Need help asking a girl out

[MusclecarChhris]

I'm 15, and there's this girl I really like who I want to ask out. whe are pretty good friends, shes the same age as me, and I'm pretty sure shed go out with me, but i just dont know how to ask her out. please, help me out here.

 

[McLaren]

Didn't we just have a thread like this a while ago?

The only thing I can tell you is what I said before. Just ask her our. Worst she can say is, "No".

 

[Casio]

Don't ask anyone out. Ever. That's so 20 years ago.

If anything happens it will happen.

 

[DuckRacer]

I'm 15, and there's this girl I really like who I want to ask out. whe are pretty good friends, shes the same age as me, and I'm pretty sure shed go out with me, but i just dont know how to ask her out. please, help me out here.

FHUTA

(not really)

 

[Blackbird.]

All I have to say is if you get rejected and she just wants to be "friends" and you don't want to stay like that, back out... quick. Trust me.

 

[HACKr]

You're 15. Wait till 18, otherwise it will end in nothing but pain, and it still could when you're 18. You might get this feeling that when you're following your heart things will just work out or something, but there has never been a heart that hasn't made a mistake.

 

[Omnis]

This video will teach you all that you need to know:

 

[Philly]

I say just go for it. Find a time when you will see her alone. And jump on the first opportunity you have.

What to say? I would say something like "Just curious if you would like to go out on a date with me." Except, make it suit your personality better.

And be confident. Know what you are going to say. Know how you are going to go about it. And be ready for it to happen somewhere you didn't expect.

But then again, I've never asked a girl out so you can't consider me an expert.

 

[ferrari_chris]

Have you been out with her before? Like, anywhere as just the two of you? If not, you don't have to be as boring and formal as "Do you want to go out with me?", you can just ask her if she wants to go to a movie with you. At 15, that's all you're likely to do initially anyway.

If you don't ask, you'll always wonder. And if you don't hurry up someone else might get in first - and that will bug you more than not knowing!

 

[prisonermonkeys]

I love it when the least-qualified people to give this kind of information are the ones doing it. I don't see that as any reason to break with tradition, so I'll offer my two cents.

First of all, timing is everything. If you've only known the girl in question for a short time, the risk of rejection skyrockets. Otherwise, just be yourself. Don't act differently around her because it's a dead giveaway. Trust me, women are antennas for detecting personality changes ad if they don't like what they're seeing, chnces are they'll work out what you're up to.

 

[Josh]

FHUTA

(not really)

That could backfire - in more ways than one.

 

[Seanman]

Engrave it on a ring, punch her in the face.

Never failed me.

 

[Stevisiov]

Just ask her out, best thing to do.

 

[Vasco]

Find a time when you will see her alone. And jump on the first opportunity you have.

Couldn't have said it better myself. Actually a wink on the end would work nice.

 

[Blake]

That could backfire - in more ways than one.

Ew.

 

[F1GTR]

Pick up line: "Does this cloth smell like chloroform to you?"

Method 1: Rohypnol.

Method 2: Club, or similar object, to the back of head. Drag body home.

 

[superberkut]

Somebody said in Skid Mark 33's thread that, for asking a girl out, you should not use any personal pronouns, because it would make the choice seem a bit limited to them. Instead, rather ask something like, "So, would you like to go to a movie (on this day)?" and see how it progresses from there.

Of course, that is all I remember, other than to check if she already has a boyfriend, which in that case, you should make yourself scarce. But, I think you will do well.

 

[Omnis]

Try and catch her in a situation of rejection. Then pick her up like Sam Witwicky did in transformers.

 

[MusclecarChhris]

Thanks for the advice everyone!

I personally like the ring and chloroform ideas >=)

But seriously, thanks =)

 

[Robin]

nah, don't do that!

 

[GT40 MKII]

no chloroform and ring ideas..... bad but funny. just ask her out and see what hapens,the worst she can say is no.wow she said no also be completely detached

 

[ExigeEvan]

Wait till you can drive.

Serious.

Having a car, hell any car (I have an Almera 1.4, FFS), makes things soooo much easier.

 

[Goa]

You Americans are so old fashioned. Anyway, good luck asking her out. I hope it won't nananana up your friendship.

 

[tait]

Couldn't have said it better myself. Actually a wink on the end would work nice.

That's kind of creepy.

 

[Skid Mark 33]

I asked pretty much the same thing on a thread months ago, so I'm no expert. But I will advise one thing. Don't take ages asking her out, and try not to be nervous, and if you do get nervous, just ignore your nerves. If that doesn't work, just try that old and well know trick of picturing everyone in their underwear. (Hairy teachers not advised!)

 

[SS69]

First of all, you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi." Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it." Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?" Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice." And five, now this is the most important. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.

 

[ferrari_chris]

So, have you done it yet?

 

[Omnis]

So, have you done it yet?

I seriously doubt they've gotten that far already.

 

[ferrari_chris]

I seriously doubt they've gotten that far already.

As soon as I posted it I knew I'd chosen the wrong terminology.

 

[Rykon Zero]