Insecure?

[123abc]

Not meaning to offend any women on here but why are girls/women insecure about their looks? My girlfriend keeps saying she's too skinny and that she's ugly and it makes me mad that she can't be happy with herself.

 

[Mopar Muscle]

Our ass-backward society pushes people to be something they are not. Tell her "You know whats worse? Youre a chickenchit conformist that wants to be something because they are told to."

(That may not be the best thing to say)

Just tell her she is perfect in your eyes. (If you tell her she is perfect, then she may think she is perfect to other men too, don't forget the "in my eyes" part.

 

[123abc]

lol Thats a good idea. I hate society today. I hate how people get soooooo offended soooo easily. Like if you said you suck to someone, they could probably sue you. I guess it doesn't help that tv stations have shows like the top 50 most beautiful people.

 

[Klostrophobic]

I'm secure. I know I'm not the best looking person, but I'm confident with my looks.

I like to think that nothing offends me.

Originally posted by 123abc
Like if you said you suck to someone, they could probably sue you.

Yes, and then the case would be laughed out of court. The judge would literally laugh at someone over a lawsuit like that.

 

[123abc]

Ya, probably, but what I'm trying to say is there are some people out there that are actually dumb enough to try that. I'm secure too. Probably because I don't care what other people think or say about me. I think a lot more people should not care what other people think.

 

[Mopar Muscle]

Some guy sued Mc Donalds because the food made him a fat ass.

i.e:

"You suck!" Could ignite deep feelings and cause emotional trauma to one's self respect, but money will make it all better.

(sarcasticly speaking)

 

[123abc]

Yep, money is the key to happiness. lol It's knda the same thing with the tobacco companies. People blame them for teens smoking but its the TEENS decision to smoke. Plus, the warning is right on the freakin pack. They aren't lieing at all.

 

[Concept]

My girlfriend says she's fat. She's stupid. 5'5'' and she weighs like 110lbs. She's absolutely gorgeous. I've got a picture posted of her here.

 

[Klostrophobic]

Tell her Klostrophobic says she isn't fat.

 

[123abc]

DAMN!! If she's fat, then i'm that guy at Mcdonalds. My g/f weighs like 100. To me, the perfect weight is like 120. I don't like it when you can see through them.

 

[Concept]

Originally posted by Klostrophobic
Tell her Klostrophobic says she isn't fat.

I'll be sure to do so, that'll make all the difference I'm sure.

 

[Klostrophobic]

It always does.

Just show her a picture of Rosie O'Donnell and say "No, this ***** is fat, you aren't."

 

[Concept]

Originally posted by Klostrophobic
It always does.

Just show her a picture of Rosie O'Donnell and say "No, this ***** is fat, you aren't."

I think Klostrophobic has a little crush on my girlfriend. Oh, and Rosie O'Donnell is ****ing hot.

 

[Crayola]

Originally posted by 123abc
DAMN!! If she's fat, then i'm that guy at Mcdonalds. My g/f weighs like 100. To me, the perfect weight is like 120. I don't like it when you can see through them.

I dont know pounds, but my g/f is 47 kg which is less than 100 pds (I think) and shes about 175cm tall (5'7" ish) Im 6'1" and weigh 73kg.

 

[1X83Z]

Originally posted by Concept
My girlfriend says she's fat. She's stupid. She's absolutely gorgeous.

Stupid, fat, and gorgeous: at least you've got the first bit right.

 

[Sleek Stratos]

I had to re-read that a few times myself.

I suppose I am insecure, not necessarily about my looks (I was born the way I was born and that's the end of that) I'm more doubtful about myself when it comes to personality and such things, since those are the features I can change. My physical aspect I don't feel the need to modify.

 

[Concept]

Originally posted by M5Power
Stupid, fat, and gorgeous: at least you've got the first bit right.

I love you Doug.

 

[Seito4Counter]

sigh my gf is insecure too.. never wants to show off her body, has its pros and cons.. I still can't figure out why girls are so hung up on it, but hey atleast i have something to think about

 

[123abc]

What drives me crazy though is some girls think they're too fat when they aren't and they get all depressed and slice their wrists. I guess this is one of them things that won't change until they get older.

 

[Belethdolien]

do you really think its weird that girls dont like the way they look? everywhere you look there are these perfect models. and then you blame us for not liking the way we look...... i must admitt, i hate the way i look. im too fat, my nose is too big, dont like my chin, my hair is ugly, my boobs are too small and so on. do i say this to get attention? no. not at all. to hear "youre pretty"? no. i dont walk around telling others bout how ugly i am. cuz i dont care bout what they say.

 

[123abc]

I guess it doesn't help that a lot of guys dis' the girls with small tits. To me, I don't care what dhe looks like as long as she's not hideouse. It's their personality that attracts me.

 

[Seito4Counter]

i think i need a balance.. otherwise i would wake up every day in regret.

 

[Mopar Muscle]

Originally posted by Belethdolien
do you really think its weird that girls dont like the way they look? everywhere you look there are these perfect models. and then you blame us for not liking the way we look...... i must admitt, i hate the way i look. im too fat, my nose is too big, dont like my chin, my hair is ugly, my boobs are too small and so on. do i say this to get attention? no. not at all. to hear "youre pretty"? no. i dont walk around telling others bout how ugly i am. cuz i dont care bout what they say.

Got a picture?

(Just asking so we can tell you that you are not ugly.)

 

[123abc]

Yes, a pic would be nice.

 

[Belethdolien]

here, but dont say im not ugly.

 

[123abc]

You're not bad. You should come to my school if you want to see ugly. (I didn't say you're not ugly)

 

[Mopar Muscle]

Originally posted by 123abc
I guess it doesn't help that a lot of guys dis' the girls with small tits. To me, I don't care what dhe looks like as long as she's not hideouse. It's their personality that attracts me.

I have been with a few girls with a not-so-big chest. And it's almost frstrating because when you are going at it like animals you just want something to hold on to, and if there is almost nothing there you just have to grab a fist full of skin.

I wouldn't not go out with a girl because of her chest size, but they do put the icing on the cake, that is, if they are there.

 

[Mopar Muscle]

Originally posted by Belethdolien
here, but dont say im not ugly.

You are not, not not ugly

 

[Belethdolien]

i think its sick when skinny girls walks around with gigantic boobs. cuz boobs are fat. and its quite hard to have lots of fat on your boobs, and then nothin anywhere else.

 

[Mopar Muscle]

Look at my ugly science teacher.

He needs to be ARROWED!