The General Relationship Thread

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Ha! Welcome to the world of relationships!

There will always be somebody who is top of your poll, whether it be your current partner of somebody else. Such is life for the most part.*


*Not for all of us, just the unfortunate.
 
SO I just told my GF about this all. And she won't leave. She says it makes her more determined to be with me.....

And now you can call me a baby, 🤬, whatever you like but I'm a wreck right now. I don't know where I went wrong anymore. I feel so worthless. Like life isn't worth living anymore.

I can't keep doing this. This is the reason I got into some things I'm not allowed to discuss here. I'm such a failure. This is how I feel right now. Totally down.
 
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I have something I need to admit. I didn't use my head getting into this relationship I'm in now.....I'm such an idiot. I was desperate and I just wanted someone at that point....Such a screw up.
 
End it, then. And don't wait for another month whatever. You won't be feeling better until you do. Also, that'd at least give your GF the chance to move on.
 
Just want an opinion on this from you guys:

I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 16 months now, and she's just not affectionate when she's with me. She lives quite far away so we can't see each other that often, but when we do, she doesn't seem to want to be physically affectionate. I always have to initiate kisses, hugs etc etc, and it's beginning to make me wonder if she's actually physically attracted to me...
 
trackripper123
Just want an opinion on this from you guys:

I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 16 months now, and she's just not affectionate when she's with me. She lives quite far away so we can't see each other that often, but when we do, she doesn't seem to want to be physically affectionate. I always have to initiate kisses, hugs etc etc, and it's beginning to make me wonder if she's actually physically attracted to me...
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She might be cheating on you? Is she in uni/college residence?
 
NissanSkylineN1
She might be cheating on you? Is she in uni/college residence?
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Nope, we're both in the last year of secondary school. It's a possibility, I've thought about it before, but it's unlikely I think. She's always been like this since we started going out, and I desperately want her to open up more to me.
 
NissanSkylineN1
How is the market these days? Where should I invest? :lol:
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*adjusts hornrims. shuffles papers and clears throat.


Hrrumph . . . ah . . eh . . hm . . . yes . . . bit of a bare market right now, no bull. Share value of cougars may be on the rise, but stock in minors seems to be plummeting . . . make sure your portfolio is safely spread.
 
Johnnypenso
You're welcome. It's time for Plan B. I think Plan B is more fun most of the time anyway and surprisingly more successful than one might think.
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Or plan C: Goodbye. :indiff:

You see, I thought I could wait for her forever... but now I'm starting to think I might be losing my time... (yeah, after 5 years... wow... I'm slow :dunce:)...

McLaren
She's a girl. They're full of emotions....
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Quite. Girls are like Menasor:

"an unpredictable mass of conflicting, chaotic impulses"

"mentally unstable, and prone to violent tantrums"

http://transformers.wikia.com/wiki/Menasor_(G1)
 
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Hi guys, I've lurked on this thread before. I have a situation that I'm not sure how to proceed on. I am not currently in a relationship. There are 2 girls I'm fond of atm. Girl 1(g1) and I have been talking and texting for a little under a week. We have been friends for a few months prior which is a little puzzling because she is really into me from what I'm getting. She texts me first. She has asked if we could hang out. When we talk, we have eye contact. She preens (does that hair thing) fairly frequently. I tease her all the time, and she teases right back. I don't know if she's trying to be a good friend, or if it is something more. I haven't expressed my feelings because I'm not sure what they are at this point. Now girl 2(g2) and I have only talked twice. I don't know her that well, but we hit it off very well. I'm sensing a connection. I don't have her number, and I plan on getting it in the near future. Assuming I don't crash and burn with g2, I'm wondering which one I should go after or if I should attempt to date either one. Thanks

Cnd
 
I have kinda found out about the female temper first hand, yet always it would get it turned around so you felt bad.

I do consider a friendship to be a relationship as well. I have never ever been in a "girlfriend / boyfriend" relationship, but I have many female friends... In fact my best friend is a girl... Which means to some idiots that its a "love" relationship :grumpy: idiots...
 
Rotary Junkie
Who says it isn't?

You can love someone and still be completely platonic with them, just saying.
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This is true. I believe the greeks had 3 different words for love. One for family love, one for friendship love, and one for husband/wife love.
 
I just got a taste of Menasor tonight. :lol:

I tried being realistic and bring up the possible harsh realities of life with my GF, who is optimistic, sometimes overpassionate and inconveniently currently PMSing, and I got called sassy and even threatened to be left for her passion of horses/ equine vet career.
 
cnd01
Hi guys, I've lurked on this thread before. I have a situation that I'm not sure how to proceed on. I am not currently in a relationship. There are 2 girls I'm fond of atm. Girl 1(g1) and I have been talking and texting for a little under a week. We have been friends for a few months prior which is a little puzzling because she is really into me from what I'm getting. She texts me first. She has asked if we could hang out. When we talk, we have eye contact. She preens (does that hair thing) fairly frequently. I tease her all the time, and she teases right back. I don't know if she's trying to be a good friend, or if it is something more. I haven't expressed my feelings because I'm not sure what they are at this point. Now girl 2(g2) and I have only talked twice. I don't know her that well, but we hit it off very well. I'm sensing a connection. I don't have her number, and I plan on getting it in the near future. Assuming I don't crash and burn with g2, I'm wondering which one I should go after or if I should attempt to date either one. Thanks

Cnd
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Not sure what the problem is here. If you're attracted to G1 as her out. If she says no, ask out G2. If you're just dating and not serious, ask them both out. Did I miss something?...lol.

Word of advice to you young guys as I've seen this in numerous posts and hear it from young guys around me. Stop with this whole, "I've got to tell her how I feel(express my feelings etc.)" business. Unless you're 15, many women find it a little creepy that you have feelings for them when you haven't dated and don't know each other in that way. And the truth is, if you haven't dated or spent a lot of time together, the feelings you have are just lust, which is perfectly fine.

Try to show, not tell. Show her you care with your actions. Words are cheap. Save the fancy words and flowery language for special occasions and it'll be that more meaningful to her.
 
The girl I like, she's now got a boyfriend, thanks life could you kick me any harder? He's a nice guy so I can't feel bad about this, wake up call to properly move on now.
 
Callumfromleeds
The girl I like, she's now got a boyfriend, thanks life could you kick me any harder? He's a nice guy so I can't feel bad about this, wake up call to properly move on now.
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That's a positive way to look at it. Move along, find someone else, you never know what the future may bring, but if you really do care about here, you'd wish her well in her new relationship and it sounds like that's what you're doing. Good for you:tup:👍
 
She is my best friend I can't not really. :lol:

But it is looking up a girl I sit in front of in English seems as if she may like me. Coincidently the same friend I really liked was talking to her in tutor (we're in different tutors) and the girl said, while talking about me, "I'm in love with his personality." so my friend jokingly went "Are you sure that's the only things you're in love with?" and she said no but while laughing slightly. This means different things for different people but it may mean she's hiding something.

Edit: Scratch all of that she told my friend that she doesn't want a relationship at all. "I'm on the road again..."
 
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Callumfromleeds
She is my best friend I can't not really. :lol:

But it is looking up a girl I sit in front of in English seems as if she may like me. Coincidently the same friend I really liked was talking to her in tutor (we're in different tutors) and the girl said, while talking about me, "I'm in love with his personality." so my friend jokingly went "Are you sure that's the only things you're in love with?" and she said no but while laughing slightly. This means different things for different people but it may mean she's hiding something.

Edit: Scratch all of that she told my friend that she doesn't want a relationship at all. "I'm on the road again..."
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Just be careful of that roller coaster!
 
I found out today that a couple of years ago my girlfriend took part in lesbian activities. This please me greatly and conjured many ideas in my mind. However each of these got me very hard slaps when I pitched them to her.

I shall not give up.
 
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Question:
Would you break up with your girlfriend if you can't see the relationship working in 10 years?
 
NissanSkylineN1
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Question:
Would you break up with your girlfriend if you can't see the relationship working in 10 years?
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I guess that depends on if you're 35 years old and desperate to get married. If that's not you then no.
 

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