I use the dual shock controller in the game and, after thirteen years or so of practice, am getting pretty good at it. I don't use any AIDs, not even ABS. Ever. And I will never own a car in reality that does not allow me to permanently disable whatever electronic assists it does have. Nor will I ever posess a vehicle w/ an automatic transmission. These things are nothing but a distraction from what it is that I enjoy about driving.
After all, why have done for you what you can do for yourself?
I will even go so far as to say that if you use these things regularly, you will undoubtedly be a worse driver for it, at the very least when attempting to drive without them. Furthermore, precise throttle and brake modulation are two cornerstones of racing that you will not learn while using TCS/ABS on a regular basis.
As for our incessant need to argue; nothing feels better than having your own opinion validated, except, that is, successfully devaluing the opinion of others. As we have seen here time and time again. We all cheer for our team while booing the opposing side. It's human nature.
On that note: SRF is just plain bulls**t.