the girl i love...

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are you done yet(omnis and road_dog)??? are you people done bitching about this, because if anything i find more amusment just reading what you guys have to complain about.

yeah, i cant help that i realy like only one girl in the whole school, and because the rest are not the type of girls i like....
 
Chill out 32' Lover, (Then again, I should tell myself that... :lol:) They are just having some little wise-cracks... Trust me you should get used to that when in forums... I am starting to get used to it.

EDIT: I think the thread title is fine, Max Powers, changing the name wouldn't do much difference IMO. We all have different opinions though. :guilty:
 
I seriously doubt that you love her though, as the title of your thread suggests. It's hard to love somebody if they don't love you back.

Maybe you should change this thread title to "The girl who I am obsessed with"
 
TuneRVisioN
Chill out 32' Lover, (Then again, I should tell myself that... :lol:) They are just having some little wise-cracks... Trust me you should get used to that when in forums... I am starting to get used to it.
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My last one was no wise-crack. We are not bitching and complaining, we're trying to give you advice. If you can't appreciate that, then good luck chasing your irrational obsession for the rest of your life.
 
nah..im jus laughing at what they think....its ok im cool with everyones opinion, but i just have my mind set on her, and i dont see why people dont see that. they have there own right to tell what they think.
 
32' Lover
nah..im jus laughing at what they think....its ok im cool with everyones opinion, but i just have my mind set on her, and i dont see why people dont see that. they have there own right to tell what they think.
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No, I think it's obvious that your mind is set on her. :boggled:
 
I didn't mean wise cracks, but you get the picture, I couldn't come up with the right word there... :dunce:

The internet world is full of different opinions, and we can't just say they are B with itching on the right side of it. We can strongly disagree with them, but no reason to go from :D to :mad: from one opinion you disagree with. Just giving you some pointers with opinions... They are just voicing thier thoughts...

EDIT: Never mind, I just seen the last few posts. :dunce:
 
Max Powers
I seriously doubt that you love her though, as the title of your thread suggests. It's hard to love somebody if they don't love you back.

Maybe you should change this thread title to "The girl who I am obsessed with"
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..ok, sure, what ever you wanna think...and how would you know if i did or not, you really dont know me, love doesnt always have to work that way...
 
32' Lover
..ok, sure, what ever you wanna think...and how would you know if i did or not, you really dont know me, love doesnt always have to work that way...
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So you just brush off things that don't agree with you? If his opinion is invalid, what makes everyone else's valid? They don't know you either.
 
because i know how i feel about and no one else does except for the people that have been/are in situations like this. but only they know how i feel...and i didnt say that i agree with everything that everyone else says, but i do stongly disagree with his statement. Im not obsessed with her....
 
32' Lover
because i know how i feel about and no one else does except for the people that have been/are in situations like this. but only they know how i feel...and i didnt say that i agree with everything that everyone else says, but i do stongly disagree with his statement. Im not obsessed with her....
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I bet it happened to almost every teenage boy that went through puberty.


Oh yeah, this thread reminded me of this or actually I found it after I searched for similar threads.
https://www.gtplanet.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24051
 
It also reminds me of the many threads DRIFT4EVA made on the same exact topic.

Hint: Threads of this nature usually don't work out too well here.
 
ROAD_DOGG33J
TuneRVisioN
He obviously dooesn't want any other girl. He wants HER. I can understand how he feels about her, since that is basically how I feel about 90% of girls my age.
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Too bad she's TAKEN.

32' Lover
why would you give up on something that you really want, no body would get anywhere in this world if they gave up...
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Because you are in high school and it sounds like your whole life depends on the girl breaking up with her boyfriend.
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Max Powers
I seriously doubt that you love her though, as the title of your thread suggests. It's hard to love somebody if they don't love you back.

Maybe you should change this thread title to "The girl who I am obsessed with"
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ROAD_DOGG33J
I bet it happened to almost every teenage boy that went through puberty.


Oh yeah, this thread reminded me of this or actually I found it after I searched for similar threads.
https://www.gtplanet.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24051
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Max Powers
It also reminds me of the many threads DRIFT4EVA made on the same exact topic.

Hint: Threads of this nature usually don't work out too well here.
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Quoteds for truths.


I'm sure that it really feels like you love this girl - I don't doubt for one second that you know her so completely enough that you love her and that what you're feeling isn't just some purely physical attraction that every person on the planet has gone through when growing up.


But to everyone else who is an adult - who has been there and seen that and isn't a teenager - that's exactly what it looks like.
 
Yeh fair enough I get it,'There are more fish in the sea' doesn't work for you because you like her and her only. This does not alter the fact that she is with someone else unfortunately, now you can go away and make presents for her birthday months and months in advance, If she is still going to be with her boyfriend where is that going to get you.

Simple truth is why don't you try waiting, is that not the obvious solution, if she breaks up, then take it from there, I have been in the situation before and I just let it play out.

There is nothing wrong with asking for advice, but don't you think you should wait for an appropriate time e.g. when she is single. If you make plans now something will change, out of your control.
 
Or you can just be friends? That's what I did with said girl I posted in the first page. Then you'll find someone better later on in life, more then likely.
 
32' Lover
yep, your exactly right, i dont want any other girl, and im not the type of person just to give up, especially on her.and why would you give up on something that you really want, no body would get anywhere in this world if they gave up...

but yeah, nothing too fancy, being there for her is always a good thing...:cool:👍
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There is nothing wrong with not giving up on something you really want in life but this girl isn't something, she is someone, a person with her own feelings and thoughts and there is nothing in the world you can do to make her want you no matter how much you want her.

32' Lover
are you done yet(omnis and road_dog)??? are you people done bitching about this, because if anything i find more amusment just reading what you guys have to complain about.

yeah, i cant help that i realy like only one girl in the whole school, and because the rest are not the type of girls i like....
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I hate to say this but if this girl doesn't fall madly in love with you then you will probably end up living a very lonely life and if she isn't attracted to you already then chances are she won't change her mind in a hurry.
Be her friend and you may be lucky to have her as a friend for life. Want more than she is prepared to give and you risk losing a really good friend.

Famine
I'm sure that it really feels like you love this girl - I don't doubt for one second that you know her so completely enough that you love her and that what you're feeling isn't just some purely physical attraction that every person on the planet has gone through when growing up.


But to everyone else who is an adult - who has been there and seen that and isn't a teenager - that's exactly what it looks like.
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What he said.

We've all been there done that and I hate to say this but at 44 it still happens but what I have learnt through my life experience is you can't make someone want to be with you let alone make them love you. You need attraction on both sides to make a relationship. You can put your feelings out there but you can't make the other person have feelings.
 
I used to be really into a girl who was with another guy, and I thought the same thing about her being the only girl I liked. After a while of this, I met another girl who I was even more into and just completely forgot about it. Almost two years later, I'm still with her.

Seriously, just wait and you'll find somebody, I don't understand what the hurry is honestly. Unless you're a completely repulsive person, you are going to find a girl eventually.
 
Well I know how he feels with the whole this is the only girl that I want ever. I've been there, felt that. But now i'm over it.
 
Showing her this thread could go one of two ways...

1. She thinks it's really sweet that you asked for help and suggestions etc.

2. She'll think your a creep and never talk to you again.
 
I believe 1. that Loon has posted would likely happen, since he is trying to find the right way to talk to her, and not mess up his chances.
 
If she thinks that asking a forum full of complete strangers is cool, yeah maybe.
 
RO_JA
If she thinks that asking a forum full of complete strangers is cool, yeah maybe.
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Or not, from past experiences you dont want to confess your love to a woman when they barely know you, they get really really scared. :ouch:

You sound like your pretty tight with this girl, but I'd give the whole personal gift thing a miss, there is no better way onto a guys "To kill list" then that. Just buy her something less personal, maybe her favourite bands new album, a Johnny Depp movie, etc. She wont be single for a while so dont try to stir up to much nonsense or ruin her relationship with her boyfriend, just be her friend for now and then maybe it'll fall into place.
 
I found a perfect gift for you to use:



Calvin Klein ftw. :lol:

Just kidding. Seriously, though, dude, don't wait on this chick.
 
Just start to hang out with her, become her friend and then ask her if she'd like to visit your place or something like that. But don't be friends too long before deploying stage 2, or else you can kiss the relationship guh-bai.


Edit: Aaahh, she's got a boooyfriend now. Go for a new one then.
 
zoxxy
Just start to hang out with her, become her friend and then ask her if she'd like to visit your place or something like that. But don't be friends too long before deploying stage 2, or else you can kiss the relationship guh-bai.


Edit: Aaahh, she's got a boooyfriend now. Go for a new one then.
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yeah, but if your talking about her having come over to my house then you'd be way to late, shes been inside of my house like five times or so..and she pretty much knows her way around..
 
Well kid, looks like you have plenty of advice to sift through.

Take what makes sense to you, but for god's sake, do SOMETHING.

Oh, and let us know how you go...
 

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