Some interesting discussions here. Some points came up in my mind.
1) This is not a UK thing. Although every outbreak is different, in Western Europe there are certain similarities. You can not blame a certain government or prime minister, since it is a general society issue. The French certainly could add to this.
2) Individualism (Geert Hofstede):
Individualism (IDV) on the one side versus its opposite, collectivism, that is the degree to which individuals are inte-grated into groups. On the individualist side we find societies in which the ties between individuals are loose: everyone is expected to look after him/herself and his/her immediate family. On the collectivist side, we find societies in which people from birth onwards are integrated into strong, cohesive in-groups, often extended families (with uncles, aunts and grandparents) which continue protecting them in exchange for unquestioning loyalty. The word 'collectivism' in this sense has no political meaning: it refers to the group, not to the state. Again, the issue addressed by this dimension is an extremely fundamental one, regarding all societies in the world.
So if you promote individualism this is not respect of the other, since the individualism you have no duties (loyalty) towards the others. That would be collectivism, it seems there are some different visions of definition on this. You can discuss human rights (where I also have a more collectivist vision then most Anglo Saxons), but that is not reinforced by individualism or collectivism.
3) To quote the Bible:
Let He Who Is Without Sin Cast The First Stone
I did pretty stupid things when I was 11, and so did a lot of my friends that turned out to be very responsible, leading and successful people. Make it clear to the youngsters that this is unacceptable, but give them a chance to grow up.
4) Police violence is destructive for society: When the police needs to use violence it is too late. The issue needs to found before. For the people that see violence of Police, even if it is justified, it will be easier to identify with the person not in uniform. I hardly see how this will give respect. Social workers are better placed and can help to build respect to authority slowly, but they generally are not respected, since the parents should be doing this. Do not blame the things that do not work, but find solutions that do work.
4) About not having what the others have. That is the case for all people, I have known very rich people that are jealous of the less capital strong people since they have more quality time to spend with their family. This whole discussion is beside the point and proves you miss the essence (as the looters seem to do). It is not about what you have or what others have, but it is about what you make of what you have! When I see a Porsche Turbo S in front of a big house here in Luxembourg, I know what it costs and that I will not have that, but that does not incite me to destroy. When I look at my life compared to African simple farmers, I see how I'm very rich. When I look at my life with my partner and family, I see how good we have it.
5) The government should do things. Yes that is something I stated, but many seem to transform that into they owe me something. Now that is just one of these issues with individualism, you contribute, so you should profit on your terms? When I state the government should do things this is in a collectivist view, I contribute with my contributions, taxes, etc... to the government existence and I accept that since they have to shape this collectivism. There is a return but the return is not directly to me (but to society) and I have to accept that. It is not on my term, but on the term of the collective, the voters. Man I hope people vote differently next time, but still I have to live with the collective choice.