You took the lead in the allegedly off-topic discussion:
"I love how all those guys on the roads with their Integra Type Rs and lawn-mower exhaust tips actually drive some of the worst handling cars in all of GT3."
First mention of the real-life car. Made by... you.
"The car is a nightmare to turn, and if you're unlucky enough to draw the Spoon Civic itself as one of your competitors, you have absolutely no chance, and should just go buy some more window decals for that Integra instead of trying to win a race with it."
Second "Ricer" allusion. Made by... you.
"I hate the persona that goes with that car, as well as the manner in which nearly 100% of the people who own them (100% MALES, incidentally) drive them. If I have to deal with one more lame-o tailgating me on the highway and then weaving in and out of lanes without using his turn signal (obviously not having read the disclaimer at the beginning of GT3), all the while letting me have the pleasure of listening to his garbage music thumping away with the bass turned way up so it rattles my windshield and rearview mirror, and mixing this audial melody with an overpowering hint of cheap muffler tip exhaust note, I might snap right there in my car and go crazy on him, a la Michael Douglas in Falling Down . People who buy stock Hondas and drive them like they think they're race cars should be stripped of their licenses. A brand new set of rims on a canary yellow Integra does not a race car make. Cut. Print. That's a wrap."
It looks to me as if you've got a little bit of an axe to grind with Hondas. Which is made all the more amusing by your people who cannot "see past the name of a car" comment, seeing as you've chosen not to see past even the first part of the name.
Those who "defended" the car did nothing of the sort. They merely said "it's not THAT bad" in GT3, which it isn't.
You are, of course, perfectly entitled to your opinion. However, don't complain about off-topic discussions when you actually instigated it yourself. If you didn't want to discuss real cars, why did you bring them up at all? However, you can rest assured that all the people who apparently behave badly on the roads around you will behave badly no matter what car they're in - and the car they ARE in is most likely NOT a Honda Integra Type-R (although it may be a normal Integra).
If you like "hard" series, try the Formula GT or Italian Avante Garde. Many people who hate driving FF cars also have a hard time with the Vitz/Yaris Trophy, especially on SSR11. If you need help on that, do a search with my name included. That'll give you some nice settings.