As a VR player, I don't really care about the lack of shift or flag lights at all. The size, shape and button layout were verrrry appealing to me, especially the on-rim buttons (finally a good place for overtake/boost/nitrous buttons) and the two MFD options I actually adjust during a race (Fuel, brake bias) being in a super convenient spot is great too.
Mine arrived yesterday, feels fantastic. I also have the DD Extreme, Formula V2.5 and have experience with the DD Pro and McLaren GT3 V2. Shifters feel almost identical in snap and throw length to the Formula, which is a very good thing in my opinion. The alcantara style grip feels amazing. Honestly feels more similar to build quality of the Formula than the McLaren (which I felt was a bit cheap and plasticky).
I have a feeling this is going to replace the DD Extreme as my go-to, which I will keep for rally and older road car driving. Gotta have a round wheel. I think I will end up keeping the Formula too, as it is so much smaller and just has the raciest feel of the three. For stuff like Gr1, SuperFormula and Red Bull X2019 I like the smaller diameter so I can react a bit more quickly.