There are a lot of opportunities for misunderstandings in a race. After a race at Willow, yesterday, a guy who ran into the back of me entering turn 2, then went off the track called me out in the post-race for not knowing how to drive. He said it was the second time I ran him off the track. I don't remember seeing him before that race. I saved the replay, and watched it back.
What I saw was myself doing some off-roading coming out of turn 1, then coming back onto the track just prior to the beginning of turn 2. I was too close to the inside, and swung a little bit wider to get a better angle for the turn. I didn't realize it, at the time, but he was right there when I moved to the outside. My left rear hit his right front. Watching it from his car's perspective, it looks like I was just ramming him off the track. It didn't look good.
I sent him a PSN message, letting him know that I watched the replay, and that he was right. I explained what I was doing when the contact occurred, and apologized. He said it meant a lot that I took the time to do so, and apologized to me for his post-race comments. He said he hopes that we can race together, again. Next time I see him, I'll be trying to stay at least 500 feet away, at all times.
Ultimately, something that happens in an instant may leave two parties with completely opposite opinions about the incident. That replay looked totally different from the two perspectives. I've cleared up a lot of misconstrued racing mishaps this way. A few times, they've even sent me friend requests afterwards.