This is how parenting shouldn't be done...

[smellysocks12]

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Seriously... wtf.

 

[ceiling_fan]

I heard that a few days ago. Although no parent should ever be so negative toward their child, I do think he was egging her on before he hit the record button.

 

[Jay]

She was mad!

Should be a language warning I think.

 

[Evolution.]

wtf mate?

She needs anger management.Or ridlin.Or both.

 

[Carl.]

Wow... she has serious issues.

Sad really.

First time I've ever heard a mother saying to her own children that he's a a son of a *****.

 

[Bahbo]

She needs anger management.Or ridlin.

Or shackles.

She did seem awful, but he seemed like a stubborn bratt. She probably just cracked, and him taunting her with "ask me nicely" probably isn't the best calming solution. But ofcourse when the camera is rolling you would want to get her as riled up as you could.

 

[Seanman]

Maybe she should spend the fifty dollars on anger management or parenting lessons or something. I'm amazed that the son was so calm....

 

[Solid Lifters]

It sounds like his mom and my mom should go shopping together sometime. They sound so much alike, they could become friends.

The kid probably didn't do much to piss his mom off. She was late for work, she didn't save her money and now expects to mooch off her kids. But, she treats him like crap, and still expects some help from him? Is she insane? OK, she was having a bad day, but that's no reason to treat your own son like crap. Then, insist he still helps you out? BS.

If the kid is a brat and a jerk, which she calls him, it's her own fault. He learned that behavior from her. What goes around, comes around, sweetheart. Didn't anybody ever teach you that?

The kid finally realizes he's being treated like crap, and he's no longer taking it. She then yells and screams more because that's what she's used to doing to control her kids. Now, it doesn't work any more, and man is she fustrated.

It's absolutely discusting how she treats him. He's just a kid and kids will act up every once in a while. If she can't control that, then it's all her fault and problem. She's a lousy parent and a miserable human being. Granted, the kid was really pushing her buttons, but he's just a kid. He doesn't know the correct way to act yet, so how can you blame him for acting so smug?

He was obviously pestering her, so why should we not blame him too? I bet he was a jerk, but like I said before, kids will be that way. It's the parents job to know how to handle that situation when it arrives. She, obviously can't. Her behavior, and his, is entirely her fault.

Oh, and when she said she would call his work and talk to his boss and get him fired proves what a horrible, childish and immature person she really is. There's no excuse for that. If she ever gets in trouble for being such an abusive parent, she'd propably blame it all on PMS, or something. Whatever her problems are, I think it's obvious she has a hormone inbalance, but that's still no excuse for her behavior.

 

[a6m5]

They both need some type of help, IMO. Mother sounds absolutely crazy and the son is definitely egging her on, being a big "boo-hoo" cry baby, feeling sorry for himself. Like mother, like son.

 

[Omnis]

this is a typical clash of the egos. the kid is a moron. he could've just leant the money and avoided the **** storm and be paid back later. the mom is also out of control from losing her cool and having some serious "rag-time". PMS is deadly. The mom's situation is more important than the son's though, so the son should've recognized this, even though her behavior is no excuse.

 

[Neon_SRT]

Or shackles.

Or a Muzzle.

That is one crazy mom...

 

[G.T]

Wow, that Mum is crazy, even beyond it. I've got a feeling someone annoyed her before the video though. Also, her son should have gave up after while because he was winding her up in the end I thought.

 

[Duke]

What Lifters said. Of course, we don't know what transpired before the video starts.

There's obviously a serious lifestyle imbalance going on if there is all the relatively expensive stuff visible in the room (big TV, computer modern enough to have anLCD, big leather desk chair, the vid camera itself) and a mere $50 is enough to cause such a hysterical outburst...

 

[Flame-returns]

The picture didnt look great, I would be inclined to beleive it was shot on a mobile pone or a really cheap VHSC, it is nowhere near MiniDV or Digital8 quality.

 

[Duke]

The picture didnt look great, I would be inclined to beleive it was shot on a mobile pone or a really cheap VHSC, it is nowhere near MiniDV or Digital8 quality.

I'm assuming it's compressed for hosting, since it's like 5+ minutes long. Besides, vidcam or not, that's a big new TV for somebody who's hysterical over not having 50 bucks.

 

[Omnis]

I'm assuming it's compressed for hosting, since it's like 5+ minutes long. Besides, vidcam or not, that's a big new TV for somebody who's hysterical over not having 50 bucks.

well the point isn't that she doesn't have 50 bucks. the point is her car ran out of gas and she needs the son's car to get back to work and to get gas for the car. she was running late and the son wasn't helping. the mom says the son does nothing all day so that could just be a factor as well. the parents don't get help around the house and spoil their kids.

it's kind of a mix of everybody's faults, but there is definitely some stuff going down. The only one who's really right is the father. moms have BFs sometimes. that's life.

 

[Jay]

the mom says the son does nothing all day so that could just be a factor as well.

Well he does work, but now she said he cant do that ethier.

 

[Omnis]

Well he does work, but now she said he cant do that ethier.

hahahaha. good point.

 

[Diego440]

All issues aside, I love how they throw around the term "extreme" nowadays... extreme parenting, lol.

About the real issue, yeah, I gues the mom may be a tad hysterical, but wait 'til you have kids and they make you lose your patience... It's easy to lose your patience with them. Maybe some anger management classes?

better yet, a message to parents: say no to divorce! If you love someone enough to marry them and make a kid, then don't act like an ass later on... and by the way, the son appears to be a spoiled brat as well. New TV, new cel phone, new video cam, and several other things, and still sitting on his ass all day, recording his mom having fits.

 

[EvilToast]

wow she reminds me of my mom some times, not all of the time but when she gets mad. the only difference is my mom tried to hit me a couple of months ago and she got mad cuz i blocked her wtf, mother or not we're past that stage and she needs to realize that. pretty soon i'll be on my own and shes trying to hit me, i understand parents get mad, but some times they get pissed over the stupidest bull****, even though it wasn't your fault and take it out on you, that i can't stand, also if parents expect their kids to respect them a certain degree of respect has to be given back to the child, i grew up in a hispanic family, so dicipline is high, i think i'm a good kid, i dont drink, smoke, i'm well behaved polite i try my hardest i have great grades, yet my parents sometimes make me feel like anything i do wont please them. i know how the kid feels. yes parents do have authority, but sometimes they abuse the hell out of it.

 

[EvilToast]

All issues aside, I love how they throw around the term "extreme" nowadays... extreme parenting, lol.

About the real issue, yeah, I gues the mom may be a tad hysterical, but wait 'til you have kids and they make you lose your patience... It's easy to lose your patience with them. Maybe some anger management classes?

better yet, a message to parents: say no to divorce! If you love someone enough to marry them and make a kid, then don't act like an ass later on... and by the way, the son appears to be a spoiled brat as well. New TV, new cel phone, new video cam, and several other things, and still sitting on his ass all day, recording his mom having fits.

well it looks like the kid paid for all that stuff since he has a credit card and a job.

 

[Diego440]

well it looks like the kid paid for all that stuff since he has a credit card and a job.

Yeah, but he's still living with his parents... my house, my rules... that's how it goes. Or at least when I was a kid.

 

[Jondot]

She's both mad, and stupid. For instance she says "You son of a b***h", and what does that make her? Also, "you're a total headcase", no, YOU are the headcase.

I think this guy just filmed his mum so he could show how violent she could get. All it was was "say please and i'll give you $50", and what was her reply? "You ******, **** offf you total headcase ****ing b****!! Son of a b***h, get outta my house you ****** little s*** ......" Jeeze, take a chill pill lady.

 

[Diego440]

True... seriously, if the sexes were reversed, the kid were a girl and dad the headcase, people's views would be much different.

 

[Spyder_V]

Dood, that recording is so biased it's not even funny. The kid probably hit record after getting her angry in the first place. She did say that she already asked nicely near the beginning of the video, but that's the unheard part. And then, he was passively resisting his mom and just making her angrier. The kids a d*ck and he should move out. He should be nicer to his mother, and then she probably wouldn't yell at him. But then again, for the kid to be that rebellious, the mom must've been a pretty lousy parent.

 

[inferno]

75 percent of the parents in this world shouldn't be having kids. Thats my opinion. Raising a child is something that should come later in life. Once you've had the chance to grow up yourself. I'm of the firm oppinion that in this generation, people dont even reach a state that could be construed as adulthood untill about the age of 30. And besides, you should really have yourself finantialy set before you go into something like starting another life. I had the privalege of being raised well for the first half of my life so far. I really consider myself lucky though because my mom was single and not much older tham I am now when she had me. we lived in a one room efficency on subsidy and probably welfare but it allowed her to be there like a mother needs to be there to really raise a child. it's imposible to work and raise a child, and people who say they do, the child is being negleted. Someone has to be with the baby 24/7 and it should be the mother. She waited in that hole of a dwelling untill I was mature enough and had a strong enough moral base before she went off to start to make a life for us. something were still trying to do. and belive me the dooty hit the fan when that happened, (being tossed around from grandma to father to other grandma, different sets of rules, no day to day structure. that stuff is detrimental to a developing person) but i was grown up enough to handle it. Even we did it wrong but things worked out ok for me, but this mother and this child are just another clasic example of what could have been my life. my mother owes me 3000 dolars i gave her about five years ago to pay up the house, and right now i do most of the foot work (for no money) in the daycare we are running while she drives for the school. I still belive that when we make it, I will be rewarded for that money and time that I've invested in her. Now that my brother and sister have been thrown into the mix I have witnessed first hand what it's like trying to raise a child and work. they dont have what I had and they will have to learn things later in life that I learned very young. Like I said I got lucky. About the two loosers in that video The mother, im my opinion, is simply wrong for having a child, and that prick of a kid is what she now has to deal with. "when I get home from work at 11" ther's your problem right there. and she probably works two jobs too. That kid is raising himself. just another parent who shouldn't be, and just another future drain on society raised by MTV. Hey that rhymes. Sorry for the essay.

 

[Diego440]

Not to go off topic, but Inferno... that last post was your 666th post

 

[inferno]

I know and I've been dieing for a reason to post and get it off that number. So thank you. I hate that number.

 

[a6m5]

I know and I've been dieing for a reason to post and get it off that number. So thank you. I hate that number.

When I moved into my current apartment, my assigned parking pass number was "666". I ended up exchanging it, but one of the managers at the apartment, she was religious and didn't even know what 666 was.

 

[Silverzone]

I didn't make it through half of that before I shut it off. That is the worst thing I have seen/heard in forever. That mom needs to be locked up