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Dont want to waste time trying to get back in that room if it was from being host booted
For some reason the GT5 server seems to be very glitchy with wireless connection, regardless of the signal strength. I had been using wireless on all other online games with no problems, but had been losing connection with GT5 online just as you described. I switched to wired connection and it seemed to help alot. There is also a 'cache' you should be cleaning out often, found at the GT5 main menu, next to 'GT mode' and 'Arcade', click on 'options' and 'clean cache'
how do i become a better host? should i keep on kicking the guys below level 21? do i continue to make spots for the guys on my friends list? if my buddy cant get into the room, do i kick someone i dnt know? i tend too boot the crappiest driver in the room, to make space for my buds, my bud list is almost full, and thats alot of kicking! I get alot of hatemail