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I'm just saying man, go for it. Find the girl with the lowest self esteem, and go for it.

All joking aside,

You're 13. You got plenty of time for kissing girls. Just take it easy, focus on your studies, and get ahead in life. SO that way, you turn 16, have a job, money, car, etc. And then you can kiss plenty of girls.
 
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Dan_
Since there are some older guys around here, I think that you might give me some advice in the weird situation I'm facing.

I have a great friend, we studied together all the way until the 8th grade, we're good friends and often meet up when he's near my town. He lives almost 250miles away from me. To clear things up, my question has nothing to do with the guy, but with his girlfriend.

I'm not exactly a preacher, I like older women, and I have to confess that I did take on some married women too. That makes me a jerk? Yeah, but this is isn't the question either.

Since he lives far away(it was february since he came around from the last time), his girlfriend is all alone, and since me and Pedro( fictional name) are friends, I'm quite friendly of his girlfriend too. ( let's call her Carla, hmm, I love Carlas...)

She is giving me all the possibilities to have sex with her, and without letting him know, she gave me all the clues and all the hints to do it. I'm in position, I'm ready, I just recovered from my last disastrous relationship and I'm eager to give her a proper 🤬 that she will never forget. C'mon, She said it to me, not with all words, but she just said it. :trouble:

Doing the thing, I'll feel like betraying my friend. However, it's just dumb of him to leave his sweetheart for months, women demands men, this is biological. So, I honestly think that another men already watered the plants while he is out...if you're getting what I'm saying in my crappy english.

So, I'm a complete s.o.b. jerk for wanting his girl ( she's a hottie, by the way)? Or he's doing it totally wrong and I should take on her without hesitating?

I never faced this situation before, a friend's girl is like a man to me.

Advice?
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I ask you this, if the boot was on the other foot, what do you think your friend would do?
 
ExigeEvan
If you kiss a girl, you will get herpes, and you will die.

Feel better now?
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You're an ass. :lol:

Friendly joking aside, well, I've lost my train of thought because of Evan over here.
 
PJ-FFL
I've never kissed a girl before. :(
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I posted this when I was 16:
Alex.
Ok so I officially left school having not been with one single girl, and it's really getting to me. :argh: I seem to attract the "hell no's" like im in their league but I honestly do not think I'm ugly Maybe I'm the only one. I only really ever went after one person and it nearly happened but over the next few months she moved onto the 7'9 Fijian rugby players who are built like **** houses, as did most of the other girls. And my college is likely to have an all boys class

I needed to say that. Thank god for this damn thread.
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Then this on Aug 13 2009, age 17

Alex.
14 months later, there is someone, and it was worth every god damn second waiting....
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That relationship ended a couple of months ago.

I'm 18, I've kissed one girl and been in one serious relationship, I am not a virgin and am reasonably confident with women in most cases.

It only takes one my friend, and confidence is key. The relationship I refer to was long distance seeing eachother around once a month and we started talking online, but it was a blast. You know you are a nice guy, and soon enough that'll be all that matters. I have a few girls after me now,thankfully local and not long distance, the way I always wanted it to be. Having self confidence is the thing that I believe plays a big part in girls being interested or not. At school I had very little belief I would make a good boyfriend / was a decent guy. Things change. You gotta believe bro.


Only_in_f1
I ask you this, if the boot was on the other foot, what do you think your friend would do?
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Good call, my friend.


Might as well add 2 confessions:

1. I think Tokyo Drift is a really cool film.
2. Lately I've wanted more than ever to approach a girl I don't know and tell her she's gorgeous.:O:sly: Not any girl in particular, but just a random girl.
 
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Alex.
Might as well add 2 confessions:

1. I think Tokyo Drift is a really cool film.
2. Lately I've wanted more than ever to approach a girl I don't know and tell her she's gorgeous.:O:sly: Not any girl in particular, but just a random girl.
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Give you some advice on the 2nd. When you approach, don't open with that. Bring up something going on around & ease into it, as long as you can tell she's not currently pre-occupied. It's easy to look dumb when you say, "You're very pretty." "Thank you". "So, uh....".

The last 2 girls I've been investing time in, I met through just some petty chat about something going on in the moment & then commenting on their eyes. It's cheesy, but it's an easy way of acting like as if you didn't notice them til' just then. A quick chat also gives you a first glimpse as to how she may act, letting you decide if you should compliment her or not.

You don't have to say her eyes or whatever, but it's what I do. Then again, it's an easy compliment for me to give because I usually always get it right back towards my own. :D
 
Terronium-12
Now why is that?
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I haven't been active in a lot of my class activities while other family members are talking bout my cousin starting college. I may have to move again within this year. I have been asked alot of times to find another job or what I want to do in life and somehow. I have been dodging those questions and keep asking myself them during the semester. I just came from a final exam that I am not to happy of...prove: cosx/1-sinx=1+sinx/cosx. I thought it was easy but it would take a hour or so to finish a hw sometimes.
 
nk4e
I haven't been active in a lot of my class activities while other family members are talking bout my cousin starting college. I may have to move again within this year. I have been asked alot of times to find another job or what I want to do in life and somehow. I have been dodging those questions and keep asking myself them during the semester. I just came from a final exam that I am not to happy of...prove: cosx/1-sinx=1+sinx/cosx. I thought it was easy but it would take a hour or so to finish a hw sometimes.
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Dude, it's after one, please don't speak math to me right now. :lol:

Seriously though, you're far too young to be feeling like a failure, I can speak from experience as we share the same age. I dropped out of high school some several years ago (mostly due to my feeling that the school wasn't really doing anything for me.), and I've just gotten my GED not too long ago. I can relate though as the thought passes through my mind every now and again, but I know what I want from my life and I'm not leaving here until it's accomplished.

I'd suggest you ask yourself what you're absolutely passionate about, and just keep that in mind (while looking forward to it) and that will keep you focused.
 
Terronium-12
Dude, it's after one, please don't speak math to me right now. :lol:

Seriously though, you're far too young to be feeling like a failure, I can speak from experience as we share the same age. I dropped out of high school some several years ago (mostly due to my feeling that the school wasn't really doing anything for me.), and I've just gotten my GED not too long ago. I can relate though as the thought passes through my mind every now and again, but I know what I want from my life and I'm not leaving here until it's accomplished.

I'd suggest you ask yourself what you're absolutely passionate about, and just keep that in mind (while looking forward to it) and that will keep you focused.
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:lol: its going to be stuck in my head till I solve it or go to sleep.
For some reason, that sometimes I haven't tried hard enough at alot of things but usually important stuff get in the way of the things I am passionate for. but hell...to make me feel better I had to watch this
 
Only_in_f1
I ask you this, if the boot was on the other foot, what do you think your friend would do?
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He would probably call me first, just like I did. But I'm not quite sure about this, I'll have to admit it.

Alex.
1. I think Tokyo Drift is a really cool film.
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Man, Tokyo Drift sucks so bad.... seriously, a Silvia powered Shelby GT350?

Alex.
2. Lately I've wanted more than ever to approach a girl I don't know and tell her she's gorgeous.:O:sly: Not any girl in particular, but just a random girl.
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Can I be frank with you? When I was 18 I've always used to do the same, and I must agree with McLaren. If you're having a conversation with a beautiful girl, never, ever focus on how gorgeous she is, until she dismiss the idea of you being another moron. Morons can only see the physical attributes of a woman, true men knows how to admire the entire pack.

What McLaren said is the most important truth in talking to unknown women:
1 - Take the focus out of her, start chatting about some random subject, of course, any random subject which is at least related to some interests she might have, you don't want to go a bar and start a conversation like: - Hi, I'm Paul, have you ever thought about climbing the Everest?
2 - Suddenly, discover how impressive she is, but the most important part is: look DIRECTLY at her eyes with confidence. Your eyes won't lie, neither have the need to find words to describe how gorgeous and fantastic she looks, they'll do it automatically. Then, she'll be more accessible. :sly:
 
Random conversation-wise, don't take her out of her bubble. Don't walk up and say something completely random, relate it to the situation. In Blockbuster and she's looking at a film you like with a look of uncertainty? Advise! Ask her what she enjoys - then help her out. Tease her too! Tell her she only wants to watch that film because of the 'hunky' old dustman.

It's pretty... crazy how many times they will invite you back to join them. I have soooo many phone numbers from doing this type of stuff - lots of great friends waiting to be met.
 
Alex.
2. Lately I've wanted more than ever to approach a girl I don't know and tell her she's gorgeous.:O:sly: Not any girl in particular, but just a random girl.
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I was thinking about doing something like this a month or two ago. I saw the sexiest redhead I have ever seen. I wanted it be just a random, positive comment. But I didn't do it, since I figured it would be mega creepy.
 
Nice advice guys, thanks.


As for Tokyo drift, fair play on the GT350, why they didn't repair the S15 is beyond me.
 
My father is sick, and he just told me 5 minutes ago. I'll try to keep the story as short as I can but what happened is that my mother and father have begun to grow apart from each other, after being together for 25 years. Me and my sister are the only one who know of the situation since my other brother and sister are far too young to understand it. My dad got a nice job offer in Belgium, so I thought. He revealed the main reason was his relationship with mom. My dad loves mom more than anything else on this planet, but it seems things have been fading out the other way round. Now he is all alone in Belgium with the family trying to recover. He has been to a doctor and he is being treated right now for what he is going through. Although we don't hear much from my mother, we both know she also has a hard time with it, but I'm just so lost in this whole situation. I am just a spectator watching my father sink deeper away, and I'm fearing he will do stupid things. We have called each other a lot lately, and our bond has never been this strong. He tends to burst out in tears at least 3 times on the phone, and I am about to burst into tears as I am writing this. I feel so powerless, there is absolutely nothing I can do. My dad has to deal with this himself, as it's something personally. Just the thought of losing my father, someone who has worked so hard for all these years to keep all of us happy and get what we desire, is killing me. I can only try and get him to come on vacation home again to relive some father-son moments he can truly hold on to when things get tough for him. I just don't know how to deal with this, I never had even a hunch this was coming, and I am blown down by all this. I just thank him for telling me now, just hours after my last exam. If he'd told me sooner, I bet 10 bucks I'd mess up my exams. But he knew of this and he kept it hidden until today.
 
^^ Ow man, that's bad. :( I'm cheering for your dad.

The only advice I can give you is to try to be strong and at his side as you've been doing until now. I'm quite sure that it's quite hard to find energy to fight such situation, but you must try to do it. For your family.

As you described, you and your dad have a strong bond, so try to be happy as much as possible, being sad will only gets thing worse in your dad's heart and then form a vicious cycle. That's why you must fight it and find forces to make life happier and therefore, easier. Keep doing good for your dad, cry with him whenever he needs, and laugh with him whenever it's possible.

Regarding your mom, keep the bond with her strong, it's possible to rebuild a family if both sides are wanting to do so. I'm sure she misses her children and husband, as much as you miss her.

I hope things get better for you and your family, reading your text made me sad, sincerely.
 
In Tokyo Drift, the Silvia had an RB26DETT out of an R34 GT-R, so the GT350 didn't have a Silvia engine, it had the RB. But it's still just as sinful what they did. Infact, there have been reports of people taking old Shelby Mustangs and dropping RB's like in that horrible movie. But actually, the stock motor in the GT350 would have been better for drifting. It's sad that they did this.
 
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In Tokyo Drift, the Silvia had an RB26DETT out of an R34 GT-R, so the GT350 didn't have a Silvia engine, it had the RB. But it's still just as sinful what they did. Infact, there have been reports of people taking old Shelby Mustangs and dropping RB's like in that horrible movie. But actually, the stock motor in the GT350 would have been better for drifting. It's sad that they did this.
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Didn't they fix the S15 at the end? Though to see a hybrid on the big screen was pretty interesting.
Bram Turismo
My father is sick, and he just told me 5 minutes ago. I'll try to keep the story as short as I can but what happened is that my mother and father have begun to grow apart from each other, after being together for 25 years. Me and my sister are the only one who know of the situation since my other brother and sister are far too young to understand it. My dad got a nice job offer in Belgium, so I thought. He revealed the main reason was his relationship with mom. My dad loves mom more than anything else on this planet, but it seems things have been fading out the other way round. Now he is all alone in Belgium with the family trying to recover. He has been to a doctor and he is being treated right now for what he is going through. Although we don't hear much from my mother, we both know she also has a hard time with it, but I'm just so lost in this whole situation. I am just a spectator watching my father sink deeper away, and I'm fearing he will do stupid things. We have called each other a lot lately, and our bond has never been this strong. He tends to burst out in tears at least 3 times on the phone, and I am about to burst into tears as I am writing this. I feel so powerless, there is absolutely nothing I can do. My dad has to deal with this himself, as it's something personally. Just the thought of losing my father, someone who has worked so hard for all these years to keep all of us happy and get what we desire, is killing me. I can only try and get him to come on vacation home again to relive some father-son moments he can truly hold on to when things get tough for him. I just don't know how to deal with this, I never had even a hunch this was coming, and I am blown down by all this. I just thank him for telling me now, just hours after my last exam. If he'd told me sooner, I bet 10 bucks I'd mess up my exams. But he knew of this and he kept it hidden until today.
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I hope that your dad gets better. I lost a aunt two weeks ago and my mom has been really hard on me about my schooling to a point that it will kill her...
 
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That last one hurts. :dopey: Just kidding.
And about your dad, I feel horrible. M ydad passed earlier this year (Feb. 13th), and it's just the worse feeling in the world. You gotta be there with support. My dad passing was blindsided as getting hit by a semi on a one-way. I didnm't see it coming one bit. Standing in the freezing cold that nite already gave me enough chill.

My confession? I faked pasing out just to get out of school 2 years ago.
But I was avenged, as I actually DID pass out in class earlier this year.
 
PJ-FFL
I've never kissed a girl before. :(
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Same here. Sucks don't it?
I aint even had a gf and I'm heading on 15! I thought chicks were sauper-easy in these days. But I am trying to get one but she thinks that I think shes annoying! When will my TROUBLES SUBSIDE!?
 

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