look or personality

[Luminis]

A. You didnt fancy the woman/girl, then she started talking and because of her voice you became attracted to her

Yes, and regretted it.

B. You were attracted to the woman/girl, then she started talking and because of her voice you were instantly turned off.

Yes, and regretted it.

 

[Joel]

Anybody ever had the experience where either.

A. You didnt fancy the woman/girl, then she started talking and because of her voice you became attracted to her

Not quite, but my current girlfriend, I wasn't attracted to her initially, but over two years of being best friends, that connection grew. It of course helps that she's also very pretty (and very smart).

For me, I have a very wide spectrum of girls who would be acceptable in the looks department for me. However, the girl's brain and personality is the most important thing.

 

[W3H5]

look or personality?

Both. Mrs Shem is the perfect well mannered hottie.

 

[axletramp]

Looks can fade and personalities change. We're kind of talking extremes with these choices aren't we? I say just go with the flow and what feels right otherwise, according to this pole, you can end up having a sexless but fun relationship or ****ing someone who hates you at the end.

Actually option two doesn't sound that bad to me...

 

[Daniel]

Looks can fade and personalities change. We're kind of talking extremes with these choices aren't we? I say just go with the flow and what feels right otherwise, according to this pole, you can end up having a sexless but fun relationship or ****ing someone who hates you at the end.
Actually option two doesn't sound that bad to me...

One night stand?
For me, it's probably 60/40 for personality and looks. Main criteria is 'look good' and 'don't be bitchy'

 

[SRV2LOW4ME]

Looks are only important when you're wanting something to do for the night/weekend, but you should never date a hot girl. They're effin' crazy in the head, and the prettier they are, the more insane they get.

 

[Ibonibo]

Both

A Cubic meter with great personnality isn't gonna interest me, the same as a vaccum hottie doesn't stay long (but i admit at least the vaccum hottie gets a chance).

But there are plenty of girls with good looks and great personnality.

One does not exclude the other.

And what is hot? I might think of a hot girl other might call decent or fugly

All i want is not getting married to a crazyy b*****

 

[Famine]

Girls need personalities. A big pair of them.

 

[axletramp]

Indeed, no-one's happy. Some girls have great personalities, some are quieter and more withdrawn. Whichever they are, they're always going to have their knockers.

 

[ScouserInExile]

Breast size

 

[TheCracker]

Girls need personalities. A big pair of them.

Indeed, no-one's happy. Some girls have great personalities, some are quieter and more withdrawn. Whichever they are, they're always going to have their knockers.

Do eye-watering tits fall under looks or personality?

 

[axletramp]

Usually the shoulders. However, old Dolly Parton jokes tend to fall under dubious forum threads.

 

[Luminis]

Do eye-watering tits fall under looks or personality?

The knockers themselves = looks.
Her willingness to give you access to them = personality.

 

[dxm8975]

I too ask for both looks and personality being told that I'm to go along with a girl as a lover in a long term... but those only gifted with their lovely looks but lack their social courtesy are not very much acceptable for me. Girls who solely attract men by their appearance are easily discarded by men after the men had enough time of appeasing their temporary (sexual) desire, or their beauty fades over time no matter had the girls succeeded in associating with men at their first contact. Looks are certainly essential for girls to be charmful for boys looking for their girlfriends, but are required their ladylike personality to some extent to be genuinely appreciated by their partners.

 

[occasionalracer]

The knockers themselves = looks.
Her willingness to give you access to them = personality.

I thought I would have temporary access to this hottie one night, but turns out we along well, it's become permanent access well for the last 2 years.

That's the best way to put it... it must be initial sexual attraction/looks, personality wise it's whatever you make out of it and if you're serious about the future I guess you need to learn to accept and you'll change each other over time anyway.

 

[Michael88]

Looks are only important when you're wanting something to do for the night/weekend, but you should never date a hot girl. They're effin' crazy in the head, and the prettier they are, the more insane they get.

Hear hear! 👍

 

[Lucas]

Personality. But there has to be looks as well.

 

[Villain]

As Ron White said, "you can fix ugly, but you can't fix stupid."

 

[bass264]

Intellect, personality, and looks...

 

[photonrider]

Intellect, personality, and looks...

Are we talking cars, now?

 

[Danoff]

Personality is more important. But looks aren't exactly worthless.

 

[itsbenjibrand]

Looks.

I don't care if she's as dumb as a rock as long as there's no craziness.

 

[Danoff]

Dumb as a rock is not the worst option though when it comes to personality. Crazy is.

 

[Camaroyenko]

Girls need personalities. A big pair of them.

 

[sniper338]

Marry for money, that way if it doesn't work out you still come out ahead.

 

[rocko100]

Marry for money, that way if it doesn't work out you still come out ahead.

Woman never have money, if they do its from there a golddigger and all there money is from their Ex-Husbands divorce

 

[terminator363]

Everything. Personally I want her to be girl who doesn't give a rat's ass about much, but she's also intellectually awesome.

 

[Azure Flare]

Girls need personalities. A big pair of them.

That will be my new signature.

 

[Boffin]

Both - can't have one without the other. I first look to see if the girl is attractive and if they are I talk to them to scope out personality. There are a few absolute babes around uni that are just shallow and therefore I wish nothing to do with them in that aspect. On the other hand if you are a girl and you have a rocking personality but I don't find you attractive, then plutonic friends we are and I have many of them and we get along famously.
Very few pass my standards for both. No I am not a catch, but yeah, its sad how high my standards are. There are a few I have met that meet these but not many. :/
Its funny because I have thought about this and I can't lower my standards, its just not something I do. If I like you in that aspect, then thats that, and I can't bring myself to do something with a girl I don't feel that way about. I am simply unable to have a one night stand or drunken hookup.

 

[itsbenjibrand]

That will be my new signature.

It will be part of mine as well.