OP updated.
I was considering not racing anymore in this series. As I've said before, I'm content being a back marker but all the other issues(disconnects, not seeing cars on track, drop outs, and unpleasant messages in my inbox) have left a bitter taste in my mouth. So last night was going to be my last try at making it work. I didn't practice, mainly because if there was any connection issues, or if i didn't see everyone on track i was just going to leave. However, deathbyrotors lag was the only issue. With only 20mins of setup, and my limited abilities, i was able to pull some low 52's during the race(without drafting). My consistency was very typical, with not a single "clean" race. Either way, i had fun for the first time this series.
So I'm going to put in a few hours of practice this weekend, and see if i can stay on the lead lap next week. It would seem that i don't have any compatibility issues with those remaining in the series, and i should be hardwired in a month.