The General Relationship Thread

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I always make eye-contact. The rest of her body you can see using peripheral vision.
 
My last crush who moved had some amazingly gorgeous blue eyes. Also was a brunette. My favorite. :O
 
Cale
This is why my sunglasses have mirrored lenses. I can look anywhere I want and they don't know.


*PROTIP #143 from Cale
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I like Dillon Optics. Especially these aviators. No one can see a thing.

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Cale - The man women swoon over; the man men want to be.

Those sunglasses look super creepy, and I agree, If I were that dude, I wouldn't need sunglasses. Another thing, you have to look a specific way to rock those sunglasses without looking creepy.
 
All this talk of sunglasses has made me feel ugly as 🤬 and cheap as 🤬 with $10 Walmart sunglasses. :lol:
 
phillkillv2
Cale - The man women swoon over; the man men want to be.

Those sunglasses look super creepy, and I agree, If I were that dude, I wouldn't need sunglasses. Another thing, you have to look a specific way to rock those sunglasses without looking creepy.
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My mirror lensed Wayfarers are much more normal looking.
 
Well I have a plan for tomorrow. This would've happened today, but my crush wasn't in school. What I'm gonna do is compliment her by telling her that she's very pretty. From there, I'm just going to let whatever path things take, take their path. The other night, I was going back and forth on whether or not I should just straight up tell her how I feel, but telling her that she's pretty is less riskier. I hope it works.
 
phillkillv2
Those sunglasses look super creepy, and I agree, If I were that dude, I wouldn't need sunglasses. Another thing, you have to look a specific way to rock those sunglasses without looking creepy.
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You have to look like Matt Farrah :p
 
While I love my sunglasses, don't wear them on dates. Eye contact is way too important and, from my experience, even more so for women than it is for men.
 
I always slide them up on my head when I'm talking to someone. Generally, it is disrespectful to meet someone and not take your glasses off. People want to see who they're talking to.
 
I fell in love for the first time in my life. It's a wonderful feeling that gives me butterflies in my stomach and makes me feel dazed...it's with the girl next to me in my profile picture. I'll try to post pictures later.
 
So continuing on from last week's (or whenever it was I asked the question) today was the day. This comes after a while slew of information and ordeals about her came last week. :boggled:

Now last week it was as if she was kinda trying to avoid me, and I honestly had no clue what I did. It all started Wednesday when her parents did something that made her resort to *that* if you refer to the depression thread. :indiff: Then on Thursday another issue came up but didn't tell me about it until Sunday where everything came out-ish.

But basically what she was dealing with was this sorta love path. She liked me and some other dude but didn't know which route to take. However, the thing was she didn't like I guess *know* whether or not she actually liked him... I saw this as like a signal, a signal to do it and ask her before she loses those feelings for you. She even said that she was kinda losing feelings for me because she thought I deserved better (which of course, I wasn't buying) :).

I was planning on asking her tomorrow, but she was real busy with all her other friends I didn't really ask then. So that's when I decided to do it today before it dragged out into something really redundant. I asked her to be my GF today, via an emotional sorta love-letter almost since she had to leave kinda early, and she said yes! :dopey:

Sadly she leaves for vacation to Mexico Friday and finals week has made things a little more difficult for us to see each other. Regardless, I'm excited to think what we'll do when she gets back :D

TL;DR asked her out, said yes, internally yissing, excited for January. :O
 
Johnny1996
Well I have a plan for tomorrow. This would've happened today, but my crush wasn't in school. What I'm gonna do is compliment her by telling her that she's very pretty. From there, I'm just going to let whatever path things take, take their path. The other night, I was going back and forth on whether or not I should just straight up tell her how I feel, but telling her that she's pretty is less riskier. I hope it works.
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STOP planning. Do something that doesn't involve feelings
 
cnd01
STOP planning. Do something that doesn't involve feelings
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I can't even really do anything anyway, because the girl hasn't been in school since Friday. I've considered other things to do and/or say, but didn't think it was worth mentioning in here.
 
Johnny1996
I can't even really do anything anyway, because the girl hasn't been in school since Friday. I've considered other things to do and/or say, but didn't think it was worth mentioning in here.
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Don't plan. Don't think. Do something. We'd rather see you say that you got shot down than 10 trillion excuses as to why you did nothing
 
I'm just gonna stop posting here. Its not worth getting screamed at for one simple thing that I did wrong with every :censored:ing post I make. I'm just wasting text and posts anyway. :rolleyes:
 
Johnny1996
I'm just gonna stop posting here. Its not worth getting screamed at for one simple thing that I did wrong with every :censored:ing post I make. I'm just wasting text and posts anyway. :rolleyes:
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My point exactly...

We've been giving you advice and all you do is give excuses then get all whiny when we call you out...
 
Alright look...

I'm extremely shy around everyone. Its even worse when dealing with someone I'm interested in. I don't know when the best time is to do something (if I want to do something) or don't know what to do period. As a result, I end up over thinking things really badly. That then overwhelms me, which causes me to do nothing. I have barely any confidence in anything enough as it is, and just like my shyness, its tons worse when dealing with someone I like.

And before I get another "just an excuse" response to this, its just how my life is. Quite frankly, I don't feel like screamed at again, so I'm done in this thread for however long I feel the need it to be until this is all recognized. I already feel embarrassed to be in this world damn near everyday; I don't need more of it. I'm on a very short fuse right now, but whether its anger or a mental breakdown coming out of the fuse being depleted, it just depends on whether or not I get a verbal beatdown in reply. And if there's anything else that feels suit to say, take it to a goddamn PM if it gets up in your grille that bad. That "Unwatch Thread" button has been clicked.
 
I'm a bit of a bystander, really, and I don't intent to shout at anyone, but I think that this is the message people are tying get across, @Johnny1996:

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It might sound hateful when someone just says it like it's no big deal. Had a pretty darn tough time overcoming my shyness and social awkwardness as well when I was younger. Thing is, it'll only ever get better when you start doing stuff.

Back when I was 17 or 18, at the end of school, I had huge trouble talking to people I didn't know. Always been the kid in the back row that just ran after the pack, so to speak, who kinda wanted to get involved but always wondered how to do it and, thus, never did anything. Eventually, I just took whatever courage I could muster and attempted to get involved. It didn't work, mind you, people gave me strange looks and I didn't get anywhere. Thing is, I didn't lose anything either. Started with nothing, tried something, screwed up, still had nothing; nothing gained, nothing lost. That's stuff I was told countless times by my dad beforehand, but really never believed a word of until I experienced it first hand.

With that experience under my belt, things got better. Sometimes, it's not about doing the right thing, it's about doing something.
 
If you guys saw my status, you would know about this.

So yesterday i decided to hangout with her and our mutual friends since i thought i already moved on from her. Idid moved on from her, i no longer feel that i want her in my life anymore, but.... The bad memories still try to come back when i see her face so i tried to not getting close to her. I even rarely talk to her now.
For some reason, i kinda hope she noticed that i'm trying to stay away from her, i know it sounds like im crying for attention but i want her to know that i dont like her anymore and i wont be taken advantage from her again.
So yesterday she asked her friend to take a picture of her and my friend (which already have a crush with someone else) and then they took the picture in front of where i was seated. Somehow it felt like she was trying to make me jealous even though i know my friend doesn't have any idea. The way they took the picture (holding each other shoulder) is the main reason she want me to be jealous, which she almost succeeded.

God i hate myself for being jealous of this.
 
I've never been in a relationship. I'm not a bad looking guy at all, I just lack initiative. Plus, I generally keep to myself. I've talked to girls and asked some of them out but have never been on an actual date. Part of the problem might be my selectiveness when it comes to women... I watched too much Seinfeld as a kid and may have adopted Jerry's attitude toward them.

Would I like a girlfriend? Yes, but getting one has never been a real priority for me. The one thing that bothers me is looking back at my life in high school and thinking I missed out on something... one day, I suppose.
 
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