So I have found a solution that has made my ffb 100% better. I will try to explain as best I can as I couldn't find a link that explained it all. Unfortunately this is a PC only fix as it includes editing your wheel properties in an xml file.
1. First thing you have to do is go to Steam/Steamapps/Common/Dirt Rally 2.0/input/devices and open a file called define_devices using notepad. Once you do that search for your wheel. for example mine was "t300". You will see a setting of "0.9" they used the exact same setting for al wheels lol.
2. Change that setting to a higher number, for me 6.0 worked best. What you are doing is greatly increasing the overall ffb input, but that means your wheel will be turning like a tank. So, the next thing you do is:
3. Go into your input setting in Dirt Rally 2.0 itself and turn down Self Aligning Torque. For me I had to set it all the way back to 0, also adjust Steering Center Force back accordingly.
4. What you are left with is ffb that reflects the road feel and still has appropriate steering response. This is assuming that you had already turned suspension, and the different frictions up already.
Upon reflection, you could probably just set that value to 5 and adjust your ingame settings accordingly. It's a little bit of work, but my ffb is pretty close to pcars 2 now and that is a good thing.
Edit, tldr. Simply put, turn your overall ffb setting up in that file then adjust down as needed within the game itself.
Edit edit. No offense to
@HUGHS1E , your settings helped with everything above the ground so to speak, but I still could not feel the track very well. This fixed that.