The problem with learning how to drive from the very beginning in a stick is that you're more likely to die. You can learn important things like gauging speed, maintaining speed, passing, checking blind spots, judging traffic, judging parking angles, parallel parking, smooth brake usage, traffic lights, stop signs, roundabouts, merging, proper following distance, etc. without having to also worry about which gear you're in, which gear you should be in, proper clutch usage, how to start on a hill, rev matching, etc.
		
		
	 
The first time I drove a car on a public road, was my first driving lesson on my 17th birthday, and it was a hill start.  I had had a couple of tries at driving before that on private property, so I knew a bit about biting points and what not, but I could still feel my clutch leg shaking as I let it out.  However, I got it moving and went up through the gears with no issues.
Your post makes it sound like you are coming at driving without seeing, or being driven in, a car.  While I was growing up, all the time I was in a car, I was watching what my dad was doing and paying attention to what was happening, how the roads worked, and other traffic (that I could see.)  All of that gives you an idea about what you are expected to do whilst driving.
I also think that there is a lot of "it's what you're used to."  I had never even sat in an automatic car until we went to Le Mans this year, never mind driving one.  All the time I was in a car whilst growing up, I was watching someone changing gear whilst driving. I knew that when I got to drive, it would be a manual and I had/have no inclination to get an automatic (with the exception of a car with paddle shift.) Were the cars that you were in whilst growing up manual or auto?  
I don't want to turn this into "America vs the rest of the world," but it does seem that the American roads system lends itself to autos.  For example, we don't have 4 way stops.  When we were in San Franciso, being driven around by Smallhorses, it was constant accelerate, stop, accelerate, stop, repeat ad infinitum it seemed.  Obviously, an auto is best for that kind of driving, and when you're caught up in a queue of traffic.  
When most of the driving you do is on open roads, 
and this is most of my commute to work, and I'm not usually in big cities to be caught up in traffic jams, I don't see the advantage of an automatic.