I do feel that this is a very sad statement.
I've played online games now for about 12 years. During that time I've met some of the biggest idiots the world has ever seen. But, I've also gone out of my way to make lasting friendships.
I now play online with about 10 or 12 people who are brilliant. We meet regularly, go camping, stay at each others houses and get drunk together. I've had one of them stay for Christmas on two separate occasions.
And as each and every year goes past they introduce me to new friends, Some come, some go but the difference is that you have to treat this as a long term deal. If you play with someone you can chat to, who you like, send them a PSN friend invite, with a message ( why do I get so many PSN invites from people with no message at all? ) and try and play with them again. They'll be just as glad to play with someone who isn't a 🤬 as you are.
I think you misinterpret my meaning on that.
I have also enjoyed some great comradery and racing online.
Not to the extent of friendship you describe, but I can relate to that potential.
However it is a different aspect and experience altogether.
Likewise I have enjoyed to the same degree, the comradery of fellow A-spec point enthusiasts in the pursuit and exploration of the Maximum point mystery in GT4.
There has been nothing for me like that experience in any racing game to date.
There is no mystery game within a game or challenge to match it online, offline or any other line.
(To understand what I'm talking about you would need do some research reading the original 200 A-spec point thread in the GT4 forum.)
Just to help give you some perspective on this, the original 200pt thread ran for 18 months, before it was converted into a seperate forum.
18 months! and it was just beginning.
I spent almost the same amount of time completing it, which was 2.5 years after the game had released.
Hopefully you can begin to comprehend the scope of game-play involved here.
Thats what I'm talking about.
From your post it appears the "online" comradery aspect is the most important draw for you in the game.
Hey, thats great and a plus.
But as I said, its still no substitute for the A-spec play potential of GT4.
It doesn't matter how good the AI becomes. It will never ever be as good as playing against a real person.
Depends on the person and the challenge.