Girl Advice?

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Originally posted by loserkid
tell her yourself, girls hate guys that dont have the balls to tell their feelings. tell her that u like her and you will probably get a good response. it worked for me.

if girls know that you like them, yhey hang around you more than they did (that is what heppens most of the time)

tahts what happened with me and Holly (check other posts, i mention her in a different post)
 
Originally posted by Dudebusta
go ask her to walk her home from school, thats how i met my girlfriend 13 years ago. walk slow so you got time to talk and get to know her a bit before you ask her out.

i found it a lot easier to ask out lauren out because we had been friends for 4 years and when we started going out it was no different than the friendship we had before...well accept for a few things you can think of ;) :lol:.

good luck on monday mate :cheers:
And for goodness sake, if she accepts, carry her books.
chivalry is not dead! :D
 
Bimmer-that didn't happen with me...they stayed away from me lol...

And Stealth, if you're saying that girls suck, then that means you are probably......fill in the blank.
 
Well, isn't this appropriate... gt2_gs, don't wait much longer. I just found out today that the girl I had my eyes on (and I mean, really on) is having sex with the guy she was dating. I can't help but think what would happen had I made a move earlier this year... Now, I am very depressed. :cry: :cry: :cry:
 
I fail to see the humor in it, and I'd rather not mention my age.
 
Aww, im sorry jordan, that really sucks buddy...

Oh well.. Move on man, just think of it this way, she wasnt worth your time :)
 
I guess not. Unfortunately, my small town is so sparsely populated with nice girls, it's hard to move on because there doesn't seem to be anyone else! :shakehead
 
Originally posted by Jordan
Well, isn't this appropriate... gt2_gs, don't wait much longer. I just found out today that the girl I had my eyes on (and I mean, really on) is having sex with the guy she was dating. I can't help but think what would happen had I made a move earlier this year... Now, I am very depressed. :cry: :cry: :cry:
:( Sorry to hear about that. I had something like that happen to me once. It sucked and well i carried on. But it took me a good 5-6 months to get over it. But man i was sad and pissed at the same time. Well the good thing is that you will get over it, and find your self another good girl. Cheer up man ;) :) ;)
 
You felt like this for 5-6 months? Oh, no...
 
Okay, I'll use the quote thing more often: Gil: Who says chivalry isn't dead?? For God's sake, it's 2002 - if they WANT to be treated equally, treat them equally. Don't carry their books! :lol:

Jordan I've wondered how old you were for some time, but fine don't tell me. ;) I'll live (and guess). :D
 
Originally posted by Jordan
You felt like this for 5-6 months? Oh, no...
Well that was me. Anyways the good thing is that it will pass.
 
Originally posted by Jordan
I guess not. Unfortunately, my small town is so sparsely populated with nice girls, it's hard to move on because there doesn't seem to be anyone else! :shakehead

you mean everyones had a ride? ha ha just kiddin man. yeah i was from a small town, lauren was 1 in about 50 and now SHES MINE! :lol:
 
Originally posted by M5Power
Okay, I'll use the quote thing more often: Gil: Who says chivalry isn't dead?? For God's sake, it's 2002 - if they WANT to be treated equally, treat them equally. Don't carry their books! :lol:

Jordan I've wondered how old you were for some time, but fine don't tell me. ;) I'll live (and guess). :D
Ok, let me revise, offer to carry her books. Women do indeed want equal treatment, but the majority of them also want to be spoiled a little too.
 
Originally posted by M5Power
Okay, I'll use the quote thing more often: Gil: Who says chivalry isn't dead?? For God's sake, it's 2002 - if they WANT to be treated equally, treat them equally. Don't carry their books! :lol:

Jordan I've wondered how old you were for some time, but fine don't tell me. ;) I'll live (and guess). :D
:D M5 don't you think that Gil and anyone else over the age of 16 haven't thought this same thing ourselves? Girls want equal treatment that much is true. However if you want the girl then you had better learn to get a better read on women!! Rarely do they say what they mean. You're not dealing with one of your buddies here. They require alot of thought, and in the end, the guys that score the girls learn this fact early in the game. A little bit of chivalry and politeness go miles(kilometers if in Canada) to scoring points. You don't have to believe it, but it does help. ;)
 
Jordan, sorry to hear that. In my school, there's a lot of nice looking girls, but most are either total druggies, sluts, or have that "too good for anyone" additude....the girls that I liked were nice looking...not like supermodels but like the kind that you would like to hang around with. And they were nice...

But then they see me as just a short quiet kid, and they automaticly hate me...

Latest I heard of, Kelley was dumped by that one kid(at the time I told her that I liked her), and has someone else(I don't know who, but in the preivious years, she's turned into a snotty person, and this year she sorta was just with a group of people)
Laura has probably been having sex with people...I wouldn't have said that before but now that she's basicly said that I'm a looser and played jokes on me to get rid of me, I'll say that now.

And when this was going on, I was a wreck, well on the inside atleast(I try not to show my feelings on the outside cause I don't want teachers and other people making a big stink about it). And even now, everytime I think about it, I feel really bad.

So now, I'm just waiting for some girl to actually look past what I look like....which will never happen, but ohh well.
 
Hey, Mazkid, it'll happen. A woman worth staying with won't care that much about what you look like. By the same token, you shouldn't care that much about what she looks like, if you think she's worth staying with.

In a meeting of minds, the bodies follow naturally, trust me. Most people probably wouldn't look twice at my wife (or me, for that matter) but to me she is seriously the most attractive woman in the world.

And to the original poster, pony up and do it! If she smiles and waves to you, she likes you. In high school even that much display is going out on a limb and risking somebody else noticing. So she is probably interested in you, too.

ABOVE ALL don't have a friend approach her. That shows weakness and self-protection in your character. She'll be much more impressed if you just come up and say, "Hi! This is kind of hard for me to do, but it seems like we could be friends, and I'd really like the chance to find out."

Remember, bravery doesn't mean you're not afraid; it just means you do what you need to do despite the fear.
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Good luck, guys...
 
Well, seems monday has come and gone. I seen her today, but not when i wanted to... i seen her in class 5th period but im not gonna tell her in front of all those people... I planned to tell her when i saw her in between 5th n 6th, but i didnt see her. In 6th period both me and her have P.E. but not in the same class... Both of our classes went swimming today, but i decided not to go until she asked me to :p

Yeah, she asked me to go into the pool, but by the time i actually got in she was off somewhere else so too bad for me... We are going to go swimming again on wednesday so i plan to chill with her or atleast try lol

Oh well, one day failed, another commin'! :D
 
oooooo swimming+girl that you like=FUN!

Too bad that in my PE class last year(schools over now), no one that I liked was there...well and I can't swim well and hate the deep end...and there was several show off jocks getting all the girls...

WHY ISN'T THERE BIKING IN GYM?!
 
Ok, this is a q for you guys. I have talked to many girls, and no one will give me a strait answer:

If a girl makes an excuse that they are doing something this weekend (babysitting whatever) but MABYE nexweekend, does that mean "I am not interested" or "Mabe next weekend??"

Some people you can tell because of the condescending looks, but... anyone know?
 
First couple of times = "Maybe next weekend."

After that = "Get lost, chump."

Some girls are just nicer about turning you down than others.
 
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