been chatting for a couple minutes now. I'm so proud of myself :D
 
Hahaha! It wasn't really relationship based.

Just my frustration towards making new gf's later in the year because my friend (who now transferred) told them I didn't like them. I met 10 new cute gf's. I wish I could've met them sooner!

I was sitting with them during lunch, when one of them brought this up.

"I wish I could've met you sooner :( "

I said, "Me too :) "

Then another girl said, "Your friend ____ said you didn't like me, so I stayed away from you..."

Then another girl, "Me too!"

"Me too!" "Me three!"

My reaction: -_-

I laughed it off... and now I'm PISSED! (not drunk, for you Aussies :p)

/half-assed rant
 
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Hahaha! It wasn't really relationship based.

Just my frustration towards making new gf's later in the year because my friend (who now transferred) told them I didn't like them. I met 10 new cute gf's. I wish I could've met them sooner!

I was sitting with them during lunch, when one of them brought this up.

"I wish I could've met you sooner :( "

I said, "Me too :) "

Then another girl said, "Your friend ____ said you didn't like me, so I stayed away from you..."

Then another girl, "Me too!"

"Me too!" "Me three!"

My reaction: -_-

I laughed it off... and now I'm PISSED! (not drunk, for you Aussies :p)

/half-assed rant
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Been there before. I hate when people say that and you've never even spoken to the person that's being told such information.
 
Team THRT Drift
Hahaha! It wasn't really relationship based.

Just my frustration towards making new gf's later in the year because my friend (who now transferred) told them I didn't like them. I met 10 new cute gf's. I wish I could've met them sooner!

I was sitting with them during lunch, when one of them brought this up.

"I wish I could've met you sooner :( "

I said, "Me too :) "

Then another girl said, "Your friend ____ said you didn't like me, so I stayed away from you..."

Then another girl, "Me too!"

"Me too!" "Me three!"

My reaction: -_-

I laughed it off... and now I'm PISSED! (not drunk, for you Aussies :p)

/half-assed rant
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I guess you have the right to be pissed but if you think about the positive, you made new friends :D
 
As for relationships, I'm going through a rough time... this girl that I thought was absolutely perfect in every way, she was even better than my dream girl, she dumped me the day before our anniversary... then two days later we got back together and I thought that was the end of it.... 3 days before our next anniversary... she Dumped me again... this was over two weeks ago.. And I'm still a wreck... she was my motivation... the only thing in life that made me happy... she was my everything... And since then I can't even take a 🤬 Without thinking about her... I dont know what to do... someone help please...
 
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A few months ago I was devastated by the end to a relationship. Truthfully I'm very glad it ended, but at the time I went through some crazy rebounds, like falling for my friend, and my now friend. Those were short lived, as all rebounds, so I started enjoying the bachelor life. This was also short lived as I have now fallen for another girl.

She's a percussionist in the band, glasses, curly hair, very nerdy and very cute. Above all though she's really nice. I've had a small crush on her for a few months, it has just now started developing. Today (Well yesterday...) I talked to her for the first time. Had she not approached me first I'd probably still be waiting to talk to her! :lol:

So our band has this thing called UIL where we compete and get scores. If you fail classes you are banned from UIL, therefore sitting out and playing on your phone instead of your instrument. Since she's a percussionist she has to set up the tympanies. She asked me and the other guy to help her, but me not knowing anything about anything grabbed them the wrong way. Now, in our band, when you mishandle something people go total senile and try to kill you. However she was just like "No-no-no-no not like that" which surprised me.

So after feeling like an idiot, I played with airfoil designs on my spiral. (It's the only thing that helps take my mind off stuff) When band was over she came to me, knowing how much trouble I had with doing things correctly, and said "Want to try moving the big one?" Now all the pressure was on me, but I accepted the challenge. She walked me through the steps, lift on the edge of the tuner, rotate it around, and push it against the wall. After which she asked me jokingly, "Was it heavy?" to which I said "Yeah cause I'm weak" which was met by a laugh and a "That's alright."

Hopefully I see her Monday and get an opportunity to officially introduce myself. I'm good friends with two of hers that would be happy to wingman me if I asked. Hopefully it leads to more than friends, but friends would definitely be a great start!

I also figured out why people decide to sing when they have the top down and everyone can hear them. It's just cause they're insanely happy.
 
ProjectWHaT
Update! I helped her with some math homework during a study. :O
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I apologize for this most sincerely, this is just too good an occassion not to use this :lol:

Seiously though, good for you. Gotta get all the extra points you can possibly get, huh? :D
 
Madertus
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I apologize for this most sincerely, this is just too good an occassion not to use this :lol:

Seiously though, good for you. Gotta get all the extra points you can possibly get, huh? :D
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:lol: I was going to use that meme but I'm on my iPod Touch an images are hard to copy n paste
 
Johnny1996
I'm so shy its like I'm a dog that's had a life full of beating and abuse. I'm glad your not in my shoes, @ProjectWHaT. But good for you. :)
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You should of seen me one or two years ago. I couldn't talk to any one other than the few friends I had. I was always alone and barely talked to anyone.

You know how your English teacher would ask you to write a 5 paragraph essay on how a character evolves throughout a book? Well that's basically what happened to me (I think, this is a weird metaphor...). At first, I was shy and quiet, now I've evolved like a cheesy character in a cliche book. :lol:
 
Glad I found this. I realize this is very long but I'd really appreciate someone reading it.

I'm currently in my first relationship. It's been nearly 8 months (the 21st of this month will be 8 months). The first 6-7 months were great. But the past 1-2 have been roigh for me.

It all started in February, when there was a band trip to Disney World. I stupidly decided I didn't want to go. I regret it so much. They left the day after my girlfriend's birthday, and so they were gone on valentine's day. This really made me sad, especially considering what happened.

While they were on the bus, I found out that my girlfriend was sitting next to another guy. Now, I would have trusted her if it was any other guy, but this particular one, well I knew he was a scumbag. So I texted her and told her how uncomfortable I was with it. She told me I had nothing to worry about (lies). So I texted the guy, who I was somewhat friends with. I told him that he better not try anything out of respect for me and my girlfriend. I said she meant so much to me and I would be crushed if they did anything. He said there was absolutely no way that he would do anything (lies).

About a month passes, and my grilfriend and I are talking about how another kid on the trip got caught kissing a girl who was not his girlfriend on the bus. I said, "wow if that happened to me, I would be so angry". And she immediately replied with, "why? Everyone makes mistakes and deserves to be forgiven". She said it rather frantically, so that made me think something happened. I almost asked her right then and there but I was so shocked that I didn't even know whay to think or say. I was going to asl her after school but I didn't get the chance.

I really wanted to ask her in person. But later that night it was killing me. So I texted her and explained the situation. She said nothing happened. But I wasn't convinced. The next night, we were talking on the phone. I told her that I had to ask one more time. There was silence. My heart began to pound. "No... No... You didn't? No! Please tell me you didn't. Just tell me what happened." And she said,"You'll be mad."
"I already am just tell me!"
Then she told me that they kissed a couple times. I was devastated. I realize that in the grand scheme of things, a kiss is not all that much, but it's still something and she lied to me about it.

Unfortunately, I think I reacted in the wrong way. I stayed on the call to tell her how angry I was. What I shiuld have done is said a few words and then hung up and not talked to her for a few days. Because I don't think she understood (and still doesn't) how much that hurt me.

So we had a talk about it in person. She said she felt really bad, that she still really cares a lot about me, and that she wished she coupd take it back because she never meant to hurt me. The talk satisfied me for the time being. But it didn't last.

I told her I needed to talk about it agaon because I didn't understand why she would do it (she said it was because she missed me, I don't think that's a legit reason to cheat). But when I asked when we were going to talk she just said that there's nothing else to say. Well, I still needed to say things, but she didn't. So we never had this talk. And it's killing me. I got ovwr it for about 3 weeks but now I'm angry again.

So I need advice. Clearly it's too late to bring this back up, but how can I get over this without talking about it with her? I still rewlly like her and I don't want it to end. And can I ask one of her friends if she said anything about? Or is that off limits or also too late?

Thanks.
 
I'm assuming you're still with her. Asking one of her friends is off limits, because they will just relay the whole conversation to her. Furthermore asking one of her friends will put your relationship on even shakier grounds than it is because it shows that you need to check up on her via one of her friends which in turn says, "I don't trust you enough."

I know this is killing you inside but other than the two questions at the end, that's all I can answer. I would suggest making a friend who can keep an eye out for her; a wingman. I did this for my friend. The exact same situation. The scumbag started to make a move on my friend's gf by putting his arm around her. Luckily he was next to the aisle, so I just yanked him out of the seat and sat next to her for the rest of the ride.

I really hope this helped in one way or another. I will say one thing though, and don't hate me for saying it but, you made a great error when you texted the scumbag. When he saw your text that said it would tear you apart if he went for her, he had a reason to. There are tonnes of asshats like him.

A good way to get over your anger is to go to the gym, mate. Don't bring this up again, and don't vent to any of her friends. I always go to the gym, get it out of my system and continue my day.

I'm pretty sure someone will have better advice than this, but I do hope this helps you out, one way or another,

Sal.
 
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I'm assuming you're still with her. Asking one of her friends is off limits, because they will just relay the whole conversation to her. Furthermore asking one of her friends will put your relationship on even shakier grounds than it is because it shows that you need to check up on her via one of her friends which in turn says, "I don't trust you enough."

I know this is killing you inside but other than the two questions at the end, that's all I can answer. I would suggest making a friend who can keep an eye out for her; a wingman. I did this for my friend. The exact same situation. The scumbag started to make a move on my friend's gf by putting his arm around her. Luckily he was next to the aisle, so I just yanked him out of the seat and sat next to her for the rest of the ride.

I really hope this helped in one way or another. I will say one thing though, and don't hate me for saying it but, you made a great error when you texted the scumbag. When he saw your text that said it would tear you apart if he went for her, he had a reason to. There are tonnes of asshats like him.

A good way to get over your anger is to go to the gym, mate. Don't bring this up again, and don't vent to any of her friends. I always go to the gym, get it out of my system and continue my day.

I'm pretty sure someone will have better advice than this, but I do hope this helps you out, one way or another,

Sal.
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Thanks. I guess that was a mistake but he was also my friend. Not a great friend but we were friends so I just didn't expect that you know? But I appreciate the advice.

And also, it is possible that it genuinely was a mistake and that she really does regret it? Is there any possible justification for doing it?

I guess if she stayed with me after she found out then she regretted it right?
 
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ProjectWHaT
:lol: I was going to use that meme but I'm on my iPod Touch an images are hard to copy n paste
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There's no need, WHaTman:

Click on "Upload a File"; click on "Choose File"; and, finally, click on the 2nd option.

Regards from iPhone!

And break a leg! :D:tup:
 
BubbleBelly542
Thanks. I guess that was a mistake but he was also my friend. Not a great friend but we were friends so I just didn't expect that you know? But I appreciate the advice.

And also, it is possible that it genuinely was a mistake and that she really does regret it? Is there any possible justification for doing it?

I guess if she stayed with me after she found out then she regretted it right?
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I don't know mate. Personally I don't see a justification for this. Does she regret it? If she saw/understood how much she hurt you, then most definitely.
 
Hey guys!

Well, there's a girl in my class. Over the years we became quite good friends, and I have crush on her, it developed a few months ago. She's über (or uber, used über cuz I'm from Germany) beautiful, super nice, cute, symphatic (if I spelled it right). She's got blonde hair, not super skinny, not fat. She's funny, has a good sense of humor. She's the perfect girl in my opinion, kinda my dream girl. Some of my friends say that she is a b*tch, but I never let her down. We met a few times too, first time we met we learned for a class test. Second time we went downtown, had some ice cream and so on. Was a really nice day with her. :) Then we met again and went shopping (we bought sth for the class trip we made a few days later), and tomorrow we meet again. We're going downtown again, buy some clothes for her (it's her birthday soon), have some ice cream and maybe go to her or to me. I can't wait until tomorrow! :) Also, we chat a lot together via Whatsapp. She said that she's fat in school once, I told her she isn't fat. Later on Whatsapp, I wrote this:

"In our German lesson you said that you are fat, right? Again: You are NOT fat :D (I just can't understand why girls with a perfect figure like you say this)"

She: "But I think so :( I hat my figure :("

Me: "Don't start like that! :D Seriously, you have an awesome figure :D You're not super skinny, you're not fat. You're in the golden middle of that, and this is good he way it is ;)"


And in school, we always help each other. We sit next to each other in Math lessons, German lessons. When she doesn't understand sth, I explain it to her. When she hasn't done her homework, I let her copy mine. :)

But, there's a problem: She's got a boyfriend. He's 17. But at least we have a good friendship together :D

Btw: when we chatted together a few weeks ago, she said that I'm the real deal. Kinda felt a bit proud of myself because I made her laugh so good :)
 
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So a week later and much different attitude. She still doesn't know my name because I don't have the confidence to actually walk up and talk to her. I know her friends, and once I get talking I'm fairly enjoyable. The only problem is to get talking. I just have no confidence, and sense she probably doesn't know my name I can't really say hi without me thinking it'll be awkward. I know that if I don't get over this then I'll be hard-pressed to get another girlfriend, especially her.
 

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