Or set up your own server as I have mentioned several times. Makes no sense at all to complain about something you can avoid.
I will post the same thing here that I posted in another thread.
First very important note is to always go to your single player after you put the game in.
While in the single player you hit start. Then go over to the "online" tab. After that it should say something like "play gta online". Then once you click that there will be about 5 different options. Solo, friends only, invite only, or something like that. I ALWAYS pick the "Friends only" option. After you click that you will join online and the server will only have you on it. No idiots to ruin your gameplay. At this point friends can join or you can invite friends.