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Dean JI don't know how much of a confession this is, but I find myself ugly. I also find myself as odd as Doofenshmirtz (my avatar).
I guess in your opposite then :/
Dean JI don't know how much of a confession this is, but I find myself ugly. I also find myself as odd as Doofenshmirtz (my avatar).
I hooked up with one of my best friends littlesister last weekend and we have been... Doing stuff since...
I uh.. I dunno what the F! I'm doing...
Pedobear- Sorry, had to.
Yeah but the way it was worded... Sorry if I offended you in anyway tho.Ha ha ha, that's fair. Allthough she is 24 and I'm 28. So it isn't really that bad :-)
Dude, you're so young. I've got eight years on you and I thought I knew what I wanted to do, and it blew up in my face. I thought I wanted a corporate career with a corner office and all that. I had it, for a year and a half, got laid off, now I'm struggling to find jobs for half of what I used to make. I'm running out of money and options fast. I can't afford to go back to school to redo my life. My path doesn't look auspicious. I should have been more careful and thought things through. But, this decision didn't come early, I certainly didn't think I wanted a business degree at 20. So you've got plenty of time. If 30 rolls around and you still don't know, then you can worry. Right now worry about living in the moment, that's what 20 is for.
Nothing wrong with that at all, I was in exactly the same position, 20 years old and not a clue. I saw a career advisor for some help, lo and behold I should be going to uni in September to do something I'm really interested in, and something really suited to my learning styles and preferences.
Make an appointment with a career advisor if possible, or someone similar. It helped me, a lot.
Another confession from me:
Although I speak (almost) 6 languages fluently, I still feel I'm bad at each and every one of them.
And, my math skills are on the same level as a 6th grader (I would be a 10th grader, if I was in school).
I screwed up my GCSEs twice in two consecutive years. Hungover and brain-dead for every one. The highest I got was a double C in science.
I guess I have very high expectations to myself, which is also described a bit below;I speak 1.5. You speak 7.5 more than me, don't let it get you down.
I got a 4 and a 7 in my math exams last year (it's two parts here, for some reason. Our system goes -3 (F), 00 (Fx), 02 (E), 4 (D), 7 (C), 10 (B) and 12 (A). 00 (Fx) and below is failed. 4 is the "middle grade"). The highest I've ever got is A(+) in spoken English. - I still think there must have been an error, because I'm not that good - in anything. So what I'm confessing is, I don't believe in my abilities.I can't maths either.![]()
I'm 20 years old and I still don't know what I want to do with my life. Neither do I know what I'm doing right now.
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Still, I'm sure you're way better than me, Shem 👍.
Dean JI guess I have very high expectations to myself, which is also described a bit below;
I don't think so, to be honest. - I don't know for sure - but I know I feel dumb.Don't put yourself down, dude. I've got 10 years on you and your basic skills are probably still above mine.
Well, it's not that I focus on my grades, but they'll still follow me until - well, if - I get a job. I don't find it special, and since three of those are almost the same, I'm not even sure if they'll "count". Let me list 'em up:Instead of focusing on a useless grade on a silly piece of paper, focus on the fact you speak 6 languages. I've been studying French for 9 years and I'm only just starting to figure it out. Grades don't matter in the grand scheme of things, do your best but don't stress over a test. You speak 6 languages and that's something to be proud of.
Thanks, I wish you well with your new career choice.I am 19 and last year I completely changed my career expectations.
Before last year I always thought I would be doing something science related but then I started my A levels and 1. I could not do maths at that level and 2. I decided I didn't really enjoy it. So now I am going to do politics at university in september.
How many years then would you consider just right? And were you thinking of switching profession every couple of years? Maybe in fears of the job getting too dull and boring? I'm curious you see.I think, I've considered all jobs available on Earth. Also those above. Some years ago (2, I think) I wanted to become an interpreter in the European Council, in Brussels.
Anyway, either, they're above my qualification-level or they take too many years I don't want to put into any "job".
Well, honestly, zeroHow many years then would you consider just right? And were you thinking of switching profession every couple of years? Maybe in fears of the job getting too dull and boring? I'm curious you see.![]()
Well, honestly, zero. Sadly, there isn't any job that need less than two years of training. And, I have a hard time committing to - well - anything, so I probably would like to change very often. And, I find jobs boring after max a week. I'm abnormal on that - and many other - points.