If you're both willing to be exclusive, the suggestion should never have been made.
Just because we're willing to be exclusive, as we have been for the past year or so, doesn't mean we're not also open to inviting someone else to the party for a little fun. We've been exclusive for something like 99% the time we've been together. I'm willing to eat ice cream plain in a bowl. It's fantastic! I'm also willing to eat it with some chocolate syrup on top.
Famine
Then that rather implies it is all about the sex, and she'd rather cheat with a woman and a plastic willy because she knows you'll be all bloke about it and "Huh huh huh lezzers" overrides "Hang on a minute... you're boinking someone else now?".
Did some thinking, and I've decided to concede this point. In the end, it is all about the sex. There are certainly other factors involved, but you're right.
Famine
Your significant other wants to make the beast with two backs with someone else. Don't get caught up in their gender - she wants to hump someone else because you've committed the heinous crime of not being there as often as she'd like. That should have you re-examining your relationship - to say nothing of the fact that you want to bone another girl too. If you want to remain with her (if she's so open to a boning from someone else, I can't imagine why you'd want to), solve the problem of your relationship by being there more often - move house, move jobs or get her to do the same. Relationships are about compromise, not about "Oh, he/she isn't around very often, so I'll get jiggy with someone else until they come back".
She wants to hump someone else because she's attracted to women as well as men. Regardless of whether I'm home all the time or not, she likes to have boobs to play with and a pretty pink slit to kiss. I can't provide those myself. As it happens, I'm one of the many men on the planet who enjoys having two women at once, so in my mind, it seems a better idea to be understanding and support her bisexualism because she feels less confined, and happier in the relationship, and from time to time, I get to have an extra woman.
I know "confined" and "relationship" should be mutually exclusive, but if you were seriously attracted to both men and women, how happy could you be with just a woman? Or maybe that's too hard to imagine... I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess that you enjoy breasts as well as vagina. How happy would you be if your woman would let you play with her boobies all day long, but you never got to see or touch the vag? Eventually, feelings of resentment would arise. You'd end up going and finding a woman who would let you toy around with both, or end up cheating.
Legendary
Funny, we have gone from the thread creators problem to some loserers problems
No problems here, man.
astrosdude91
I'm looking foward to a little more if the story is real.
If it is real, sound's like she is a lesbian and wants out of the relationship.
Ok, she might let you meet the dogs, and she might show off her exotic pets. No innuendo.
And it's not that she's a lesbian, she's bisexual. I can understand how someone could be attracted to women, can't you?
Joey D
Wow, that's one of the best made up stories I've read outside /b/. Actually you should post that on /b/, they'd give you better advice or at the very least find out the truth.
If for some reason it is real, it's a really bad idea. I mean we see how awesome love triangles turn out. Honestly if you don't have time for a relationship, whih it doesn't sound like you do, it's probably best to break it off.
Hah, following relationship advice gleaned from the internet, especially /b/...
lulz
I agree, love triangles usually end poorly. My woman and I have managed to have a third partner a few times, and it's only ended poorly twice, when the chick tried to get one of us away from the other.
The fact that we've remained together just fine through it all, though, suggests that if anyone has a decent chance of pulling it off long-term, we do.
homeforsummer
Given how you're talking about it I'd be surprised if you managed to scrape just one from the barrel, let alone two.
Are you implying that women don't appreciate someone who can have a reasonable debate without getting angry, despite name calling and numerous accusations of lying?
Because I'm inclined to disagree.
**edit**
I linked my girlfriend here, and here's what she had to say:
Heather: Ok, so far:
-I proposed the 3 way relationship 'cause I love the 🤬, too
Heather: -It's not that manual transmissions are boring, they disgust me a little (kinda grosses me out that you're getting one)
Heather: It doesn't really bother me not having someone here to watch tv with me or drink beer with. I'm one of those people who's honestly happy being alone. Especially if I can google chat with you
Heather: I mean, an extra person around while watching zombie movies is nice (even if it is just in the other room), but in those situations where my imagination likes to play tricks the dogs have proven to be very comforting
Heather: ... Am not so fond of being called a whore...
Heather: Also, they seem to not realize that not everyone sees relationships as strictly one man + one woman
Heather: I'd be willing to bet that some of these people are offended by gay marriage...
Heather: Ask them if me using my toys on myself when no one's home is cheating
me: You could ask them...
Heather: Nope. I'm not getting sucked into this argument
me: lol It's more of a reasonable debate than an argument.
Heather: Well, I'll let you do my debating for me. You can just copy & paste my retorts from here
I did a bit of cleaning up and paraphrasing, but it's all there.
Pics or it didn't happen?
Email addresses and last name edited for obvious reasons.
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