Girl Advice?

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God damnit! I ****ed up again!!!!

Okay, today i had the most awesome chance to tell her, but i was a retard and pussed out... Ok heres how it went... I seen her after school, had the chance to walk her to the corner (5 mins of walking.. good time.. damnit) and i just said hi as i walked by her fast n kept walking... I have a very fast normal walking pace so i wasnt really in a rush or anything... Oh well, i'll have the same chance tomorrow and thursday :D

Oi... Oh, and were going swimming again tomorrow! :D ;)
 
Yea GT2, I walk fast too, and that's just another thing people make fun of me for...

They think that I'm scared to walk in the halls...the real reason is because I just want to be left alone, and want to get to class and have everything ready and relax...

Yea with Laura, I had an awsome chance, in history one day, we were put into groups, and I was in her group along with the other girl that was helping me with Laura(gave me her SN, and tryed to get me set up), but no, my teacher screwed up on counting people, and so one group only had 1 person, so guess who got moved, ME...and then I was stuck with Bryan(Sportsplayer, he was here but he hasn't been back since...)and he's a moron so I wasn't too happy...

Hope everything works out...sounds like you almost have her...
 
ohh...she does...that's a major problem...see Laura didn't have a boyfreind(not that I knew of...)...but still that was probably because she's so self centered....

Well at least the girl you like is nice...
 
Originally posted by MazKid
ohh...she does...that's a major problem...see Laura didn't have a boyfreind(not that I knew of...)...but still that was probably because she's so self centered....

Well at least the girl you like is nice...
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Don't nessecarily jump to conclusions... She is not nessecarily self centered. She may just be nervous, or if she is in a group, "going with the flow" Lots of people I have talked to are perfectly nice outside a group, then in a group they are different people.
 
I'd doubt it...at school she acted like "pretty girl'(not saying that she wasn't pretty...)and hung around the jocks...but on the net, when I'd IM her she would always say that she was busy talking to someone else, there was always someone else(or maybe no one at all...)and she even asked if she was "B****y"(ofcourse at the time I said no, cause that was before I found out the truth).

I donno, people say that girls thing that short guys are cute, but I've only heard that from one girl, and she hangs out with druggyies and stuff...you see, at school, I can be a total bummer, cause 1 I'm at school, 2, I'm tired and bored, and 3, most of the time I just want to be left alone cause there's always someone that when I'm actually having a good time, they make me feel like crap again.

Then people say that the problem is that I don't talk much in public, and that's caused by them, the people that are better off and like making fun of me and others. So why even make the effort of talking if I'm just going to be shot down?

I'll try next year...
 
Originally posted by Deathhawk
Ok, this is a q for you guys. I have talked to many girls, and no one will give me a strait answer:

If a girl makes an excuse that they are doing something this weekend (babysitting whatever) but MABYE nexweekend, does that mean "I am not interested" or "Mabe next weekend??"

Some people you can tell because of the condescending looks, but... anyone know?
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A lot of times, but not always, when a girl says maybe another time, she means, "My schedule is mucked up right now, please ask me again sometime."

They are just as afraid as we are. They just have the power of "yes" and "no".

If they keep communication lines open, then you have a chance. If not move on.
But in the immortal words of Winston Churchill "Never give in, Never give in, Never give in."
 
Originally posted by gt2_gs
God damnit! I ****ed up again!!!!

Okay, today i had the most awesome chance to tell her, but i was a retard and pussed out... Ok heres how it went... I seen her after school, had the chance to walk her to the corner (5 mins of walking.. good time.. damnit) and i just said hi as i walked by her fast n kept walking... I have a very fast normal walking pace so i wasnt really in a rush or anything... Oh well, i'll have the same chance tomorrow and thursday :D

Oi... Oh, and were going swimming again tomorrow! :D ;)
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Boy, I've been there before... Just remember, you see a lot of hot girls with average looking guys for one reason: those average guys are probably the only ones brave enough to ask them out! As the AIG Investments slogan says, "The greatest risk is not taking one." ;)
 
Hey man all you need to do is just talk to her and get to know her. Your making it a whole lot more difficult than it really is. Don't think about it so much and just talk. Then you will find out more and it will be easier to talk with her. But about being broke and being a loser without a car i cant help you. Just try it out and remember these powerful words to live by.
///M POWER
 
Originally posted by Jordan
Boy, I've been there before... Just remember, you see a lot of hot girls with average looking guys for one reason: those average guys are probably the only ones brave enough to ask them out! As the AIG Investments slogan says, "The greatest risk is not taking one." ;)
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good1 jordan

:cool:
 
Originally posted by Jordan
Boy, I've been there before... Just remember, you see a lot of hot girls with average looking guys for one reason: those average guys are probably the only ones brave enough to ask them out! As the AIG Investments slogan says, "The greatest risk is not taking one." ;)
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To add to what Jordan said, this is something I found out after I had been married for a few years and had nothing to risk, or lose. (Girls will talk to another woman's hubby, no fear of being hit on).
A lot of the girls that look like supermodels, and look like they should have a boyfriend straight off the front line of the Kansas City Chiefs, don't have boyfriends at all.
The reason: most guys are afraid of being shot down by a beautiful girl and squished by the huge boyfriend.
It is not likely. First, since they usually don't have boyfriends, and no guy will approach them, they are worried that they are not attractive. So when you do approach she may be shocked that you're interested in her, Remember, she usually doesn't think she is attractive. You know that she's hot, but she is clueless. Don't be a predator. Use this information only for good. And get next to the girl.
 
Jordan, this is a great honor lol, you have posted about 5 times in my thread... Im hornored! I think its the first time you have posted in a thread i created.. Wow :D lol
 
Just trying to help - I understand what a difficult situation it can be. :)
 
Son of a B*TCH!

I was so pumped about today.. I was gonna like walk her to the corner since thats as far as i was going right... but her friend decided to go with her instead...

So basically i got screwed over today. :( God damnit!

Theres always tomorrow... Which will be my last chance to be able to walk her :( I hope i can... damn that friend of hers :mad:
 
Originally posted by gt2_gs
Son of a B*TCH!

I was so pumped about today.. I was gonna like walk her to the corner since thats as far as i was going right... but her friend decided to go with her instead...

So basically i got screwed over today. :( God damnit!

Theres always tomorrow... Which will be my last chance to be able to walk her :( I hope i can... damn that friend of hers :mad:
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I'm sorry to hear that man! :mad:

Goodluck tomorrow. ;)
 
Originally posted by gt2_gs
Simon, incase you didnt notice, she has a boyfriend ...
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Dudes, she has a friend. Gender not mentioned.

GT2-gs..Go for it friend or no friend. All you have to do for the moment is get a phone number. That way you can confab on the phone during the summer break. Possibly even set up a meeting to get a coke or something.
Do not ask her to go to the movies. Do something where you can talk and get to know each other.
If you do want to watch movies, rent and inviter her over or get invited to her house. And you bring the flick and microwave popcorn.
 
Eh, i give up. I wanted to walk her today but i couldnt. Turns out my mom had the day off so she was waiting right there for me in the school parkin lot.

Oh well.. Oh and not to mention she didnt say hi or anything today.. didnt even look at me. Oh well...

Thanks for the advice n sorry for the dissapointment guys.
 
Dont tell me your giving up????? Look just grab a rose or something from a nighboors yard, or anywhere for free! you dont need $$ for a flower. Than just be relaxed and be yourself. If shes a nice girl and she is in the least bit interesed in you she'll respond well, just dont say anything stupid. NO FEAR!
 
Umm...I was wondering if anybody had some advice for me.
You see, I really like this girl named Mackenzie, but we're really good friends and all. I don't wanna say anything to her about me liking her, because I'm afraid that she won't feel the same way, and we'll become worse friends. Anybody recognize this sort of situation? Please help me.
 
well this is what i did with my friend i tried to make a move without really making a move iwe were sitting acrost from eachother and she had he head tilted like in the middle of the table and turned left so i did the same (to get close to her) but she didnt like it so i said she dont like me whatever we were still friends or just ask her if you are friends it wont matter
 
I've had 2 in the past two years, they've both been pretty good. I want her to be my next one...and sometimes I get the feeling that she likes me, but other times I dont, but oh well...I think I'm gonna tell her the truth. :)
 

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