Where can i post about questions i have about life?

  • Thread starter Thread starter AznAbyss86
  • 184 comments
  • 3,125 views
AznAbyss86

AznAbyss86

Messages
357
i want to know were i can get some feedback about a question that recently arrose in my life... where can i do this on GtPlanet?
 
I would post this thread in The Rumble Strip, where all off topic conversations should go...

I am moving this now...

:janitor:
 
Originally posted by AznAbyss86
i want to know were i can get some feedback about a question that recently arrose in my life... where can i do this on GtPlanet?
Click to expand...
The place to do that is here, in the Rumble Strip. You can feel free to talk about anything that's on your mind, as long as it's appropriate. I encourage personal and intellectual threads and topics. :)
 
well i'm not sure if its appropraite but its not sexual.....more dangerous life threatening...........well here it goes........my frne IMed me the other day and was like if i asked u to join this gang with me would you and said i prolly would....and he got me talking to this guy that i wont name but he's the leader and well i dont knoe what to do i mean i want to join but i dont knoe what the consequence could be :nervous: ........i mean i have only really thought about for a day and these are the only things i can think of that might happen to me...i mean this is really a life change decision. well it could possibly get me kicked out, shot, killed, or locked up. If i get kicked out then i will have some place to go but do i really wanna risk this????????i'm really not sure.....to get in i have to be blessed and the take a really hard hit to the chest........it could be worse my fren got me off easy........otherwise i would have to be jumped in otherwise known as being beaten by 3 guys for 3 min wihtout hitting back...........only thing u can do is block. I'm really not sure what to do :nervous: and to the moderators i'm sorry if this un-appropraite but i need some answer and non of my frenz will answer me they all say is ur choice ur life....only u can make but i want ot hear what other people have to say.......
 
IMO i don't think gangs are all that stupid, they make you feel like you are part of something, like you belong and they always got your back no matter what, but then there's the downside of gangs like violence,death etc., most gang members don't live longer than 19 yrs old.
Man i don't know if you can take it join, if you care about your life and the families of those around you don't
 
Hey Azn...I really do not know what to tell you. If you see this gang leader everyday then I dont know what to say. If you dont then just try not talking to him man. Just tell your friend that you really dont want to be a part of a gang right now. Your not ready. I can understand the "peer-pressure" but hey everyone goes through it. That is all the advice I know to give you man. If you ever need to talk you have my AIM name.
 
Dont do it, Its only going to mess you up for the rest of your life.
 
right now my family is just pressing me so much about stupid stuff that i guess deep down inside i feel that this will help make it better but i guess it wont but i can take join no doubt in that...but the question remains.............do i really want to take the chance i'm about to? my fren says since i'm questioing it now that i shouldn't join...but i dont know i mean they'll be like family and they wont ***** at me when i do bad in skool or yell at me when i mess up and do somthing bad bcuz most likely they'll be there doing it with me iono what to do i mean i want to join and i dont want to....but iono even know what to do........
 
Whats so hard about not joining? Its better to lose a friend then lose a life.
 
yea but a fren that has been with me for a while and stayed by my side through alot............a real friend maybe not worth losing and i only have 2 real friend willing to do whatever for me and me the same for them........
 
i would be throwing my life away but the way its headed now dont look very promising.........my grades at skool suck, parents dont trust me, losing touch with frenz not interrest in doing any work for skool, no colledge will take me with my grades.....no colledge no futrure not future no point
 
Would you rather make up for your mistakes and try and bring your grades up and get a decient job, or get yourself killed?
 
Yeah, do it! If you WANT to ruin your life...Of course, what kind of gangs do they have in Mary-land? Like, "Your car is too far from the curb."?
 
right now i'm a sophomore in hs and i have failed my whole 1st semester schedule........right now at least i'm passing but i dont think that a colledge will accept my grades as they r now.......and i have to make all those course just to graduate and thats alot.....i have to got summer school and night school just to make what i need........
 
Do not join the gang. Just don't.

As for school - yeah, it's a tough one. A degree is a big boost, because it basically makes it a lot easier to get a job in the future (best advice my old man gave me when I really 'lost the faith' with my economics degree in second year was 'I know you hate it, but just grind it out - you don't have to work in the accounting/finance field, but the degree means a lot more than just the study' - and he was damn right, never been out of work since I got my first job).

It might be worth seeing a counsellor of some description - I know it sounds dorky but it makes a world of difference getting this stuff off your chest.

When my mum died of cancer recently I was reluctant to seek counselling (being the macho male and all), but my partner talked me into going along to one with her, and it really, really helped. I know it's not directly relevant, but I've come around 180 degrees on the counselling thing - if approached with an open mind, it can be of great benefit.
 
Originally posted by vat_man
Do not join the gang. Just don't.

As for school - yeah, it's a tough one. A degree is a big boost, because it basically makes it a lot easier to get a job in the future (best advice my old man gave me when I really 'lost the faith' with my economics degree in second year was 'I know you hate it, but just grind it out - you don't have to work in the accounting/finance field, but the degree means a lot more than just the study' - and he was damn right, never been out of work since I got my first job).

It might be worth seeing a counsellor of some description - I know it sounds dorky but it makes a world of difference getting this stuff off your chest.

When my mum died of cancer recently I was reluctant to seek counselling (being the macho male and all), but my partner talked me into going along to one with her, and it really, really helped. I know it's not directly relevant, but I've come around 180 degrees on the counselling thing - if approached with an open mind, it can be of great benefit.
Click to expand...


sorry about your mom, im sorry i dont know how it feels since my mom is alive and all *knocks on wood*, but my hat goes down to you man
 

Similar threads

Oner
How about a Pic and a Story? Preface: Feeling Grateful, Hopeful, Loved & Motivated
Replies
0
Views
681
Oner
Oner
T
Question about steering physics on a DD wheel
Replies
0
Views
932
TurboBoy64
T
Chris30
My Mom Has Cancer! (Need Advice)!
2 3
Replies
83
Views
12K
Chris30
Chris30
Grimm6Jack
Selling Cars - Let's talk about this a bit more.
2 3
Replies
60
Views
19K
05XR8
05XR8
TheNormsk
How to read force feedback on a direct drive wheel?
Replies
4
Views
4K
Talon16
Talon16

Latest Posts

Back